I don't mean to be rude, but most men for thousands of years have been happy with that. It's only a recent phenomenon that men want to be wanted in the same way that women want to be wanted.
No, it's because they are not AWARE of how things work, they are blue pilled.
they are men who actually believe their wives when they say they have a "headache" 4 times a week and don't want to have sex.
the only thing that changed is social media and the internet where people spread the "red pill/truth" and more guys are exposed to it.
I'm sure no man will feel good if you go ahead and make them realize their spouse aren't really attracted to them.
granted I am 100% sure some men are aware of it and just accept it (cucks), some men probably also have low libido and don't really care, and some men don't care and just want children/family even if there is nearly no sex in it (back to low libido)
it makes no sense to me that you'd find it normal for a guy to accept being with someone that isn't really into him and barely gives him sex, especially when you say in another thread that men are looking for sex more than women.
end of day no one man should settle for a girl that doesn't really want them. and if it comes down to that then it's better to be alone or at least have children with a woman outside of a romantic relationship/marriage.
men are no different than women and never were, they too want to be desired and loved, and they too want to have good sex and not have to beg for it or get tiny bits of it. unless you are a beta cuck.
I saw a post on the front page of imgur (which its community is fairly blue pilled when it comes to dating and such) about a woman that said that her overweight boyfriend is making progress in losing weight and that as an incentive for that the bf gets a blowjob for every 5 pounds lost.
most of the comments to that post were people questioning why should that even be an incentive, why is she giving sexual favours to her boyfriend under conditions, and that something like a blowjob should be performed on the regular between couples, and that her bf should dump her and move on from her.
basically it backfired horribly on her. so even most bluepilled people expect sex to happen often and on a regular basis in relationships. it's always been like that, the fact that the classic "I have a headache" niche line is still mainstream and many people laugh/complain about it just proves that most men want more sex than they get from their spouse, in fact I'd argue that really is the case, many guys probably would want sex more often than they get and complain and unhappy about it.
that further proves my notion that they aren't aware that their spouse is not attracted to them, if they realized it I assure you more than half would divorce/break up.
it's funny that you think it's fair for the guy when a woman is settling down for him when she's not even really attracted to him, she's basically using him for whatever reason (usually money), again it comes down to you not understanding any of this because you were never in such position.
also I read one of your post and you said attraction can happen upon feelings and mentioned that you weren't attracted to your friend but then after you fell in love with her you were also attracted to her- let me enlighten you on that, you were never physically attracted to her even after you fell in love with her, you became attracted to her as a person because you developed feelings for her, it masks how it really is and it makes you feel and think you're also attracted to her physically but that's not the case.
such attraction never lasts, I'm sure you're not with her still, right? eventually being in love with someone calms down, the butterflies are gone and routine in the relationship kicks in, you're less passionate towards that person and the relatonship becomes more like a loving relationship, more stable, less fire, that kinda happens to every couple with time.
and that's when the problems surface if there is no physical attraction, the "masking" that the "feelings attraction" (we'll call it that) did is now fading away, and you start looking to a different direction because you never really were physically into her and now that you're no longer "in-love" with her there is nothing really to keep you around anymore, or any reason to work on the relationship for the matter.
sorry for the huge wall.