female animals also live longer, even in controlled environments
Not exactly. In most species females do live longer, but not in all. It should be obvious though that the more aggressive sex is going to live a shorter life. I don't imagine being wounded in fights is going to help you live longer, and having a higher calorie intake is the greatest shortener of lifespans that we know of. I higher caloric intake for males is something that is consistent throughout the animal kingdom.
According to this male mice sometimes live longer than female mice in controlled environments
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2655725
Testosterone is important for a healthy heart.
There are benefits to female hormones and benefits to male hormones. One is not better than the other, but I get the sense that you hate men and just want to believe women are superior.