Tinder, Bumble, And Other Dating Sites.

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what a coincidence phrase White knight was shout on the last page and @buckthorn summoned immediately

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Was that TMI? LOL i don't know if i should delete that.
 

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Trying to swipe indiscriminately to see what happens ...

Bumble, 25 swipes, no matches
Tinder, 25 swipes, one match, turns out it's a bot (lol).
Jswipe, 25 swipes, no matches

Might check in a couple days, I may need for these women to catch up to me. Probably not.

One woman on jswipe, and one woman on pof (both adequate), had messaged me but I had not noticed. I messaged back.

I messaged 9 women on pof today, nobody had anything ridiculous on their profile, two of them wrote back to me by the time I was done. I wrote back. One responded again, so I gave her a joke and then asked her to meet for a drink.

I messaged 3 women off OkCupid just now, I didn't see anything ridiculous. I was a bit impressed by how worldly they are -- I know very little about music and about art, when people discuss it I have little to say.
 

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Was that TMI? LOL i don't know if i should delete that.
I'm the king of TMI, so I'm not right person to ask.

I have had intermediate function since age 23. The issue arose spontaneously.

The doctors have not said anything useful. It's why I'm likely giving up and considering steroids in a few months.

In the past I've been told:
1) Depression. Did two years of various anti-depressants and got nothing but side effects.
2) Prostatitis. Took antibiotics and did nothing.
3) Saw palmetto might help. I took it for months and it didn't help.
4) Lose weight. I lost 60 lbs and am now at a below average weight, no change.
5) Blood might be an issue. I took a lot of blood tests, I'm normal or above average in all respects, from cholesterol to glucose to testosterone.

The last urologist I saw didn't know anything. She referred me to a psychiatrist, so I'm going to go to a sexual health clinic and I have a 4 hour 30 minute appointment in a month.

I would like to weight train and put on muscle, but I cannot do so until April due to my hernia.
 
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I have had intermediate function since age 23. The issue arose spontaneously.

The doctors have not said anything useful. It's why I'm likely giving up and considering steroids in a few months.

In the past I've been told:
1) Depression. Did two years of various anti-depressants and got nothing but side effects.
2) Prostatitis. Took antibiotics and did nothing.
3) Saw palmetto might help. I took it for months and it didn't help.
4) Lose weight. I lost 60 lbs and am now at a below average weight, no change.
5) Blood might be an issue. I took a lot of blood tests, I'm normal or above average in all respects, from cholesterol to glucose to testosterone.

The last urologist I saw didn't know anything. She referred me to a psychiatrist, so I'm going to go to a sexual health clinic and I have a 4 hour 30 minute appointment in a month.

I would like to weight train and put on muscle, but I cannot do so until April due to my hernia.


I'm the king of TMI and if you want to approach that level you're going to have to work really hard.
If you are able to jerk off then you don't have physical ED


She didn't know of anything, because there is NOTHING.

dick got used to your hand, and pornography over the decade that it doesn't even know how to respond to a women.


I told you many times, I feel like I am talking to a rock.


Completely abstain from masterbation, and pornography.

Reboot with a women. Eventually your erections will come back once you are comfortable with being around a women.

Anxiety will make you think you go LIMP.

I had this issue before. Completely gone nowadays.
 

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If you are able to jerk off then you don't have physical ED


She didn't know of anything, because there is NOTHING.

dick got used to your hand, and pornography over the decade that it doesn't even know how to respond to a women.


I told you many times, I feel like I am talking to a rock.


Completely abstain from masterbation, and pornography.

Reboot with a women. Eventually your erections will come back once you are comfortable with being around a women.

Anxiety will make you think you go LIMP.

I had this issue before. Completely gone nowadays.

We've discussed this many times.

I don't disagree with anything you're saying. With that said, there are logistical problems.
 

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Trying to swipe indiscriminately to see what happens ...

Bumble, 25 swipes, no matches
Tinder, 25 swipes, one match, turns out it's a bot (lol).
Jswipe, 25 swipes, no matches

Might check in a couple days, I may need for these women to catch up to me. Probably not.

One woman on jswipe, and one woman on pof (both adequate), had messaged me but I had not noticed. I messaged back.

I messaged 9 women on pof today, nobody had anything ridiculous on their profile, two of them wrote back to me by the time I was done. I wrote back. One responded again, so I gave her a joke and then asked her to meet for a drink.

I messaged 3 women off OkCupid just now, I didn't see anything ridiculous. I was a bit impressed by how worldly they are -- I know very little about music and about art, when people discuss it I have little to say.
I've noticed that success can improve notably if you use these apps on certain days and also at certain times of the day.

Monday to Thursday and at the times between 7pm to 9pm are peak hours and you are far more likely to find a match.

I'm not sure why it works like this but I think Tinder place you higher on the match list if you are active when the women are logging on. I've no way of proving this but it worked well for me and I highly recommend it for you.
 

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I've noticed that success can improve notably if you use these apps on certain days and also at certain times of the day.

Monday to Thursday and at the times between 7pm to 9pm are peak hours and you are far more likely to find a match.

I'm not sure why it works like this but I think Tinder place you higher on the match list if you are active when the women are logging on. I've no way of proving this but it worked well for me and I highly recommend it for you.

OK I'll repeat it Monday night and let you know.
 

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That's why I started the thread.

David don't worry bumble sucks for me too. First couple of days I had 40 something matches. Half didn't message me for they expired after 24 hrs. Others messaged me, small talk went no where, couple of ones were open to meeting for drinks. That's it. Not much success. One Brazilian girl wants to meet tonight (she told me North American men were a bunch of cucks) not going tho because I'm watching the fights tonight.
 

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David don't worry bumble sucks for me too. First couple of days I had 40 something matches. Half didn't message me for they expired after 24 hrs. Others messaged me, small talk went no where, couple of ones were open to meeting for drinks. That's it. Not much success. One Brazilian girl wants to meet tonight (she told me North American men were a bunch of cucks) not going tho because I'm watching the fights tonight.

I like you and I want you to do well but trust me your problems don't make me feel better.

You have a lot going for yourself and I hope you can overcome your demons and achieve reasonable happiness.
 

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David, maybe those apps are notworking for you. No ladies at your place ofwork or that your friends could introduce you to? From my experience, most people on a couple met their beloved one at college or through friends or at work...

College ended in 2007 and I'm on my third city since. I don't yet have a social network here.

My work is two thirds men, and all in my age group are in couples, usually married.

No friend has ever fixed me up with anybody. I've had many friends (seriously) but I'm clearly unsuitable for their friends. My father's cousin tried to fix me up with a young woman recently she knew but she claimed she had just met someone, following an extended period of excuses.
 

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College ended in 2007 and I'm on my third city since. I don't yet have a social network here.

My work is two thirds men, and all in my age group are in couples, usually married.

No friend has ever fixed me up with anybody. I've had many friends (seriously) but I'm clearly unsuitable for their friends. My father's cousin tried to fix me up with a young woman recently she knew but she claimed she had just met someone, following an extended period of excuses.

I finished university there were 3 redneck landwhales on over 100 guys. Then I started to work with no girls attached (IT) as well (from home).

Communicated only with one person since 3-4 months.

Scary thing is I do well with it and don't mind. Although I force myself to leave the basement and go out sometimes (every time rough experience).

So your situation isn't worst.
 
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