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Im sure it goes on with gay men too...men using men for money with sex involved
but doubt it goes on with lesbians.
once a man puts a value number on a woman by rating her (a 5 or a 7 or a 9) women are going to trade in for that value.
You all talk about women as if they have an expiration date--yet its annoying that they do what they can to cash in on those looks while they are still young enough to do it?
Its not the paying you guys are bothered by it's the lack of her 'value' compared to what she got..
as if he paid for a mercedes and got a Toyota.
but maybe for him she is a Mercedes.
its just really hypocritical and judgmental since you all seem to 'resent' the value system of beauty YET you are annoyed someone is using it to have a woman he deems worth it.
Maybe for him she is fore filling both a physical need and a psychological need.
One mans trash is another mans jewel.
Maybe his standards are not that high.
I don't walk around and see really gorgeous men or even average men with less attractive women i see a lot of the opposite in real life with men who have money.
I think if a man wants a woman for her 'hotness' and he cant get it on his own looks its at least honest for him to dip into his piggy bank to get someone out of his league.
I think PJ had from photos we have posted pretty high standards of beauty so when he says the woman is a '5' i don't know if she is really a '5' to most average or unattractive men...she may be a '7' ...
it's too much judging someones character based on looks.
every divorced person you talk to one of the parties or you are friends or family with one of the parties--the other person is automatically vile because we are looking through a biased perspective.
If men put up with beautiful women being shits because of the beauty they like--then the woman is just an object she is not longer a person...because her character does not matter only her casing or exterior.....then you guys get mad we live in a judgmental society?
it just reads weird.
You made so many points that I'm afraid of responding to it. There's no way I'm going to touch on everything you report.
First of all I don't think I talk much about women's expiry dates. Some posters here do but me personally I believe women can be hot deep into their 40s and 50s. Isabelle Huppert is 63 and she looked hot in Elle (which I saw a few weeks ago), might be the French diet helping her age gracefully. You're in your mid-40s and apparently lots of men find you hot.
I also acknowledged that pjhair may not have accurate perception of the relative looks of the parties involved.
I think the following is your main point:
Its not the paying you guys are bothered by it's the lack of her 'value' compared to what she got..
Yes I agree, I'm bothered by the value differential between men and women. Average women seemingly have more value, at least in my age group I can't speak for other age groups. That and the fact the opposite is claimed by popular media.