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Discussion in 'Men's General Hair Loss Discussions' started by Pavi, Feb 16, 2016.

  1. Pavi

    Pavi Senior Member My Regimen

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    I have been talking with an attractive girl for a while and she knows about my hair loss-because I told her. Here is her response:

    "idc about your hair. that doesn't bother me considering I see nothing wrong with it. even if I did I wouldn't give a ****. I'd feel the same way if you didn't have hair"

    I'm also 5'7" and she is 5'9".

    Thoughts??
     
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    Words.

    Actions speak louder.

    How many bald men has she dated? Probably none.

    Even then: she's the exception that confirms the rule.
     
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    davesmith420 Senior Member My Regimen

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    She is lying, a girl would rather have a guy with a nice head of hair than someone who is bald. She probably only said that because you put her in an awkward situation.

    Also why the **** would you tell her about your hair loss? That is something I wouldn't bring up until I was seriously dating her, but even then I wouldn't feel comfortable bringing it up.

    Also with the height thing I feel like it is hit or miss. I feel like having great facial aesthetics can make up for a lack of height (as long as you aren't like 5'5 or something). I'm on the shorter side (5'8) but with decent facial aesthetics and style (girls tell me I look like Conor Obesrt and a better looking Ben Gibbard). My last girlfriend was taller than me and I have slept with a few girls taller than me.
     
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    shookwun Senior Member

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    Height, and muscles don't matter if she's attracted to your FACE. At the later point, it falls down to preference, but won't be the deciding factor. Girls like tall guys, girls like muscular guys but it's preference just like I like big tits. As long as she's attracted to your face, that's all that matters. My best buddy is 5'6, and chicks talk **** all the time saying he's to short, and they couldn't see themselves with him. YEAH RIGHT.


    These are the same girls who had flings with him, and think he's cute.

    I never believe a single thing a women says. I just pay attention to what they do.

    All girls will talk **** to each other out of jelousy. he's to short, ugh he's to skinny! yet they are still slobbing on said mans knob.


    RIGHT
     
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    Digidako Established Member My Regimen

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    I'm 5'7 and my GF is a dime.
    Before I met her I never had issues slaying tail.
    Its all preference. Some girls like short guys, some don't.

    Again, Shookwun hit the nail in the head with comment.
    A woman's actions speak 100x louder than any garbage that comes out of their mouth.
     
  6. Pavi

    Pavi Senior Member My Regimen

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    I have also slept with this girl like 20 times, so she may be developing feelings for me that go beyond physical attraction.... But the point is, some girls simply don't care.

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    PS: I am only 20 and she is 19!

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    I agree with That. I have girls tell me that my face is a 10. However, I still want my hair and couldn't see myself without it
     
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    davesmith420 Senior Member My Regimen

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    But in all seriousness, a bro helping another bro here: Don't let girls you're getting with/dating know about your hair loss. Nothing good can come of it and if anything it could make things weird/worse.
     
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    g.i joey Senior Member

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    i agree with dave, i mentioned it once to my girl it was awkward af (she said "what hair loss, what are you even saying") and now im never bringing it up again, getting back on that there finasteride and forgetting about it. FUHDATBIH

    i know she has to notice im thinned a bit in the front but wtv im just never bringing it up again
     
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    I cant believe different people would have different opinions on things. I dont believe it. That being said I could give half a crap what someone thinks about it. I like how I look with it so I want it. Period. I guess for me its more about what I think than what others do
     
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    davesmith420 Senior Member My Regimen

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    Like I'm sure there are secrets/problems the girl has but she isn't going to tell you (STDS).
     
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    Pavi Senior Member My Regimen

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    I told her because I became depressed about it and she asked what was wrong, and comparing hair loss to STD's...... Come on now lol
     
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    davesmith420 Senior Member My Regimen

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    Your hair loss isn't even bad bruh and you're doing all you can (taken you finally got on Finasteride). Just live your life.
     
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    Pavi Senior Member My Regimen

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    I actually am not on finasteride! But I'll take that as a compliment! Thank you
     
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    g.i joey Senior Member

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    EXACTLY. im worried more about my self worth than what anyone else thinks in terms of hair loss. I like it, its part of me.
     
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    I wouldnt say anything. Say things go wrong and shes bitter. She could tell other chicks or just people in general.
     
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    Odds are ppl with Hair loss will be able find someone that they're attracted to that doesn't care about hair.. I don't think she's lying lol
     
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    But most men will never know because it will take endless amounts of approaches, and encounters to finally find someone.

    Doesn't take away from the reality that you will never be a man women want to be with. What would that be? Someone who can go out, talk to a random girl and have her number within a few minutes.


    Congratulations, swipe right thousands of times, and finally find someone to meet up with. In hand with approaching many women before finally finding a women that will submit to you. :laugh:




    I couldn't bare living that life style. A man who constantly approaches, and gets rejected until finally weeding out a women who's making a compromise.

    Perhaps my self-esteem, and ego is the result of many women giving me their numbers through online dating, and how easy it is for me to get numbers in real life. It would ruin me, to go from being a handsome muscular man to a nobody with a balding head, Going around chasing pussy like a dog getting rejected left, right, and center. All my accomplishments in life would mean NOTHING.
     
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    Pavi Senior Member My Regimen

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    She has told me multiple times she doesn't care. She actually said, "if you go bald then I guess I'll be into bald guys"

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    .....pretty harsh view point
     
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    shookwun Senior Member

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    Just venting out my frustration with how I feel about hair loss. I'm happy for you none the less.


    Good to see balding dudes making it out.

    Albeit I don't consider a NW2-3 BALDING so to speak. at this point it's more or less us just struggling to accept our fate.

    bald discrimination doesn't actually happen till NW4
     
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    Of course there are exceptions. If that woman is 100% honest then you got yourself a keeper.
     

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