Change your hair up. Make it more wild. Shave your face. Work out for a month straight, build up a regimen, keep it up. Change your clothes. Straighten your posture. In a year, if results are still as bad, then maybe it's a lost cause. But often, it's just as simple as changing a few things. Keep yourself neat, tidy, and ripped. Don't even think about attracting women for a while: be you. Succeed or at least be competent. Then it all falls like dominoes.