I just had a good looking Spanish woman approach me and ask me out at my gym but again she's way too old (34ish)
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I just had a good looking Spanish woman approach me and ask me out at my gym but again she's way too old (34ish)
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Thanks bro means alot, i have been quite busy with my work and studies at the moment but i am still pretty obsessive about my hair. You are right though, there is always something people obsess over, i had acne aswel when i was like 15-16, then I obsessed over that lool. Then i would obsess over my height (even though i am 5’11) , most people around my area are literally 6ft+ , so i would think damm i am short lool. Now its my hair , damm it really is a cycle lol. Yeah i have read some of the Gita bro alot of wisdom in there, i come from a mixed family. My mum is white and christian , my dad is indian and hindu . So we were raised to consider both religions. Although i am a practicing Christian atm , i still do my dads religious stuff with him on some occasions out of respect.
You know what, i'm feeling charitable today so i'll tell you what you need to do. You need to buzz your hair - look below:
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guarantee you the photoshopped buzzcut picture gets way more right-swipes than the original
I've said it before. He could do a little undercut, buzz, shave etc. I don't get wtf his problem is.
I want something very specific and I keep waiting for it to happen by itself
I hate approaching women because I hate rejection
that's the honest truth. It doesn't matter how good looking or rich you are or how wonderful of a person you are, you need to approach a lot if you want an attractive and super high quality mid 20s female
I questioned your earnings which sounded made up
Higher testosterone makes aren't adverse to competition.
A real problem solver just gets it done. There's nothing about 'waiting' that screams win/succes!
There's a Jordan failure video. Watch it. Learn.
You know what to do. Go do it. If you had the stones, you would out perform us all. All smoke. No fire.
What do you mean you never had a girlfriend. None ever? No contact ever?cold approaching is completely worthless nowadays unless you're a 10/10. I would way the same is true for online dating. You need to look like nick batemen or chris hemsworth(thor) to succeed in those 2 facets. Women just have way too many options
What do you mean I care too much? I've never had a girlfriend. I've been relatively happy in life having zero meaningful dating experience - this is primarily because my life outside of dating is unbelievably perfect so I'm able to deflect all my frustrations.
What do you mean you never had a girlfriend. None ever? No contact ever?
That's your problem. Women tend to discount you if you have not had long term relationships. Hopefully, you don't tell them that. You sound like Goldilocks. This women is too old, this one has too many kids, this one is too fat, this one is too short. You are looking for a needle in a haystack. Even if you find one close to what you want, you will still find something you don't like about her and reject her. I know because I was the same. I finally realized that those women who you call 10's or whatever you call them are high maintenance and are going to to take alot of money and alot of work to make them happy. You may have the money but I don't think you have the stomach to deal what goes on in long term relationship. You think its a cake walk just because they are a 10?I've slept with maybe 12-15 women but none of them were anywhere near dating material (too old, had kids, not cute enough, not fit enough, etc...)
no I've never had anything resembling a real relationship
That's your problem. Women tend to discount you if you have not had long term relationships. Hopefully, you don't tell them that. You sound like Goldilocks. This women is too old, this one has too many kids, this one is too fat, this one is too short. You are looking for a needle in a haystack. Even if you find one close to what you want, you will still find something you don't like about her and reject her. I know because I was the same. I finally realized that those women who you call 10's or whatever you call them are high maintenance and are going to to take alot of money and alot of work to make them happy. You may have the money but I don't think you have the stomach to deal what goes on in long term relationship. You think its a cake walk just because they are a 10?
You may be smart and educated but you have no common sense. There are plenty of 7 or 8's who fit your description that would show some interest in you if you would just stop telling yourself all of them want male models. Most women want someone who is financially stable and mentally stable. Are you both?nah I'm not looking for a 10, more like a 7 or an 8 in terms of pure looks
I know I'm very demanding outside of looks but I'm not asking for anything I can't provide myself. I am smart, educated, no kids, family values, decent height (5'10), etc... I kinda want the female version of myself (strong preference for a woman with dark features like myself)
In a perfect world, I think I would date either an Italian, Spanish or middle eastern woman. Those are my 3 favorites
You may be smart and educated but you have no common sense. There are plenty of 7 or 8's who fit your description that would show some interest in you if you would just stop telling yourself all of them want male models. Most women want someone who is financially stable and mentally stable. Are you both?
paystub from early last month
52K in 3 months - that should translate to around 200K a year. I live in a cheap area also. My quality of life is absolutely magnificent.
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yea that's all fine and dandy but it doesn't make approaching any less painful or terrible
especially since attractive women always tend to make it very very difficult to approach them
what guyI've finally added this guy to my ignore list. Some guys don't procreate because women do not want that DNA lol