I respectfully disagree. There are many many cases in the real world of very attractive women that choose 1-5s as compatible partners. See this biggest misconception by a lot of men is that women are visual when it comes to men. Thats debatable, random surveys agree that women will overlook look physical appearance for confidence, humor and empathy traits.
Be yourself and embrace yourself. Its all how you carry yourself. Either your alpha or beta. Get what you want. FYI, they wont seek you out. Men are the initiators!