dudemon said:FWIW, I guess its time for me to chime in here. :jackit:
IMO, there are only TWO reasons a woman likes a guy who has lots of friends:
1) She is insecure about herself, and wishes to feel "popular" by dating a guy with a lot of friends, or
2) She is more interested in the FRIENDS and not so much the guy whose friends they are... because she intends on SLEEPING with them, and not the guy she is dating. He is merely a "stepping stone" ...(remember the old Monkees song, "I'm not your stepping stone"?)
It creates status and make people to want to get close to you, including girlsuncomfortable man said:Having a ton of friends is a pain in the ***. Too much maintenance for me.
Technical said:Keep healthy skin, dress well, maintain hygiene and workout. That's it, that's all appearance really is.
Agree. That kind of thing is a disasterantman said:Technical said:Keep healthy skin, dress well, maintain hygiene and workout. That's it, that's all appearance really is.
its disheartening to do all those things and still look like ***.
to be 21 and know there is absolutely nothing you can do to look good doesn't create the best feeling.
That may hold true but the problem is that even plenty of "average" girls you wouldn't pin for being shallow still wouldn't date a bald guy even if he followed all v things below.Technical said:If you seek shallow women, they'll judge you for shallow reasons.
Similarly, if you seek women shallowly, they'll be shallow.
Technical said:You deserve every bit of criticism and disgust from these women that you have coming to you. It's really not hard. Keep healthy skin, dress well, maintain hygiene and workout. That's it, that's all appearance really is. After that you can't do anything with it, so there is no point in focusing on it. Instead focus on the things that will actually make you happy, like a passion in your work and making yourself a better person./quote]
antman said:my last avatar was me; this is how i look. and
i'm not held back by hair loss.
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Man in Space said:HAHA UM!!
Here goes, roll over Exodus!
Ive only seen a couple of pics of you, in that one where you had your hair buzzed you looked a lot better.Look at it this way, as far as i can remember you have tidy features no glaring issues, you got great skin tone, there isnt actually anything wrong with your appearence. On that basis, you have a foundation of at least 6/10 and then its a case of building yourself up. I dont know what your conditioning is like but if you get a little cut that would help, and then if you get dressed sharp and work on your confidence with women then your a comfortable 7. If you develop your career too and really get your sh*t together then you can expect to score with 8s. If you dont do these things then you are gonna average out at around 6 id say.
Im rating you the way a woman would here, Things like confidence and a good career will take your ranking up. Also the 10/10 scale is the real world one, not the Johnny Depp is 10 and we work down scale, that world is total fantasy and frankly if hes a 10, with his millions etc then none of us are even a 1.
Thats the last time im doing the ranking thing, its silly! I just wanted to show you in a way you can relate to that I genuinely think its there is nothing wrong with your appearence, but there is something wrong with the way your looking at things and that is whats holding you back, your not even giving yourself the chance to succeed.