I'm fine...intelligent, capable of success and all that. I'll be OK. But I've accepted I won't feel truly right until I can fix this problem. I've tried but I just don't have the personality to overcome it. I have a friend 2 years older than me who shaves slick but he's extroverted and funny and charming...I am not. I'm quiet and introverted so it's far more difficult for me to overcome feeling insecure about this. I just hope one day I can get a damn cloning transplant and feel what it's like to be happy with your appearance when you look in the mirror. Because the hair thing is truly the only thing that kills me. I'm not a bad looking dude otherwise. I already invested $4,000 for invisalign to maximize my smile (I rejected braces when I was a kid because they scared me lol). The only thing left I need to fix is the hair. Just hoping it's an option within the next 2-3 years and I can figure out to pay for it.
Why don't you just get a transplant?
PS Invisalign works great. I got it too, and I only wish that I had taken care of that earlier. Which is how I feel about my transplant.
Her Twitter page suggests that she's not worth listening to.
Pro Tip: Have the practical intelligence to get what you want out of life including women. That means not trying to dominate every conversation. Most women don't like that. Kosteece is right, they are the pretty ones not you. Make them the centre of attention not you, but also recognizw when things are too one-sided. And that's only the beginning. Luck to you guys.
Except good-looking man don't actually need to excruciatingly micro-manage and over-analyze their behavior in all contexts. That is plausibly how women have so many stories of men who treated them badly. They gravitated to good-looking men who never had the need to learn social skills, who never had to adapt.
In the past few years I have lost weight, gotten better clothes, gotten Invisalign, and gotten a hair transplant. In spite of the fact that the changes could be much greater, I can say with full confidence that I get a much better response from women. I can go on more dates more easily and with higher standards, and they're more likely to convert to kisses, second dates, and relationships. And that's without a huge change. I've jumped entirely within the 4-to-6 out of 10 range, maybe even less than that.
Do you know what women are noticing now? My personality. I get compliments, not just on being "nice" which is generic sh*t, but on being smart, interesting, thoughtful, having good comic timing, being a snappy dresser, etc. I'm not smarter and more thoughtful than I was three years ago. It is simply that they are more responsive to my qualities, and less turned-off by my failings. Do you have any idea why that might be?
In your post you suggest being a better listener in order to be better appreciated by women. That fails on two grounds. First, if they find you unattractive, they will have nothing to say, and thus you won't be able to listen. If there's no tree branch breaking in the forest, there's no sound. Second, the reason that you want to be a better listener is for your own enjoyment of the relationship. If you're going to spend more time with someone you might as well get to know them well, to be aware of their strengths, their hopes, their fears, what makes them tick, etc. If you become a better listener, the big winner should be you. That is in contrast to your post, wherein you suggest men transform themselves in order to please women.
All of this to say, that you are misleading in promoting a dichotomy between better looks and better personality. There's no dichotomy. In fact, the two of them go together. A better appearance will enable and facilitate more social outings and experiences, a higher income, and less stress. But really men should not be ignoring what's in the mirror by focusing on being better listeners instead (WTF?), they should be doing both. A better appearance will enable better and more social experiences including with women, and a better personality will enable you to enjoy them more.
Don't get me wrong transplants can work wonders -- but if you're looking to have a beautiful hair, there are major problems with them:
1. They never ever look completely natural or like real hair - Even the best ones look kind of pluggy upclose, and the hair doesn't sit right. If someones running their hands thru your hair, they will probably notice that it isn't exactly healthy real hair (which leads to next point).
2. Lack of mid-vellus hairs at hairline - What makes a real non-Norwood hairline look so good is the mid sized vellus hairs which buffer the hairline and prevent that stark pluggy look that norwooders and HairTransplant homies get.
3. Persistent dandruff and scalp irritation - Enough said.
4. The more grafts the worse they look - The fantasy with Tsuji is just to replace every single hair on an NW7s head with a brand new cloned hair. I don't know if you've seen a high density full coverage hair transplant, but they look horrendous.
All this is to say that no amount of hair transplantation can accurately replicate the look and feel of a real hairline. At best, if you're an nw3, you get a pluggy flakey off-brand hairline that looks kind of legit if you dont look upclose.
Rebuttals welcome.
The reason that people look forward to improvements in hair transplant technology is that they are currently the absolute best method to improve the appearance of bald or balding men. They may not look 100% natural, but they're 95% of the way there, which is contrast to the bald look which by definition is 0% of the way there.
You are promoting misinformation on transplants and you are thus a toxic presence on this forum. The reality is that with adequate research and a few thousand dollars, the typical balding men can see a drastic improvement in his appearance.
