Tinder The Really Hard Truth About Girls

[tellersquill]

I admit that I don't know anything about Tinder but from what you guys are saying it sounds like a place where men and women exchange photos for hookups. If that's what it is then it's a lot easier than the clubs because at the clubs you have to carry on conversation that inspires (a little) and humors/entertains women without turning them off or boring them.

People use it for all sorts.

I've met someone on there and it wasn't a hook up. I've been dating her for 6 weeks now and its going well

 

[nameless]

People use it for all sorts.

I've met someone on there and it wasn't a hook up. I've been dating her for 6 weeks now and its going well

Congrats!

 

[g.i joey]

True!

Tbh I am terrible in clubs because its too loud for me.

I've actually met more dates on the street and in shops then in clubs.

I do great in clubs cause I get blackout drunk and I guess I get a little too aggressive, it seems to be what most girls like.

I do horrible in groups of people, my best time to bag a chick is either 1 on 1 or if I'm drunk lol, I tend to do well in any encironment when I'm wasted. But still, I get wasted like once every 2 months for the sole reason of not knowing my limits and blacking out 80% of the time

 

[Rudiger]

coooooooooopping strategy! to the rescue!

I was waiting for someone to say it, but I've got nothing to "cope" about, I'm very content with females being totally superficial. It's just that in reality, off Tinder, they don't have the same "flock" mentality that Tinder studies indicates, maybe overall there's some trends that are worth looking at, but I think case-by-case people deserve a bit more credit than what this study (and the many similar to it) would imply.

I thought I gave some valid reasons before as to why I felt like this but apparently it's just "cope" so why bother explaining again or explaining further.

 

[tellersquill]

Not being able to hear is different from being a dullard. And I know you're not just making excuses
because the volume in clubs sometimes makes things hard for me too, and I thrive in the clubs. I've
ditched some clubs because they were just too loud. It is what it is.

But it's also true that some guys have no idea how to entertain/engage women and that creates big problems for those guys in the clubs. At the clubs women DON'T want to talk about stupid sh*t, they DON'T want to be bored, and they DO want to have fun.

They don't want to be creeped-out with political-hack talk. And if a guy talks political-hack sh*t instead of simply having fun the conversation will get all serious (because he's brought serious sh*t into the coversation), she will get bored and creeped out by his hacky crap, and the initial attraction between them will die.

And when she politely ditches him he will get madder at women and sink deeper into his political extremism because he'll blame women for his failings. And all he had to do was go to the club, have fun, and entertain women, instead of trying to control everyone's political persuasions, and he could have gotten the girl and had some fun.

Yeah, I 100% agree.

Tbh I didn't know anyone who would try to talk politics in a club!

 

[nameless]

Yeah, I 100% agree.

Tbh I didn't know anyone who would try to talk politics in a club!

Oh I've seen it.

And I think there are a handful of guys here at this very site who would do stupid sh*t like that at a club or party. That's why I raised this issue of political hacking at clubs and parties. I think kj6723 probably does it.

Now if the party was specifically a political bash then that's different but I've seen them do it at regular parties and clubs.

As a matter of fact, a lot of people complain about Bruce Willis's political-hacking at clubs and parties. He's infamous for this type of behavior. Of course Bruce Willis can still get women despite that crap but he's rich and famous. Regular guys can't get away with that sh!t at parties and clubs.

 

[tellersquill]

Oh I've seen it.

And I think there are a handful of guys here at this very site who would do stupid sh*t like that at a club or party.

Now if the party was specifically a political bash then that's different but I've seen them do it at regular parties and clubs.

As a matter of fact, a lot of people used to complain about Bruce Willis doing that at clubs and parties. He's infamous for this type of behavior. Of course Bruce Willis could still get women despite that crap but he's rich and famous. Regular guys can't get away with that sh!t at parties and clubs.

I think a lot of people are overly serious in general. They cant switch off and have fun. They have lost their inner child.

 

[hairblues]

Perhaps because there are few hot women overall.

Or maybe they are just more realistic that its an obviously fake profile.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I think a lot of people are overly serious in general. They cant switch off and have fun. They have lost their inner child.

Maybe their "inner child" was so abused when they were a child that as an adult they are still afraid of abuse and rejection. So they put up a wall and are very guarded so they won't get hurt again. Of course, if you had a great childhood, then I guess you would be right.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

I woke up today 187 Matches now finally.
Interestingly, there is almost no beautiful woman ;(¨

Okay 2 girls are really hot or nice but the other 185 girls are really below average
Fat, Unsymmetrical faces
My search field was between 18 and 39 and the most matches are with women over 35.


Dante it's all about an amazing good photographer

Here is the same guy from my pictures which is used for tinder: (the right one)
In real life he is small and thin

His girlfriend looks like lesbian with that short haircut and flannel shirt on.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Thats weird because they are obviously fake/professional photos of probably a model.

I usually just use porno star pics on my fake profiles since their low quality makes them look more believable.

 

[blackg]

Thats weird because they are obviously fake/professional photos of probably a model.

Yeah I was thinking the same.

 

[Roberto_72]

I was waiting for someone to say it, but I've got nothing to "cope" about, I'm very content with females being totally superficial. It's just that in reality, off Tinder, they don't have the same "flock" mentality that Tinder studies indicates, maybe overall there's some trends that are worth looking at, but I think case-by-case people deserve a bit more credit than what this study (and the many similar to it) would imply.

I thought I gave some valid reasons before as to why I felt like this but apparently it's just "cope" so why bother explaining again or explaining further.

It is also true that the mentality of younger generations is changing swiftly into a "herd" mentality.

The "tinder" application is not so successful because it is the only app that exists. It is so successful because it reflects the way most younger men and women see relationships in the smartphone era.

Of course there are exceptions.

But try to go to an IKEA on a Saturday afternoon and observe how younger couples are matched.
I think fifteen years ago there was much more variability in the looks of couples. Today, you can look at one of the two people and predict what the other person will look like.
Tall, lean girl? The boy will be two inches taller and be an obvious gym addict.
Boy with good hair? The girl will be blonde or have perfect make up.
Unkempt girl? The boy will be a nerd.

AFAIR, in the 90s other factors brought couples together that were not only looking good together.

 

[tellersquill]

It is also true that the mentality of younger generations is changing swiftly into a "herd" mentality.

The "tinder" application is not so successful because it is the only app that exists. It is so successful because it reflects the way most younger men and women see relationships in the smartphone era.

Of course there are exceptions.

But try to go to an IKEA on a Saturday afternoon and observe how younger couples are matched.
I think fifteen years ago there was much more variability in the looks of couples. Today, you can look at one of the two people and predict what the other person will look like.
Tall, lean girl? The boy will be two inches taller and be an obvious gym addict.
Boy with good hair? The girl will be blonde or have perfect make up.
Unkempt girl? The boy will be a nerd.

AFAIR, in the 90s other factors brought couples together that were not only looking good together.

Yup. There used to be more variety and it was quite reassuring.

Seeing an ugly man with a pretty girl was someone how more uplifting.

 

[blackg]

Ahhh... life was soooo much simpler back in the day.
(sarcasm)

 

[herehairhere]

A friend of mine matched with a stewardess from Nairobi, met her in her hotel room where she sucked him off and he went on his merry way again. Haven't quite managed to wrap my head around the insanity of the situation: a nubile Nairobian flies across contintents, fires up tinder
from the comfort of her hotel room and invites a complete stranger over & a guy travelling a total of 3 hours in the hope of f*****g a stewardess. These are certainly interesting times.

 

[tellersquill]

A friend of mine matched with a stewardess from Nairobi, met her in her hotel room where she sucked him off and he went on his merry way again. Haven't quite managed to wrap my head around the insanity of the situation: a nubile Nairobian flies across contintents, fires up tinder
from the comfort of her hotel room and invites a complete stranger over & a guy travelling a total of 3 hours in the hope of f*****g a stewardess. These are certainly interesting times.

It brilliant, isn't it?

In the past he would have had to go to bars and waste hours. Now he can just meet like minded people without leaving the house.

 

[herehairhere]

It brilliant, isn't it?

In the past he would have had to go to bars and waste hours. Now he can just meet like minded people without leaving the house.

It is still a weird idea to me and I suppose the people that put a lot of effort in messaging others & go on a lot of dates must have their moments where they stop and think 'what am I even doing?'

"Interesting" if you're good looking.

There are other things this century has to offer, such as exchanging messages with an Italian Pepe meme artisan who compares himself to lebensunwertes leben caricatures in der Stürmer.

 

[tellersquill]

It is still a weird idea to me and I suppose the people that spend a lot of effort in messaging others & go on a lot of dates must have their moments where they stop and think 'what am I even doing?'


There are other things this century has to offer, such as exchanging messages with an Italian Pepe meme artisan who compares himself to lebensunwertes leben caricatures in der Stürmer.

You do sometimes wonder.

I'm glad for the fun I've had but I have spent a lot of my free time sleeping around when I could have been writing, or reading, or watching films or something.

I think i'll do a lot of the other stuff when I am older and don't want to sleep around anymore.

 

[Dante92]

There are other things this century has to offer, such as exchanging messages with an Italian Pepe meme artisan who compares himself to lebensunwertes leben caricatures in der Stürmer.

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