You describe it like it's a rare case and I defintely disagree, Im pretty sure most guys will experience a massive drop in girls attention as they losing their hair. I might be extreme example for it. A few years back when I was in my early 20s I got looks from girls everywhere, I got hints and been hit on by girls alot. I am tall and mascular with good face, so I had it going. I mean I have never been 'a player' because Im just not like that, but it always great to feel desired of course. Anyway, as time went by, and I keep losing hair, slowly but steadily, it is obvious that I get less and less attention. now it feel like nobody gives a sh*t about me lol. And let me tell you something, except of my hair, I didnt even change one bit, if anything I got bigger and more mascular. And Im not even bald or really severely balding, but the damn receding hairline just ruined my face shape and made me look like crap.That means you're a guy who needs his hair if you noticed such a big change...and should do everything to keep it. I don't disagree with you that balding can f*** up some guys, when I shaved my head briefly for surgery, I felt I was actually considerably uglier and inferior. Largely invisible. But it's important not to paint that reality for every bald guy because it simply isn't the case. I have a full head of hair, the only area I lost my hair was my hairline corners which I restored.