friends with hairloss and how well they are doing

[s.a.f]

ok its socially acceptable but its not the norm, you will get A LOT of discrimation for being bald at 25 vs 65.

people will look at you with a question mark above their head "young, white and bald"?

SOCIAL PARIAH.

you are a social target

This is absolutley ridiculous, the % of bald guys in their 20's and 30's in a relationship/employed/socialising is just the same as NW1's.

Go to any place and you'll find people of every description fat tall bald short ect.

When I see a fat/short/bald/tall guy I dont think of them as a freak.

 

[HairPieceMan]

social discrimation of being FAT is not the same as being bald.

i can be fat at 15

can i be bald at 15, NO, if im black, YES.

its not the same

my opinion is that is NOT natural and NORMAL to be bald and YOUNG and WHITE at the same time, its not the social basic standard that we must adhere to.

as far as height goes, id compare baldness to being maybe 5 3 or something, 5 5 5 is still normal, clothing stores still make clothes for you, but if your 5 3 you will have to shop in the chilldrens department and people will think you are 12.

if your bald in you're 20s, people will think your an unlucky 30 something guy, it's still not normal, your "youth" is not there yet you have a young face. its way to akward

as far as tallness goes, id compare it to maybe being 6 7 or something.

 

[seb]

When you get too my age,you won't care about women anymore.You will care more about tangable things such as obtaining for your own property,getting a career,and being financially secure.

 

[HairPieceMan]

tbh i dont know when id feel normal socailly when im bald, maybe 80 or something. or if i was black.

like being overly tall, liek 6 8, if i was 6 8 id probably move to the netherlands where the male avg is 6 2 or something, otherwise people would stare at me like a freak here in britain where male avg is 5 10.

and yes the nightclub there was ONE bald guy, it was a regular night, everyone had hair and there was ONE "shiny head" in amongst the crowd of normal young people fulfilling the basic requirements of being young by having hair.

like how growing up for men = being 5 7 or over.

now in the senior citizens home the shiny heads would be more common etc.

@ seb I already have money, also how old are you?

 

[s.a.f]

this is coming from the guy that actively ignored women when he was 25 + bald, then got transplants in 30s and now is feeling ok to get girls.

fact is, you and I are the same, afraid of presenting ourselves to females without a good head of hair.

you ignored females bald, as did I.

having a full head of hair and being young is a basic social thing, its what we do when we are young

young = attractive, vitality, hair

old = balding, saggy body etc.

ok i know im faking it with wig, but in this day and age its the only option, i said having hair is a basic social tool, not how i managed to obtain the hair.

also id rather fake hair dating, than be balding and think its ok to date girls balding in my youth, the very social idea of that is insane, because im not old. im young,simple as.

i have no choice.

Yes we are/were the same but I'm 10 yrs ahead of you in terms of experience.
If you want to wear a wig thats fine if it gives you extra confidence thats all good. But your biggest handicap is your mentality and the theory that because you're bald you are somehow a lesser human being or in the eyes of society you dont deserve to exist.
If you want to get women you need to lose this negative mindset.

Both of us are hideing hair secrets. But I suppose the main difference is mine is crappy hair that never comes off whilst yours is a perfect NW1 but it is'nt permanantly on.

This claim that there are no young bald guys in the eyes of the public is false we know that DHT sensitivity does not set a limit on age, there are bald guys in their 20's just as there are nw1's in their 60's. And its never been more acceptable to be a sly guy than it is now.

 

[seb]

I am middle-aged now,34.Have you never had a serious relationship?
It seems many on here are yearning for a realationship,and have this idealistic view of what one will be like.Trust me,after a few years,you will be yearning too be single again.
Being in a realationship is really about doing things you dont really want too do.

 

[s.a.f]

When you get too my age,you won't care about women anymore.You will care more about tangable things such as obtaining for your own property,getting a career,and being financially secure.

What?!!!
Pretty much everything is secondary to women. Most guys only care about being financially secure because they think it makes them more attractive to women.

 

[seb]

I wouldn't say it is acceptable nowadays too be sly,its tolerated at best.(only due too the PC world we live in).

 

[HairPieceMan]

yes it's really hard to wear hair.

because my mentality has changed, i am normal, and i am fulfilling what society is expecting of me.

you are to, you have re-obtained normality.

it feels good but at the same time, hard, its very hard.

but i can't imagine meeting women with a balding pattern + young, mentality, its too deliberating, id always wonder what my life would have been like if i had a NW1 like i am suppose to have like my peers, because im young etc.

middle aged = 40-65

young = 20-40

senior citizen = 65+

@ saf are you being serious, an entire mans worth isnt based on how well he does with women

 

[s.a.f]

I am middle-aged now,34.Have you never had a serious relationship?
It seems many on here are yearning for a realationship,and have this idealistic view of what one will be like.Trust me,after a few years,you will be yearning too be single again.
Being in a realationship is really about doing things you dont really want too do.

I spent last fri/sat/sun with a girl and all day and night thursday. Now I'm sat here thinking about next wednesday when I'll see her again.
If you're tired of women you're tired of life. I'm 37 btw.

 

[seb]

SAF-Perhaps im abnormal then,as I dont give two s**ts about women.Then again,I dont yearn too be part of this society,and allow myself too doctured by the media.
Women are not some delicate,special creature too behold you know.

 

[seb]

Saf-Yes I agree,I am tired of life,especially the last couple of years.I have two serious goals I would like too achieve,then too honest I want too depart from this planet.

 

[s.a.f]

@ saf are you being serious, an entire mans worth isnt based on how well he does with women

Thats not what I meant, but for most men women are one of the most important things in life. How many rich powerful politicians have lost everything in the pursuit of poon?

 

[HairPieceMan]

huh, what examples do you have of poilitiians due you have who have lost everything trying to get girls?

 

[s.a.f]

Saf-Yes I agree,I am tired of life,especially the last couple of years.I have two serious goals I would like too achieve,then too honest I want too depart from this planet.

Hmm, what are those 2 goals?
All you can do in life is make the most of it for as long as you can. I'd like to think that I wont end up in a nursing home but the fact is theres nothing else but this life.

SAF-Perhaps im abnormal then,as I dont give two s**ts about women.Then again,I dont yearn too be part of this society,and allow myself too doctured by the media.
Women are not some delicate,special creature too behold you know.

Yeah but fukking them is the best thing ever so what are you going to do? You have to do what guys all over the world are donig and thats putting up with the rough in order to experience the smooth.

 

[HairPieceMan]

but surely we can live without them

find some way to take away there power

p**rn, lube, fleshlight, IT IS POSSIBLE lol

 

[s.a.f]

huh, what examples do you have of poilitiians due you have who have lost everything trying to get girls?

Clinton, Spitzer, Profumo, David Mellor and currently Burlesconi.

 

[HairPieceMan]

why what have they done, fuked up their career for girls, and how did they, what did they do?

 

[seb]

SAF-One of my goals is too build my business up too a viable,reputable level.
Regarding you stating this is the only life.I hope not,I am holding out for a better exsistance beyond this physical,materialistic,self-absorbing one.

 

[s.a.f]

SAF-One of my goals is too build my business up too a viable,reputable level.
Regarding you stating this is the only life.I hope not,I am holding out for a better exsistance beyond this physical,materialistic,self-absorbing one.

Whats the point in building up a business and then ending it, you might aswell reap the benifits from that business.
And forget about ascending to heaven or some other ridiculous idea, when that spark of life is gone you are dead and whats left here is just a rotting body. 40 yrs ago you were nowhere, you did'nt exist and thats the exact same state you'll be in when your life is over. - The world will still go on without you.