I feel like people don't understand incels

[vondoom]

online dating was most likely the biggest waste if time of my life... do it when you are really bored, see if it works, if it does, fine... if not, dont take it too serious...

 

[Feelsbadman]

do you guys think I did the right thing? 3 years ago?

i'm incel and ugly but my ex was actually aright looking but i just could not look past her bad things even as a desperate incel she was embarrassing and repulsive at times.

She was a huge hoe. I'm not sure her real partner count but it was massive well over triple figures. She told me all these sexual stories i felt like a cuck. She also dressed really really skanky, had 0 self respect. Had all these stories about how her ex tried to kill her and hit her. How her dad was bad guy. Would post selfies all the time online, was really basic and uneducated, lived in the ghetto. It was so hard being with her but i loved her eventually she got the hint that i didn't really want to invest in her so she started sleeping around with random men online

did i do the right thing?

 

[Moro]

do you guys think I did the right thing? 3 years ago?

i'm incel and ugly but my ex was actually aright looking but i just could not look past her bad things even as a desperate incel she was embarrassing and repulsive at times.

She was a huge hoe. I'm not sure her real partner count but it was massive well over triple figures. She told me all these sexual stories i felt like a cuck. She also dressed really really skanky, had 0 self respect. Had all these stories about how her ex tried to kill her and hit her. How her dad was bad guy. Would post selfies all the time online, was really basic and uneducated, lived in the ghetto. It was so hard being with her but i loved her eventually she got the hint that i didn't really want to invest in her so she started sleeping around with random men online

did i do the right thing?

Yeah, I'd say so.

You could have been fathering someone else's children, and without even knowing.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Yeah, I'd say so.

You could have been fathering someone else's children, and without even knowing.

She wasnt a single mum ?
edit oh i get it lol

 

[vondoom]

do you guys think I did the right thing? 3 years ago?

i'm incel and ugly but my ex was actually aright looking but i just could not look past her bad things even as a desperate incel she was embarrassing and repulsive at times.

She was a huge hoe. I'm not sure her real partner count but it was massive well over triple figures. She told me all these sexual stories i felt like a cuck. She also dressed really really skanky, had 0 self respect. Had all these stories about how her ex tried to kill her and hit her. How her dad was bad guy. Would post selfies all the time online, was really basic and uneducated, lived in the ghetto. It was so hard being with her but i loved her eventually she got the hint that i didn't really want to invest in her so she started sleeping around with random men online

did i do the right thing?

bang what you can, then move on and forget it^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

bang what you can, then move on and forget it^^

i'd rather have a gf?

 

[Feelsbadman]

not really sure how banging ugly fatties will help me move on and forget makes it worse.

 

[vondoom]

i'd rather have a gf?

yeah but until you have one^^ or between gfs...

 

[vondoom]

not really sure how banging ugly fatties will help me move on and forget makes it worse.

who knows^^ trial and error^^

 

[Moro]

She wasnt a single mum ?
edit oh i get it lol

Yeah. If you started a family with her while she was secretly sleeping around; it could quite possibly be someone else's child.

You'd also be counting on her and trusting her to help you raise the child. You shouldn't have to worry about her just dropping everything one day, and leaving to have "fun."

Then there's the values she might pass on to the child... "Oh, but Mum's doing it so I guess it's ok."

 

[Moro]

Also pair bonding. She's not going to be able to form a strong bond with you (and the kids) if she's already done and broken that with hundreds of guys before you. You'll only be "another person that I've slept with" that she's lost.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Also pair bonding. She's not going to be able to form a strong bond with you (and the kids) if she's already done and broken that with hundreds of guys before you. You'll only be "another person that I've slept with" that she's lost.

yea hence how she moed on like i meant nothing to her really hurt but yea i don think a girl thats fuked so many dudes is mentally right in the head tbh
gets to a point when a girl sleeps around so much its not because she likes sex its because she has a mental problem.

 

[Feelsbadman]

who knows^^ trial and error^^

nah i tried mkes me feel worse
i just ccum and feel like sh*t

paying for hot escorts > banging ugly fatties or ugly girls

 

[Moro]

yea hence how she moed on like i meant nothing to her really hurt but yea i don think a girl thats fuked so many dudes is mentally right in the head tbh
gets to a point when a girl sleeps around so much its not because she likes sex its because she has a mental problem.

At least it ended before there were kids involved. Devastating when it ends, but silver lining, I guess.

 

[Moro]

nah i tried mkes me feel worse
i just ccum and feel like sh*t

paying for hot escorts > banging ugly fatties or ugly girls

Are escorts cheaper than dating?
I hear they are, but wouldn't know.

 

[Feelsbadman]

At least it ended before there were kids involved. Devastating when it ends, but silver lining, I guess.

Are escorts cheaper than dating?
I hear they are, but wouldn't know.

but why am i so devastated and still miss such a low quality women?? whats wrong with me?

It's not cheaper per say but it's more efficient
I could pay $150-$200 to have sex with an attractive women

vs spending hours and hours swiping and swipng to try meet up with some average/ugly women for a chance to have sex.

 

[Moro]

but why am i so devastated and still miss such a low quality women?? whats wrong with me?

It's not cheaper per say but it's more efficient
I could pay $150-$200 to have sex with an attractive women

vs spending hours and hours swiping and swipng to try meet up with some average/ugly women for a chance to have sex.

I don't think that means you have something wrong with you. I think it means you're human, not such a bad thing.

I don't think dating apps are even designed to work. I would get a match after months of swiping only to have them say nothing when you talk to them normally, then disappear.

Then again, if you want a family, I suppose a prostitute wouldn't work either.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I don't think that means you have something wrong with you. I think it means you're human, not such a bad thing.

I don't think dating apps are even designed to work. I would get a match after months of swiping only to have them say nothing when you talk to them normally, then disappear.

Then again, if you want a family, I suppose a prostitute wouldn't work either.

I just miss having a gf and being with her even though she was trash
oh well