Great video, Baldhurts. I did online dating for many years and it was definitely a big disappointment for me because my goal was long term. I think if you just want to slay as you guys say, it might be a great option. I am old fashioned and came from a family with old fashioned values so my way to meet women feels most comfortable the way I did it was I was younger. I had the most success getting myself out there and going to places that I enjoyed. Of course I had to rely on bars mostly to meet. I also did well with people playing matchmaker.
I can tell you from experience dating can be very challenging if you don't like what you see in the mirror. Not only that but with BDD, you look for flaws in other people. And with that unfortunately you become very very picky and miss out on alot of opportunity meeting some great women. I don't think David or you have that same problem I do. Not only that but I need someone who is constantly engaging to keep me from getting bored. I try to educated myself on everything so I can at least be just as engaging. David, like I said before, you are going to need that or you are going to get bored too.
I will never forget when I was in college, there was this gorgeous girl who I had a crush on from a far. I felt she was out of my league. Too afraid to approach her as I figured she only goes for "chad". Eventually she found some guy outside of college that she ended up marrying. A few years later found out she always thought I was attractive and would have dated me if I would have asked her out. I blew that one big time all because I thought so low of myself. My advice to you baldhurts, if you see someone who catches your eye, then just give here a brow lift to see if she gives you one back. If she does, you can approach her. If not move on to the next one.
I thought of you guys today as I walked thru the town I work and I noticed the guys definitely are better looking than the women. Most guys are with someone 2 to 3 points lower. I think its because I work in a lower income area where the guys have the looks but they don't make alot of money. If you go to a more affluent area, I do see more looks matched people. However, I do notice most guys keep alot more fit than the women who they are with. I think most do outdoor physical work so it keeps them in shape. I think Baldhurts wants someone who likes to work out like he does. I always was attracted to women who love to go to the gym.