I will glady trade each inch of my height for a full Norwood grade down.
Is Looking "badass" The Only Option You Have?
- Thread starter The Curse of Dolkite
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I will glady trade each inch of my height for a full Norwood grade down.
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We are never happy im 185cm,and want to be 190cm 
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U re full head? So whats your height?
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yes thats true,good height gives you only advantage if you have good amount of hair,but fullhead with ugly face,then are you in bad position again
yes thats true,good height gives you only advantage if you have good amount of hair,but fullhead with ugly face,then are you in bad position again
I'm with Curse of Dolkite. #metoo
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You cannot be feminine and bald because it just doesn't look good.
I don't think you have to look like a 'bad ***' but you also cant be small and gentle looking.
You cannot be feminine and bald because it just doesn't look good.
I don't think you have to look like a 'bad ***' but you also cant be small and gentle looking.
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It's not that I want to look effeminate, I just think that extreme masculinity is ridiculous today. Guys here may think women swoon over big bald guys because they've seen it happen in the movies, but often women see them as mean-looking.
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You don't need to look like a badass, it doesn't have to be one extreme or the other.
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I feel like I'm somewhat stuck there. I'm overweight and don't see myself as threatening now. My options seem to be be fat and bald or be ripped and bald and while the latter is better than the former, it sucks to think of putting in all those hours of dieting and training and in the end, I'm not going to be happy because I'll still be seen as some big dumb bald guy.
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Dude no those are not your only choices. I literally made a post about this on the last page, if it was that easy everyone would be ripped. I WANT that ripped look and I don't have it even though I build muscle very easily because it takes a level of consistent diet and training I've yet to be able to achieve in 6 months, and that's with basically no social life, working from home and focusing intently on it. You won't become The Rock just because you're bald 6'3 and you touch a dumbell, it doesn't work like that. Much more modest increases in health and appearance are possible and in fact probable at your age.
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This, even if you do get so into it that you become a beefy monster who cares what people think? I guarantee you'll like yourself more when you look in the mirror and you'll feel better, you probably only expect to be in this world for giver or take 100 years and you're 40, gotta live for yourself at some point.
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I read your post about everybody being ripped/muscular. I am 6'3" and about 270, so I am pretty overweight. I can lose it and build muscle, and I think that is the answer. I don't expect to blow up, but I resent that my height and build and even weight mean that I will probably stay a big bald guy.
I know that I am never going to be some pretty-boy slender guy with a full head of hair but it takes a while to accept that yes, I am probably always going to be seen as that big bald stereotype I never thought was attractive. What has always tortured me is that I will probably never be attractive to the girls I want to date.
I know that I am never going to be some pretty-boy slender guy with a full head of hair but it takes a while to accept that yes, I am probably always going to be seen as that big bald stereotype I never thought was attractive. What has always tortured me is that I will probably never be attractive to the girls I want to date.
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I'm not shunning the advice I have been given. It's just hard to accept I have no alternative but to accept being a big bald guy. It's hard. I hate the notion of being a stereotype, since big bald guys are seen as ridiculous tough guys. I don't want to date a woman who thinks big bald guys are hot. It's trashy. I don't want a girl who wants some big man to protect her.
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Who wouldn't want to be bad ***?
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Because most decent women aren't into badasses. I don't want someone who finds professional wrestlers or other tough guys hot. I find women like Natalie Portman and Emma Watson attractive, and they'd be frightened by some big bald guy. In my experience, girls who like big guys are usually big women who want a big man to offset their own size and make them feel small.
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Tell Natalie and Emma I'm their biggest fans. Could you get me some signed memorabilia? Thanks!
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I would gladly go NW7 if it means being 6'1 with a proportional build.