You should message me if ...
so, you're not conservative, not super materialistic (despite trying to avoid the word "not"), you're independent, edgy, ambitious, introspective, have done the Landmark Forum or Vipassana, value good spelling and grammar, you're worldly, professional, unpretentious, empowered, honest and a little freaky. You're a great communicator, you honor your word, you're a gentleman, a diamond in the rough, you are in constant pursuit of your highest self, and you believe in magic!
Bonus points if you have a good sense of humor but are able to be serious, and you're not intimidated by intensity. You have way above average emotional intelligence, see perfection in imperfection, you have an appreciation for the finer things in life but have an inner tree-hugger somewhere. You are nice to strangers just for the sake of being nice, and you're a master of touch! Oh... one last thing, you're not someone who sits on the fence in life, you know what you want, and you know yourself.
For those this applies to: I am not interested in joining your threesome or dating someone more than a year or two younger than me at most. I get messages all the time telling me that age is just a number. While that might be true, if you are outside of my desired age range, please don't expect a response.