I'm going through some profiles right now, putting in a modicum of effort.
Excerpt from a 33 year-old woman's profile:
"I am very family oriented (live with my parents)."
Damn, can you imagine if a 33 year-old man wrote that?
What pretty 26 year-old women get away with writing as their entire profile:
"
Do not waste my time, and i will not waste your time. Im a laid back down to earth person.Not interested in head games, or little boys. Don't judge me on your past relationships.
Most Important
Do NOT send me multiple messages trying to get my attention."
Notice it's entirely about what the man shouldn't be, not what he should be, and there's nothing written about her.
Another woman's profile:
"
About Me
"
No seriously, that's all.
Anyway, I sent 6 pof messages, probably none of whom are writing back let alone meeting me let alone f*****g me.
Now, on OkCupid tonight ...
"
You should message me if:
You've taken the time to read through my profile and are still interested."
You sure? What if I'm not interested, why shouldn't I message you then?
Another girl looks fine in her profile pic. I then look through her other pics and she is ... MASSIVE. It's amazing how women just pack less fat in the face. You can't tell how fit a woman is just from her face, not as easily as with men.
OK, i sent 4 messages on OkCupid, and as before ...