- Reaction score
- 4,602
This user is responsible for driving most of the women off the site.
This user is responsible for driving most of the women off the site.
Ehh tbh for me, my minimum requirements are a white or asian intelligent and refined/interesting HEALTHY WEIGHT 6+ lol
Still dont think thats asking for a lot, altho nowadays with the explosion of the fat population maybe it is
But you need to stop blaming other factors and take responsibility for yourself. I want you to succeed, but it won't happen if you continue to believe in this victim mentality.
Excuses @Exodus2011
We have to save him if that's the case. All members in Hair loss talk find Xander a girl before sh*t gets serious.Xander94= Elliot Rodger v2 soon
Decent good looking guy who develops a hatred for women due to his constant excuse making of why he can't get with women, then goes on a tirade of how a man needs x, y, z to get a 4/10 woman.
Becomes delusional by going on websites like lookism and the likes and further believes that looks are everything and nothing else matters, but doesn't want to admit hes already decent looking and doesn't want to look deeper inside himself to see the root cause of why he can't get any women. And its pretty obvious: as cope said 1.2k posts in August alone, not to mention the several other accounts he has on those websites.
Instead of going out and being sociable, he holes himself in his parents basement and reads constant bullshit on why women today need everything from a guy to even consider them, doesn't realise if he went out and put himself out there as a tall, decent looking guy he might get with a woman. But noooo, @Xander94 loves to come up with excuses why he can't.
The case of @Xander94 is similar to those isis fighters or individuals who become terrorists: they get so delusional and misled and brainwashed from all the sh*t they read and watch online that they believe it to be all true. Added to the fact like said terrorist, @Xander94 is clearly a disturbed, young individual with obviously large amounts of built up sexual desires which are unmet in his 23 years of living and you have a recipe for disaster.
Would not surprise me if @Xander94 is elliot rodger v2.
No update yet. I lost weight but still weirdly shaped...
Cosmetic stuff is super expensive, I can barely pay for it!
Anyway, that's life!
It's not up to other people to help Xander. He has to help himself.We have to save him if that's the case. All members in Hair loss talk find Xander a girl before sh*t gets serious.
cellulite and stretch marks are equals to balding tbh
it's still possible to hide though
Yes, he has to take the first step. But there're many users on here who have experience with women and relationships and are older than him, so i think they can also help him advance to further steps.I think that Xander has more self-awareness and empathy than Elliott Rodger did, he doesn't antagonize everybody, so it's not a convincing analogy in my opinion. Xander is also willing to put in some effort into living life, I think that he has a job and he goes to a boxing gym, whereas Rodger had no hobbies other than complaining.
It's not up to other people to help Xander. He has to help himself.
One thing that revolts me is when women in their forties, fifties, etc have a ton of lines around their neck. That and oversized Adam's apples in men trigger me.
But I am also Balding
Hes not going to be Elliot Rodger. Just saying that so he can f*****g do something besides complaining and not doing anything about his situation. Hes a tall good looking guy.I think that Xander has more self-awareness and empathy than Elliott Rodger did, he doesn't antagonize everybody, so it's not a convincing analogy in my opinion. Xander is also willing to put in some effort into living life, I think that he has a job and he goes to a boxing gym, whereas Rodger had no hobbies other than complaining.
It's not up to other people to help Xander. He has to help himself.
There is still something I don't get, it's guys saying girls are hypergamous b****s but at the same time having crazing high standards whereas looking not good...
How do you know its in the realm of possibility for me?Dude it's not out of the realm of possibility for you. But you need to turn your life around. If you work on all other aspects of your life this is attainable, even if you choose not to get a transplant to at least frame the front (since people have said you have good donor hair on here).
Finish your degree, get a job and get your own place, slowly build your social circle, and become more appealing to the women you are interested in. It's not rocket science. Think from their perspective, why would they be interested in you? Work on these things.
But you need to stop blaming other factors and take responsibility for yourself. I want you to succeed, but it won't happen if you continue to believe in this victim mentality.
How do you know its in the realm of possibility for me?
The only thing i could do to make my situation better is a hair transplant, im just too unmotivated and terrified to be the only fuckin bald guy in college
Even if i did get hair back i was still 5'6 with a small frame. Typical 6 inch wrist twink. I would at least have hope though , i would be satisfied with just getting hair back
Scalp transplant.I don't think hair transplant would help though
Toupee only
Scalp transplant.