Not ALL girls care about hair

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No two men are equal for these women, they'll know instantaneously which one they want, and they'll go for him.

Do you never look at two women and find them similarly attractive?

I don't know man ... that happens to me ... sometimes. I don't think I have infinite precision in how I gauge women.
 

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Fred, you don't have a clue about women. Please come back when you have a long time relationship... 5+ years at least.:) You're talking like a 16 year old teenager. With this kind of attitude no one would stand beside you.
 

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Fred, you don't have a clue about women. Please come back when you have a long time relationship... 5+ years at least.:) You're talking like a 16 year old teenager. With this kind of attitude no one would stand beside you.

Share with us your great wisdom about women.

Having a 5+ years relationship is useless, by that time, you should have children and be settled with the girl.

Which was my plan with my ex, until she aborted our child on a whim. Let's say I'm just unlucky.

But you'll tell me it was my fault of course?

5+ years relationship... please.

Being in a relationship for being in a relationship, that's how I see it.

Congratulations to you if you have figured out women, you must have a lot of experience.

What are your stats?
 

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Share with us your great wisdom about women.

Having a 5+ years relationship is useless, by that time, you should have children and be settled with the girl.

Which was my plan with my ex, until she aborted our child on a whim. Let's say I'm just unlucky.

But you'll tell me it was my fault of course?

5+ years relationship... please.

Being in a relationship for being in a relationship, that's how I see it.

Congratulations to you if you have figured out women, you must have a lot of experience.

What are your stats?

He has a point. I honestly can't imagine a woman being happy long term with a guy who obsesses, speaks and acts with the misplaced arrogance that you do. Like, how many times would you say you have written the line 'look are everything, all that matter' on an internet forum...1000 times maybe? You're f*cking crazy.
 

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That's true. Hair isn't everything and anyone who chooses you over your hair is not relationship material anyway, so good riddance.
 

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That's true. Hair isn't everything and anyone who chooses you over your hair is not relationship material anyway, so good riddance.

Nice coping strategy, the truth is, that "anyone" will be a great woman who will make some fullhead very happy, but not you.

He has a point. I honestly can't imagine a woman being happy long term with a guy who obsesses, speaks and acts with the misplaced arrogance that you do. Like, how many times would you say you have written the line 'look are everything, all that matter' on an internet forum...1000 times maybe? You're f*cking crazy.

You really think my online persona is the same than my real-life self?

That misplaced arrogance as you call it, do you know the reaction it elicits in real life?

"Haha, you can't be serious!" "Yes I am!" *with an arrogant smile*. "Haha you're so silly."
 

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Nice coping strategy, the truth is, that "anyone" will be a great woman who will make some fullhead very happy, but not you.



You really think my online persona is the same than my real-life self?

That misplaced arrogance as you call it, do you know the reaction it elicits in real life?

"Haha, you can't be serious!" "Yes I am!" *with an arrogant smile*. "Haha you're so silly."

That's just negative feedback. I have personal experience that says otherwise, but alas, I have other problems and couldn't bring more drama into my life. As for women that care so much for hair loss, I couldn't care less about them nor am I attracted to that mindset, so good riddance.
 

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Nice coping strategy, the truth is, that "anyone" will be a great woman who will make some fullhead very happy, but not you.



You really think my online persona is the same than my real-life self?

That misplaced arrogance as you call it, do you know the reaction it elicits in real life?

Yes, i do.

Show any woman the thousands of posts you have written over multiple forums over the years writing the same, obnoxious nonsense and tell me how long she stays with you. As i've said before, i genuinely think you have issues. Any time i check back, here you are preaching the same sh*t on a forum or trying to impress people with your dating. Just very strange.

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That's just negative feedback. I have personal experience that says otherwise, but alas, I have other problems and couldn't bring more drama into my life. As for women that care so much for hair loss, I couldn't care less about them nor am I attracted to that mindset, so good riddance.

Some idiots here will berate you for 'coping' etc etc. I can only commend you for having self respect and a strong mindset.
 

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Some idiots here will berate you for 'coping' etc etc. I can only commend you for having self respect and a strong mindset.

Thanks buddy. I wish the hairloss 'subculture' could see through the negativity and realize how precognition and mindset shapes our lives. I used to think like the above poster as well but realized it wasn't doing me any good until I started exercising body and mind. Girls rained on me and I was approached regardless of hairloss and was called attractive for the first time in my life, which was also the time in my life when I was at my happiest and most confident.
 

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Yes, i do.

Show any woman the thousands of posts you have written over multiple forums over the years writing the same, obnoxious nonsense and tell me how long she stays with you. As i've said before, i genuinely think you have issues. Any time i check back, here you are preaching the same sh*t on a forum or trying to impress people with your dating. Just very strange.

I stay true to myself, and yes, I tell people the same things I say on this forum.

I just cannot be unauthentic, that's me. Usually in life, I go with my gut.

I'm not trying to impress anyone, I'm just trying to be myself, while associating with people who appreciate me for who I am.
 

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The advice to most men in dating is that personality comes first. Have hobbies, have interests, be educated, have a well-written profile, et cetera.

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One woman has this as her third profile picture:

If you're not willing to press "ctrl-+" a few times, it says that she has 1,002 new messages on pof, and "justin case you're wondering why I haven't replied".
Incidentally, we have a lot in common, I wrote her a nice message, and she has not replied, lol.
 

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As horribly cliche as it may sound, the only advice you need is: be good-looking.

Or at least: be at your ideal weight, have a trimmed beard, good skin care, contacts, fitting clothes and an arrogant smile.

That's all you need to be honest. After that, write "I like doughnuts" as your description, it doesn't matter really.
 

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As horribly cliche as it may sound, the only advice you need is: be good-looking.

Or at least: be at your ideal weight, have a trimmed beard, good skin care, contacts, fitting clothes and an arrogant smile.

That's all you need to be honest. After that, write "I like doughnuts" as your description, it doesn't matter really.

You are forgetting about a very important slice of the population: some deluded individuals who find it cool to say (and sometimes act like) they don't care for how you look, but only for your smarts and charms.
When they finally understand what they really wanted, it's too late most of the times.
There are indeed intellectuals who are fascinated by your mind, but they are really rare.
 

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What's there to appreciate about somebody who acts like a victim because of hair loss? Sure, it's terrible but you love to wallow in your misery. Victim mentality gives you power doesn't it?

Wallow in my misery? Newsflash: I had a transplant as the worst candidate for it in the world, I finished university and found a job, I traveled around the world, I had amazing experiences with women, etc.

But you see what you want to see, right? I'm happy now but that's after my hair transplant, having hair that's ultimately going to stay (I hope).

Are you afraid because you'll have to be bald at a point? You want to believe it's not as bad as I make it to be? Be my guest. Reality remains reality though.
 

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You had all those happy experiences in life and you still act like happiness has been taken away from you forever? Yes, you wallow in misery all the time on here. Just go back and read what you wrote.

Man, you really do need to change your therapist. Ask him yo give you your money back too.

When did I say that I thought that happiness had been taken away from me forever?
 

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You had all those happy experiences in life and you still act like happiness has been taken away from you forever? Yes, you wallow in misery all the time on here. Just go back and read what you wrote.

Man, you really do need to change your therapist. Ask him yo give you your money back too.

He hasn't got a therapist because he actually believes arguing the same point on internrt forums on an almost daily basis for years is normal behaviour.

And he claims not to try to impress people despite writing the cr*p that you quoted. I can honestly say i can't think of any sadder cases off the top of my head than this guy, both online or off it.
 

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Using dating sites as an example is silly. Of course on there you're going to be basing your "matches" on looks, because its all you really have to go off of there. When women have hundreds of men messaging them OF COURSE they're going to choose the guys who are initially most attractive. That said, the ability to make a woman laugh or think on your first message WILL make you stand out. I actually have a date tonight with a girl from a dating site and she's way out of my league. She isn't constantly saying I'm handsome, but she told me I'm sweet and funny.

The way I see it, yes, looks do matter, but its more a matter of if you look good enough to spark their interest. If you do then you have a window to win them over with your personality. If you look completely amazing to them, you may have a larger window to win them over with personality, but that window will close over time. I think EVERYONE has known someone who they initially find attractive but then were turned off by their personality. I don't think any woman will want to date someone they rate as a 1, but if you rate as a 5 or 6 then your personality and humor can raise you up to a 8 or 9 relatively quickly. Heck, I know this is true because I used to be head over heels for a girl I would have only rated a 5 in looks. When I thought about her I didn't think about her looks, I thought about the things we talked about together. Feeling at ease with someone is more important than looks.
 

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The advice to most men in dating is that personality comes first. Have hobbies, have interests, be educated, have a well-written profile, et cetera.

As a sanity check, here are three profiles of some modestly attractive to attractive women:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=106112736
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=94581505
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=118807556
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=114661502

I wonder if they get any messages?

The fact is I, and most of you who are heterosexual male and in that age range, would likely write them messages and be willing to try out a first date with them. Don't be hypocrites and expect differently of women.

One woman has this as her third profile picture:

If you're not willing to press "ctrl-+" a few times, it says that she has 1,002 new messages on pof, and "justin case you're wondering why I haven't replied".
Incidentally, we have a lot in common, I wrote her a nice message, and she has not replied, lol.

i don't reply to ugly chicks either though

 
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