This thread is a pretty short sample size to conclude anything. Finasteride and minoxidil stop hair loss for most people and provide at least some regrowth. So, most of these hair loss sufferers don't keep wandering on this forum. Also, a good proportion of people here are those for whom either finasteride didn't work or got sides from it. You belong to second category.
You realise Derelict isn't anyway going to get a gf while being bald, so he may be correct in preferring hair over sex drive. What would he do with libido at this point?
Also, you might want to look into the thread where a guy tells various measures to overcome finasteride's sides.. Yes, including sexual ones. If finasteride worked for you, you can take it again with those methods. Good luck!
BTW, have you tried RU?
It's not just baldness, i also have pretty severe social anxiety and severe schizophrenia. Not good traits to have when you want to date a girl. I have almost come to terms with the fact i will never date because of my issues, but i would love to get my hair back for my own personal reasons, nothing to do with attracting the opposite sex.