Women Critiquing The "nice Guy" Of Online Dating

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Where do you think the root of your ED is? I know you used to be overweight which may explain some of it.

What worries me is that finasteride might have gotten into the water supply.
 

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Where do you think the root of your ED is? I know you used to be overweight which may explain some of it.

Insulin resistance (obesity), excess masturbation, idealization of women from pornography, body image issues, fear of closeness, likely contribute.

When I first kissed a girl, it didn't feel fun. It felt weird, and it felt like work. I did not enjoy it at, and I kept not enjoying it for several dates ... until one day, it spontaneously felt nice. It happened after I had enjoyed a date and enjoyed her company more.
 

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That’s kind of funny but what do you really think here?

Edit: saw the reply. Makes sense I guess. Absolutely sucks and it’s a big deal-breaker for girls.

I can probably help myself with slightly better health and meds, but what I'll need to do is aim for a classical relationship, where I get to know the woman first and develop a comfort level, including trust. Unfortunately that's very difficult to do. Women look for experience.
 

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Insulin resistance (obesity), excess masturbation, idealization of women from pornography, body image issues, fear of closeness, likely contribute.

When I first kissed a girl, it didn't feel fun. It felt weird, and it felt like work. I did not enjoy it at, and I kept not enjoying it for several dates ... until one day, it spontaneously felt nice. It happened after I had enjoyed a date and enjoyed her company more.
No offense but do you think aspergers has anything to do with it?

I feel aspie about caring more about cuddling and the idea of a relationship with a cute girl than actual sex. Dat validation. Cud just be narcissism tho with the latter
 

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No offense but do you think aspergers has anything to do with it?

I feel aspie about caring more about cuddling and the idea of a relationship with a cute girl than actual sex. Dat validation. Cud just be narcissism tho with the latter

No.

In your case, I suspect that you're turtling in life because you're afraid of failure.
 

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No offense but do you think aspergers has anything to do with it?

I feel aspie about caring more about cuddling and the idea of a relationship with a cute girl than actual sex. Dat validation. Cud just be narcissism tho with the latter

I am like this but still get sex. Can't get into a relationship though. Well I can, but whenever I actually like a girl and want a relationship I don't feel like f*****g them and sex is the only way to keep them interested. The validation thing is big too. I feel like apart from girls who I don't like no girl has actually liked me. I want a nice sweet and non sl*t girl to like me who I share interests with and doesn't just want sex all day.
 

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I want a nice sweet and non sl*t girl to like me who I share interests with and doesn't just want sex all day.

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4-5 usually. Thoroughly unspectacular. One I had a ONS with I would be ashamed to be seen with in public. But it was f*****g amazing to have sex with her. I still think about that night from time to time.
You shouldn't be ashamed to be seen in public with any one.
Don't conform to this petty, irrational mindset.
 

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I want a nice sweet and non sl*t girl to like me who I share interests with and doesn't just want sex all day.
Hahaha... This is funny.
Some of you guys really have comic book ideas about some women.
Ya know, the so-called slooots.
 

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It’s your duty to smash man. If she wants it and you can get it up just do it. Even surface-level non-slutty ones get horny a lot.

One girl I was with for a brief time I absolutely hated having sex with. She was sort of attractive, but had a terrible-feeling pussy. She wanted it all the time too. It felt like a relief when I broke it off.
Call of Duty, to smash biatches!
 

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Hahaha... This is funny.
Some of you guys really have comic book ideas about some women.
Ya know, the so-called slooots.

All girls ever think about is sex. There is this one girl I'm talking to about cinema on okcupid atm and she keeps hinting at sex and meeting up with her to watch horror films with her (and chill likely) and it is grossing me out. All I want is just a casual app chat.
 

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All girls ever think about is sex. There is this one girl I'm talking to about cinema on okcupid atm and she keeps hinting at sex and meeting up with her to watch horror films with her (and chill likely) and it is grossing me out. All I want is just a casual app chat.

Ah brehbrah think of some of your triggered less privileged brehthren on here.

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All girls ever think about is sex. There is this one girl I'm talking to about cinema on okcupid atm and she keeps hinting at sex and meeting up with her to watch horror films with her (and chill likely) and it is grossing me out. All I want is just a casual app chat.
If you want to talk or have fun just do it with your male friends, they'd be less boring, more interesting, more fun than a woman from an okcupid. Just f*** that woman so hard, so she can stop thinking about sex for a while.
 
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