Having great hair makes you look really young.....

[Guest]

He means just get laid for the experience then work on finding your ideal girl. Taug how many times does it have to be said you are not ugly you are at least average you put yourself down way to much everyone on here agrees with that.

Ok, I understand, I thought about that, too. I might try to score with a guysnyounger girl, they are often attracted just because they are older. Though I have nothing to offer as other guys my age do. I have no car, no experience and at weekends I am still living with my mother. And I also wonder what other people might think when I am trying it with a 17year old or so. Even though 16 year olds are legal over here it is not really well tolerated.


And it is nice that you guys are trying to encourage me that I am not ugly, but I have decided not to care too much about what some anonymous guys on a hair loss board are saying about my looks. I rather base my judgement on my real life experience.

my suggestion is , just ask someone in real life how you look. it takes some balls but its worth the effort in long term. maybe go to a club and ask any girl you approach. i know it takes many balls to do that.

but just do it. or you will never come away from that "i am ugly" perspective.

dont be like a girl. guys arent ugly or pretty. they are just men.

 

[blondeguy]

I would estimate him around 50 if you would ask me. It is not only his youthful face but also his brilliant hair, which alone makes him about 10 younger I would say.

...

Can you get a better compliment for your hair than being accused of wearing a wig?

That brilliant hair looks like a toupee. It really stands out on his head. Looking like wearing a wig has to be the worst kind of compliment!

He might dye it, I am not sure about it, but I don´t see this a as a big deal. I would do this as well if I still have some hair left before I am going grey..... :cry: He probably is just too proud to admit it.

If he's too proud to let himself go gray, I wonder what else he's hiding. Either way, I'm not surprised at how old he really is.

As for thinking you're ugly, you're using it as an excuse to be anti-social. Even "ugly" guys get attractive women if they really want to. If you were really content to accept that you were ugly and will never get together with someone, you wouldn't be bringing it up all the time. Deep down, you're lonely, and you don't need to be. I have yet to see an unattractive person on this entire forum.

 

[Guest]

my suggestion is , just ask someone in real life how you look. it takes some balls but its worth the effort in long term. maybe go to a club and ask any girl you approach. i know it takes many balls to do that.

but just do it. or you will never come away from that "i am ugly" perspective.

dont be like a girl. guys arent ugly or pretty. they are just men.

Well, this may sound like a good idea in theory, but I doubt it would work. Most women wouldn´t be honest since they don´t want to seem cruel and say some PC sh*t. It is like when they are telling their boyfriends "Size doesn´t matter" even though deep inside it does matter to them......

 

[Guest]

my suggestion is , just ask someone in real life how you look. it takes some balls but its worth the effort in long term. maybe go to a club and ask any girl you approach. i know it takes many balls to do that.

but just do it. or you will never come away from that "i am ugly" perspective.

dont be like a girl. guys arent ugly or pretty. they are just men.

Well, this may sound like a good idea in theory, but I doubt it would work. Most women wouldn´t be honest since they don´t want to seem cruel and say some PC $#iT. It is like when they are telling their boyfriends "Size doesn´t matter" even though deep inside it does matter to them......

How can you know that size matters to every single girl out there? Or the looks for that matter? I'm not buying that, and neither should you.

 

[Guest]

my suggestion is , just ask someone in real life how you look. it takes some balls but its worth the effort in long term. maybe go to a club and ask any girl you approach. i know it takes many balls to do that.

but just do it. or you will never come away from that "i am ugly" perspective.

dont be like a girl. guys arent ugly or pretty. they are just men.

Well, this may sound like a good idea in theory, but I doubt it would work. Most women wouldn´t be honest since they don´t want to seem cruel and say some PC $#iT. It is like when they are telling their boyfriends "Size doesn´t matter" even though deep inside it does matter to them......

its not only good in theory. i know you dont have friends and probably you dont believe your family coz family always says nice things.

do you know some people at your university maybe to who you have good contact? if not then try to get such, if you do have, then ask them!

if its guys, they will tell you the truth if you ask them for their honest opinion. maybe the idea with a girl a club wasnt so good. maybe this with guys at university could work.

really, everyone in here says you look normal. why should they lie to you? you know how critical everyone in here is with looks? my opinion is the same, you look normal. okay. maybe do you believe me? its my honest opinion. i dont have any reason to "make you feel better" or any other bullshit. and so dont have the others. they just give you their honest opinion. you know, they even said that ccs' girl is ugly. but yet , they didnt say you are ugly.

why not believe us? well, at your standards, i dont know them, but they seem very high, maybe then you are "ugly". okay, compared to david beckham, you are "ugly". but what does that say? nearly every guy is "ugly" compared to david beckham.

i got a girl friend. once in school, another girl told her that her nose was very big. it wasnt even meant as an insult. but yet she still thinks that her nose is too big. i saw her nose and its pretty normal.

you got told by kids from school you are ugly? that doesnt mean anything . i dont know why they did it.

you know what matters? its how other people especially girls see your appearance. and even heterosexuel men, which most in here are, can pretty good say if you look "ugly" "normal" or "handsome" . all said you look "normal". so you can assume that you look "normal". its a honest opinion from everyone.

they dont try to make you feel better! yet they laugh at you , because you think you are ugly. you know some people in here already make fun of you coz you think you are "ugly". doesnt that make you think about it?

that you maybe look normal and not "ugly"? doesnt that come to your mind if you think about these facts?

forget these kids. kids are very bad in saying if someone looks good or not.

so again, my honest opinion and the one of all others in here is, you look normal. accept that.

people out there see you the same. people in here are not other than the people at your university. they are even very much the same, coz they are in the same age. its not that some 50 years old tell you that you look normal.

see if we would like to make you feel good , we would say you look handsome. but we dont coz we give you our honest opinion.

okay enough repeating.

i hope i helped you.

 

[IBM]

One of the benefits of finasteride is that it kills your sex drive. Why have a sex drive if you cant get sex?

Almost any guy can get sex, if he's prepared to lower his standards to enough. It's not as if all women are goddesses, is it?

Pffff... What is the propose to have sex with someone we dont want? Besides of cause nausea it will take us down after the act.

 

[Guest]

i want to add something.

maybe after my last post you get to understand that you look normal.

yet its only theory. you will theoreticly know that you look normal.

but that doesnt yet give you the feeling of looking normal probably. i dont know. i think for getting a feeling of looking normal which will lead to more confidence and more believing of getting a cute girlfriend, you need to realize it in reality. you need to feel that you look normal.

that is hard to reach. my suggestion here is, try to catch some glances from girls. since you look normal and not handsome , try catching glances from normal looking girls. please at least here lower your standards since its pretty important for your confidence which is pretty important to get a hot girl.

you got me?

 

[Guest]

How can you know that size matters to every single girl out there? Or the looks for that matter? I'm not buying that, and neither should you.

Well, the size thing was just an example. I don´t think it matters to any girl out there. I am sure there are even many girls who are short and rather prefer a smaller guy. But looks I think matter to any person . Those who claim otherwise are liars and hypocrites to me.

 

[IBM]

Taug i never comment your look. Do you want my honest opinion? I'm always honest.

 

[Guest]

Taug i never comment your look. Do you want my honest opinion? I'm always honest.

tell.

 

[IBM]

Taug i never comment your look. Do you want my honest opinion? I'm always honest.

tell.

It's his choice not yours. My honest opinion may hurt.

 

[Guest]

then i know what you want to say.

 

[Guest]

Taug i never comment your look. Do you want my honest opinion? I'm always honest.

tell.

It's his choice not yours. My honest opinion may hurt.

You really are a f*****g c**t. You're so full of negativity. You come here every day with your negative bullcrap, no wonder you're depressed.

 

[Solo]

For a guy, just the fact of questioning his own appearance makes him lost the majority of his attractive.


If you lack confidence and self-steem you´ll probably attract only a girl who wants to manipulate you (a punisher, vengeful b**ch) or a troubled girl who feels that she´s incapable of getting a regular man. Or you can find a truely nice girl, one close to you and your interests, who don´t follow the stupid rules of mating and loves you for the good things you have.


But, anyway, in my opinion this it´s not a looks problem.

If taugenitchs would've been through REAL problems and would've overcome them, the guy would show a different character.

The silly frustration with his face and his hair could come from his lifestyle, all the day locked in his room in mommy´s house, never taking the risk and facing life.

The guy needs friends, going out and having fun, getting arrested and doing crazy things, getting insulted, embarrased, insulting, grabbing some random *** and being kicked in the balls, and overcoming the troubles of life.

Just to put in perspective the value of a pretty face and good hair to show perfectly groomed and shining at the Gay Pride Festival.

 

[IBM]

Taug i never comment your look. Do you want my honest opinion? I'm always honest.

tell.

It's his choice not yours. My honest opinion may hurt.

You really are a f****ing c**t. You're so full of negativity. You come here every day with your negative bullcrap, no wonder you're depressed.

Negativity? I only tell what i perceive. I'm not crazy though the majority thinks i am. Welcome to reality buddy.

 

[Guest]

its not only good in theory. i know you dont have friends and probably you dont believe your family coz family always says nice things.

Yes, my mother and my sister say I am not ugly. I can´t take them serious, since they see me as a relative and not in a sexual way.

do you know some people at your university maybe to who you have good contact? if not then try to get such, if you do have, then ask them!

I know zero people, I literally know nobody at my University. I always sit alone in lectures and due to my lack of social skill I am unable to make any contacts.

really, everyone in here says you look normal. why should they lie to you? you know how critical everyone in here is with looks? my opinion is the same, you look normal. okay. maybe do you believe me? its my honest opinion. i dont have any reason to "make you feel better" or any other bullshit. and so dont have the others. they just give you their honest opinion. you know, they even said that ccs' girl is ugly. but yet , they didnt say you are ugly.

Well, people here are only critical when it comes to their own looks. They are very gentle with other people. I have seen people telling to Norwood 2.5s that they have great hair. And it may even be possible that they think I look normal, since to them an ugly person looks like Quasimodo or the Elephant man. Yes, I know I am better looking than those, but this shouldn´t be a standard when judging looks.
And when it goes to females they (like me) are much more critical as well. Us hetero guys can simply judge women much better than men. From a female point of view I simply look ugly.

why not believe us? well, at your standards, i dont know them, but they seem very high, maybe then you are "ugly". okay, compared to david beckham, you are "ugly". but what does that say? nearly every guy is "ugly" compared to david beckham.

Yes, if I had to name a goodlooking male I would choose Beckham, but I am not comparing myself to them. I know we aren´t in the same league. I am comparing myself to the above average guys on the street and compared to them I am ugly as well.

you got told by kids from school you are ugly? that doesnt mean anything . i dont know why they did it.

Not by kids, mostly by other teenagers. So, why they should have called me ugly if I wasn´t ugly. Do you think David Beckham ever got called ugly?

you know what matters? its how other people especially girls see your appearance.

I had only one girlfriend in my life. At the age of 6. This pretty much says how women see me.....My pen friend´s girlfriend also confirmed that I am ugly!

they dont try to make you feel better! yet they laugh at you , because you think you are ugly. you know some people in here already make fun of you coz you think you are "ugly". doesnt that make you think about it?

Well, if it is so entertaining for them..... I am very emotional and I post about my feeling openly. This might seem strange for some.

people out there see you the same. people in here are not other than the people at your university. they are even very much the same, coz they are in the same age. its not that some 50 years old tell you that you look normal.

Yes, from a guy´s point of view who is not obsessed with looks I may look normal, but as I said I am not really interested in the opinion of other males. It´s the females that count.

 

[Guest]

i want to add something.

maybe after my last post you get to understand that you look normal.

yet its only theory. you will theoreticly know that you look normal.

but that doesnt yet give you the feeling of looking normal probably. i dont know. i think for getting a feeling of looking normal which will lead to more confidence and more believing of getting a cute girlfriend, you need to realize it in reality. you need to feel that you look normal.

that is hard to reach. my suggestion here is, try to catch some glances from girls. since you look normal and not handsome , try catching glances from normal looking girls. please at least here lower your standards since its pretty important for your confidence which is pretty important to get a hot girl.

you got me?

Well, how do I actually get glances from girls? They usually turn away when they meet my eyes or ignore me at best, no matter how good they look like. I mean, if I am ugly to a hot girl, I am also ugly to an average girl.....

 

[Guest]

@ IBM, yes, post your honest opinion. It is not that it will change anything for me, but I am interested nevertheless.

 

[Pondle]

Jeez man, you've got some serious self-esteem issues. You need to see a counsellor, or get yourself some hypnotherapy or something.

 

[Nathaniel]

Like what Solo said you need to get a feel for life. Do you have a job? It will get better for you once you have to deal with work since your mind will wonder away from all this crap.