How to support a partner with hair loss?

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Hair today, Howard Stern's girlfriend is an attractive women but its her sweet caring personality and the fact that she caters to her man that makes her hot in my eyes. Its the total package from the inside and out that makes her hot. Taug has to understand that point. If the package is ugly on the outside and inside, nobody is going to want anything to do with it but if the package is nice on the inside, it can sometimes make the outside package more appealing and of course the total package will then be worth the time investing in.
 

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Jayman, I had Cameron. Do you not remember. I am moving on to better things. I am looking to get Carmen Electra to replace Foreman. That is why I do not care if Foreman leaves.
 
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Jayman, I had Cameron. Do you not remember. I am moving on to better things. I am looking to get Carmen Electra to replace Foreman. That is why I do not care if Foreman leaves.


wow are you serious? i wouldn't need to look at p**rn anymore if that happened. i'd just tune into House each week this fall, 9 pm/8 pm central on FOX. YW for the plug. :hairy:
 

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Baywatch meets House, now I know we can rank higher than American Idol. Pam Anderson is going to replace Chase, I fired him for a reason. Jayman, I might hire you to be her fluffer.
 

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I think my show is going to be called HOUSE'S ANGELS, Carmen Electra will replace Foreman, Pam Anderson will replace Chase, who I gladly fired, and since Cameron resigned I think Angela Jolie would fill her shoes very nicely but she will have to keep Brad and the little rugrats off the set. I think with those women on my team, it will definitely straighten out my limp. Once they see my new and improved Big Hot Cane with the cool FIRE emblem on it, they will melt at my feet. The only problem is I might have a HARD time concentrating on solving medical crisis cases in the hospital but I guess I always have Wilson to carry the LOAD if things become Hectic. Jayman what do you think? Taug, you can always play a pouting patient and I will let all my new hot female staff take turns taking your temperature. And s.a.f., since you happen to be good in psychology ( I have seen your excellent work with Taug) you might be appointed to the psychology department in our hospital.
 

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fall3n said:
New here, looking for a bit of advice...

Basically, it's not me who's going bald, it's my partner. When I first met him, he had a head full of hair, but that was several years ago. Now that we're actually together, he does have a very obvious patch on the top of his head where he's going bald.

Today is the first time he indicated that it might bother him.

Honestly speaking, the fact that he's losing his hair at a young age doesn't bother me. I still find him attractive. I just don't know how to support him properly and find the right words to let him know that yes, I know the bald spot is there, that it's going to get worse, but that it doesn't affect how I see him. He was going bald when we first started going out. It's not as if it happened half way through our relationship or anything, and I've been 'tricked'.

I can only imagine that hair loss is a very sensitive issue, so I'm not sure how to bring it up in conversation. I've always wondered if it bothered him, and today he made a comment in passing which alerted me to the fact that it really does.

I just want to make it clear that I find the whole package great, and that I don't love him 'in spite of' anything.

I guess what I'm asking is, for all of you men losing your hair (especially those of you in your early 20s), what is it that you'd like your partners to do to support you? Would you like them to talk to you about it, or avoid making it a big deal and just not say anything?

did SAF write this?
 

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No it was your girlfriend :p
 

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Taugenichts said:
Here is the most recent pic of my face revealing the full extent of my ugliness:


What the hell, Taug? You're a normal looking guy. In fact, you've got above average looks, with the square jaw and blue eyes thing going on. Totally different from how you've portrayed yourself.
 

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blondeguy said:
Taugenichts said:
Here is the most recent pic of my face revealing the full extent of my ugliness:


What the hell, Taug? You're a normal looking guy. In fact, you've got above average looks, with the square jaw and blue eyes thing going on. Totally different from how you've portrayed yourself.

I completely agree. I think you are above average looking and I am no bullshitter. I think you should get the sides and back of your hair cut shorter - even people who are not balding get this done. And as for not smiling don't worry about it; I get a lot of girls by having a cold stare, it makes you look more mysterious. Once again you are a good looking guy. I have no idea why you would get a bad rating at hotornot with that picture - its probably all of the jealous guys giving you 1.

ps continue coating your hair in the foam and if you can maintain your hair as it is now you have nothing to worry about.
 
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Taug, you look completely normal... for a Finn you'd look way above normal, we are ugly people :lol: . Anyway, get your sh*t together and face the world, with or without hair. You clearly got a BDD, and I know what I'm talking about since I got a slight BDD aswell.
 
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GrowHairGrow! said:
Taug, you look completely normal... for a Finn you'd look way above normal, we are ugly people :lol: . Anyway, get your $#iT together and face the world, with or without hair. You clearly got a BDD, and I know what I'm talking about since I got a slight BDD aswell.

Yeah, I have noticed the same about Finns. But Germans are an ugly people as well. I often feel inferior because of that when I compare us to our good looking neighbours from the Netherlands, Poland or the Czech Republic (see all the pornstars from there!!!). I can imagine that many Finns feel the same when they compare themselves to their good looking neighbours from the Scandinavian or Baltic countries.
 

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GrowHairGrow! said:
Taug, you look completely normal... for a Finn you'd look way above normal, we are ugly people :lol: . Anyway, get your $#iT together and face the world, with or without hair. You clearly got a BDD, and I know what I'm talking about since I got a slight BDD aswell.

Yeah, I have noticed the same about Finns. But Germans are an ugly people as well. I often feel inferior because of that when I compare us to our good looking neighbours from the Netherlands, Poland or the Czech Republic (see all the pornstars from there!!!). I can imagine that many Finns feel the same when they compare themselves to their good looking neighbours from the Scandinavian or Baltic countries.

I personally think that German people are a good looking. They are very tall in height whilst the Brits are alot shorter! I am 5"6 and both my parents are British so that says it all really!
 
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GrowHairGrow! said:
Taug, you look completely normal... for a Finn you'd look way above normal, we are ugly people :lol: . Anyway, get your $#iT together and face the world, with or without hair. You clearly got a BDD, and I know what I'm talking about since I got a slight BDD aswell.

Yeah, I have noticed the same about Finns. But Germans are an ugly people as well. I often feel inferior because of that when I compare us to our good looking neighbours from the Netherlands, Poland or the Czech Republic (see all the pornstars from there!!!). I can imagine that many Finns feel the same when they compare themselves to their good looking neighbours from the Scandinavian or Baltic countries.

We Finns tend to hate the Swedes but for completely different reasons than looks. But that's another matter. I really don't think the Swedes are much better in the looks departmend than us, there's a lot of mixed genes between the 2 countries (labour exchange etc in the past). Anyways, the Swedes tend to bald just as aggressively as us Finns.
 
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