Guys That Keep Their Juvenile Hairline At Age 25-30, Are They Imune?

[brahmabull117]

Thanks bro, will do .



Thats weird man, if you are that good looking and make alot of money, being a nw2 at your age should not be a problem in attracting women. Let us break this down:

You are 5’10 (good height)
You are muscular (even better)
Olive complexion (women swoon over that)
Nice jawline (they drop panties over that)
You are nw2 (considering all the points above , should make no difference)

here you go

I have a great smile very similar to Mario Lopez but I obviously look much more masculine. Yes I make about 180K a year in a cheap area (I would say comparable to 400K a year if you live in NYC or London or California, my quality of life is just unbelievable). I go to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/vacations 8+ times a year/etc...


and no I don't get any dating attention from any women anywhere near my league. All the ladies who make it obvious they like me are 10 levels below my league

 

[brahmabull117]

I don't dispute female entitlement.

The problem is that a guy 8-10 will bang 7+s also doesn't help the dating pool.

There's a bro science video on dating. All models but, you hear the good looking woman react to not getting attention. Imagine being in the shoes of a average or slightly above average male.

The idea of someone with 150k salary pissing away time on a magazine board some a bit of a stretch but I digress.

I think you are selling yourself short.

27+ is not top form SMV. It's on the tail end. It's nearing baby rabies.


More men are waking up to the reality, that being, women skiing down cawk mountain, cawk carousel, and diva behaviour. Best years are the Chads booty call. Baby rabies and squandered youth are for the beta males.

The divorce rate isn't based on infidelity or violence. It's based on female entitlement which knows no boundaries during top firm SMV.

Early side of twenty or #Netflixandchill!

Not single moms, crows feet, fatties or catered SMV for me.

I dunno dude. I'm looking for a GF who will be kinda like my best friend...so somebody very attractive but who is also a genuinely great person and fun to hang out with and who is also capable in most areas

 

[brahmabull117]

Yeah one thing is for sure, as the population increases that minority of hot girls everyone wants are going to get harder and harder to get. I feel sorry for men hundreds of years from now. Those girls are going to be impossible except for the top 5 percent of all men. A lot of girls now have horrible personalities, and a long list of demands because they know tons of men are willing to compete and jump through any hoop in front of them

I gotta be in top 5% of men, maybe even top 2%, no?

I don't see many men who are better looking than me on a regular basis. In terms of face/body/fashion sense, I imagine I gotta be at least in top 10-20%

and in that 10-20%, I'm sure I'm better off financially than 95% of men at my age (how many 29 year old men earn nearly 200K a year? it's a tiny percentage). I'm very smart, super chill, very easy to get along with, very loyal but also independent, etc... I think decent women nowadays want the top 0.01% of men who are male model types instead of the regular 7 or 8/10s like me

 

[meetjoeblack]

I dunno dude. I'm looking for a GF who will be kinda like my best friend...so somebody very attractive but who is also a genuinely great person and fun to hang out with and who is also capable in most areas

Take it from a guy who is doing hard cold approach for over five years. There is so much more to it then really good looking. I've met awesome but, it's rare and despite that, I have yet to meet what I seek.

For now, I pursue self knowledge, I explore consciousness, I am doing like Elliott Hulse, being my strongest version of myself exercising. I am getting into running. I am thirty do I have my duet on point. I tweak it often.

Women are part of the puzzle. Not the puzzle. Get it? What I saw in cold approach is that, most women crater their SMV chasing Chads playboy, and squander youth being a booty call. It's then society pushing men to raise their babies and to wife up women who want nothing to do with these men in their best days.

I would much prefer cute, fit, young, on the early side of twenty, educated not necessarily in school or university but has smarts, isn't jumping off the dong, has a father at home, is also into exploring consciousness, traveling, doesn't have baby rabies atm yet wants a family one day. A woman Willing to call all In on her twenties versus chasing Chads. Give that girl the ring.

Female vanity and entitlement in the world today is unreal. My friend, I know what I am pursuing, and I make that plunge be it cold approach or swiping right. It is all a man can do. I won't play homemaker with a single mom or squandered SMV. My genes will be weeded out if existence otherwise.

 

[brahmabull117]

Take it from a guy who is doing hard cold approach for over five years. There is so much more to it then really good looking. I've met awesome but, it's rare and despite that, I have yet to meet what I seek.

For now, I pursue self knowledge, I explore consciousness, I am doing like Elliott Hulse, being my strongest version of myself exercising. I am getting into running. I am thirty do I have my duet on point. I tweak it often.

Women are part of the puzzle. Not the puzzle. Get it? What I saw in cold approach is that, most women crater their SMV chasing Chads playboy, and squander youth being a booty call. It's then society pushing men to raise their babies and to wife up women who want nothing to do with these men in their best days.

I would much prefer cute, fit, young, on the early side of twenty, educated not necessarily in school or university but has smarts, isn't jumping off the dong, has a father at home, is also into exploring consciousness, traveling, doesn't have baby fever atm yet wants a family one day. A woman Willing to call all In on her twenties versus chasing Chads. Give that girl the ring.

Female vanity and entitlement in the world today is unreal. My friend, I know what I am pursuing, and I make that plunge be it cold approach or swiping right. It is all a man can do. I won't play homemaker with a single mom or squandered SMV. My genes will be weeded out if existence otherwise.

have you not been reading my posts? the rest of my life outside of dating is absolutely perfect. I'm massively successful, bought my first house at 24, have a paid for 70,000 lexus, have an amazing family, great friends, fun interests/hobbies, AMAZING lifestyle. I'm extremely healthy - work out 6 days a week, incredibly strong, etc...I just can't figure out dating. It's so frustrating.

All you guys talking about wanting a girl on early side of 20s, have you tried holding a conversation with a 21 year old? Most of them are completely retarded. Women don't get interesting to talk to until about 25 26 27

As far as dating Chads go, I'm a 7-8/10 looking for a 7-8/10. Is that so much to ask for nowadays? Why do even 7/10 women nowadays want male models?

 

[Unlucky93]

have you not been reading my posts? the rest of my life outside of dating is absolutely perfect. I'm massively successful, bought my first house at 24, have a paid for 70,000 lexus, have an amazing family, great friends, fun interests/hobbies, AMAZING lifestyle. I'm extremely healthy - work out 6 days a week, incredibly strong, etc...I just can't figure out dating. It's so frustrating.

All you guys talking about wanting a girl on early side of 20s, have you tried holding a conversation with a 21 year old? Most of them are completely retarded. Women don't get interesting to talk to until about 25 26 27

As far as dating Chads go, I'm a 7-8/10 looking for a 7-8/10. Is that so much to ask for nowadays? Why do even 7/10 women nowadays want male models?

Maybe you're on the autistic spectrum? Or a sociopath?

Not even trolling.

 

[brahmabull117]

Maybe you're on the autistic spectrum? Or a sociopath?

Not even trolling.

hhhmm I dunno, I make friends everywhere I go

the women who approach me all like me immensely both in terms of appearance and personality. My problem is I just don't get any easy opportunities with the hot women I deserve to be dating.

 

[DoctorHouse]

have you not been reading my posts? the rest of my life outside of dating is absolutely perfect. I'm massively successful, bought my first house at 24, have a paid for 70,000 lexus, have an amazing family, great friends, fun interests/hobbies, AMAZING lifestyle. I'm extremely healthy - work out 6 days a week, incredibly strong, etc...I just can't figure out dating. It's so frustrating.

All you guys talking about wanting a girl on early side of 20s, have you tried holding a conversation with a 21 year old? Most of them are completely retarded. Women don't get interesting to talk to until about 25 26 27

As far as dating Chads go, I'm a 7-8/10 looking for a 7-8/10. Is that so much to ask for nowadays? Why do even 7/10 women nowadays want male models?

Kind of the same reason you bought a $70,000 Lexus. People have expensive taste. Male models are the Rolls Royce of mankind. You think a women wants to show off a 7-8 when she can show off a 10. There is nothing to figure out with dating. It's no different then buying and selling property. You put yourself on the market until someone is interested. Some people sell their property right away and some can't even give it away. Maybe you need to date women your age or older. Maybe you need to network with some new people who are average and hooking up with hot women. Do you aggressively approach women and they reject you? Maybe @shookwun can help you out and see where you need to improve.

 

[JeanLucBB]

have you not been reading my posts? the rest of my life outside of dating is absolutely perfect. I'm massively successful, bought my first house at 24, have a paid for 70,000 lexus, have an amazing family, great friends, fun interests/hobbies, AMAZING lifestyle. I'm extremely healthy - work out 6 days a week, incredibly strong, etc...I just can't figure out dating. It's so frustrating.

All you guys talking about wanting a girl on early side of 20s, have you tried holding a conversation with a 21 year old? Most of them are completely retarded. Women don't get interesting to talk to until about 25 26 27

As far as dating Chads go, I'm a 7-8/10 looking for a 7-8/10. Is that so much to ask for nowadays? Why do even 7/10 women nowadays want male models?

Reading your posts I am almost certain you are autistic, or have aspects of asbergers that makes it difficult for you to relate to women.

You are way above me on looks and also financial situation, the idea that you aren't doing unfathomably better with women (and suggest you can't regularly pull 7s) can only be down to your personality. I can easily get 7s including those at 18-21 when I'm a 6 myself, the idea that you can't is absolutely laughable.

" My problem is I just don't get any easy opportunities with the hot women I deserve to be dating."

This just shows a lack of understanding of how this social interaction works. You MAKE opportunities, even the men more attractive than you that I know don't automatically have women asking them out, initiating explicit flirting etc. Also your attitude of entitlement is unattractive and removed from the reality of what dating actually is. It's a give and take, not about you and unless you're a perfect 9 or 10 women aren't going to make explicit moves without you initiating to some degree.

Just use apps like Okcupid or bumble that are more orientated to finding someone of a similar high standard and with a similar outlook. Not completely hookup minded either.

 

[iCurly]

How are you doing lately? I am thinking I am a nw2/3. Probably 2.5 but, I am OCD so, I will lean to 3. Rogaine has been a weird routine. No shed yet.

A gf would have made the process easier. Nothing comes easy in this life. I could see a gf as a blessing but, a break up as a even worse nightmare.

I suspect that the inevitable is happening. Rogaine is a start. I did not chest pain and strange blurry vision. It was not severe but I am using 5% which I likely should lower dose. I thought I wasn't using enough to be honest. Less than the recommended dose but 5% is a lot hone from none.

Where I am at. I have receded. Norwood 2.parts at the side and vertex are thinner. It's thicker at the base. It sucka how much older balding makes a man. Like the Prince with hair versus now, it's painful. Even Harry is losing his. I suspect he will suit bald better. I dunno.

Anyway, I admire Bruce Willis, Dwayne Johnson, Jason Statham etc who do bald well. Granted, not everyone is Beckham who can do it all. I follow psychedelic substance YouTuber. We both used Accutane and the end result is flipping on our male pattern baldness genes. He trips and turned into the skid. He also has a gf or wife and kid. I would like to go that route and gracefully go into it.

The hard part is that, I was single with hair so, if the point system is going downward, age is going up, the job market is not great not you mention, affirmative action, it's stressful.

Part of my process is cutting out stress, cortisol, meditating, praying doing yoga, reading, and going into nature.

I am dating or at least meeting bit I noticed since becoming aware of my male pattern baldness, my state is shot. Attraction with that last girl disappeared, and I am not shocked. It coincides with my experience in this department. Cocaine user, guaranteed she has had an abortion, STDs, long history of promiscuity, and shity family up bringing. No. Mention of her father. Shocker.

How are you doing with the hair? Gf? Friends? I would take the alpha approach and talk here or to friends. Despite society pushing the vulnerable be beta gender fluid agenda, it's been my experience nothing turns women off quicker, and puts her pussy on the next dick faster.

I have been obsessing alot tbh , i keep feeling like i am going to go bald in like a month or two , lol, my hair is still relatively thick but i keep looking at my hairline every day . The obsession is not healthy but what can i do lol. I am waiting to finish my thesis by the end of this month so i can start propecia (dont want to risk having brain fog). Hopefully that will help me retain my hair for long enough to have a family. Yeah my gf has no idea about my obsession with hairloss and i like to keep it that way. No girl likes an insecure guy.

The princes have nothing to worry about, lucky guys , they are both with beautiful women and william has kids already. He definitely should consider growing a beard though lool.

 

[brahmabull117]

Reading your posts I am almost certain you are autistic, or have aspects of asbergers that makes it difficult for you to relate to women.

You are way above me on looks and also financial situation, the idea that you aren't doing unfathomably better with women (and suggest you can't regularly pull 7s) can only be down to your personality. I can easily get 7s including those at 18-21 when I'm a 6 myself, the idea that you can't is absolutely laughable.

" My problem is I just don't get any easy opportunities with the hot women I deserve to be dating."

This just shows a lack of understanding of how this social interaction works. You MAKE opportunities, even the men more attractive than you that I know don't automatically have women asking them out, initiating explicit flirting etc. Also your attitude of entitlement is unattractive and removed from the reality of what dating actually is. It's a give and take, not about you and unless you're a perfect 9 or 10 women aren't going to make explicit moves without you initiating to some degree.

Just use apps like Okcupid or bumble that are more orientated to finding someone of a similar high standard and with a similar outlook. Not completely hookup minded either.

I appreciate your kind words toward me about my looks

few comments here

1)I think my social skills are solid. Everybody who gets to know me for any extended period of time absolutely loves me. A lot of is probably because I'm genuinely a very good person - very loyal, honest, caring, unselfish

2)I don't want an 18 year old. I want a smart, classy, sophisticated 26 year old with a good job

3)I do get discouraged very easily and hate rejection

4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online

 

[JeanLucBB]

I appreciate your kind words toward me about my looks

few comments here

1)I think my social skills are solid. Everybody who gets to know me for any extended period of time absolutely loves me. A lot of is probably because I'm genuinely a very good person - very loyal, honest, caring, unselfish

2)I don't want an 18 year old. I want a smart, classy, sophisticated 26 year old with a good job

3)I do get discouraged very easily and hate rejection

4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online

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"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

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[kj6723]

hhhmm I dunno, I make friends everywhere I go

the women who approach me all like me immensely both in terms of appearance and personality. My problem is I just don't get any easy opportunities with the hot women I deserve to be dating.

What's with the sense of entitlement bro. So ugly people "deserve" to date other ugly people?

 

[meetjoeblack]

have you not been reading my posts? the rest of my life outside of dating is absolutely perfect. I'm massively successful, bought my first house at 24, have a paid for 70,000 lexus, have an amazing family, great friends, fun interests/hobbies, AMAZING lifestyle. I'm extremely healthy - work out 6 days a week, incredibly strong, etc...I just can't figure out dating. It's so frustrating.

One if the issues I see is your attempt to rationalize into a woman's pants. This dries up pussy. I am not not trying to be a dick. If we are to assume you got resources handled, you basically paint a target on your back for cratered SMV. I am by no means rich. I drive a regular car. I have a 401k,pension, savings etc but by no means in excess. I live a average yet funny lifestyle. I meet girls who want to party. Not wifey no gf, party.

I don't attempt to fit these women into marriage or wifey material. She can be as she is, we can Netflix and chill. It's ok.

All you guys talking about wanting a girl on early side of 20s, have you tried holding a conversation with a 21 year old? Most of them are completely retarded. Women don't get interesting to talk to until about 25 26 27

That's a vast generalization and simplification but, you are welcome to it. You red pill the sh*t out if her. You weed her off the click bait, dopamine spike, Chad chasing bimbo, and squandered youth. I know what you mean by stimulation BUT, the closest to what I seek was much younger. Similar to myself, she experienced trauma in the former of great loss. When said X factors happen, one either transcends or they adopt victim narrative. This chick explores consciousness. She seeks self knowledge. Despite the pity party that women cling to, she adopts an alternative mindset.

Usually, you are correct but, I will pick top form SMV, youth, potential etc over baby rabies and play homemaker with women once Chad's stop calling.

Google Divorce based upon gender. It ain't pretty. Hide wealth. Acquire young. She gives you her best years, but her the ring or Netflix and chill.

As far as dating Chads go, I'm a 7-8/10 looking for a 7-8/10. Is that so much to ask for nowadays? Why do even 7/10 women nowadays want male models?

You're clearly not doing it right in that regard due to the single moms and low hanging fruit coming your way.

If I am to assume you aren't ebragging and actually had any of the above (I could careless since I am not trying to sleep with you, not yet anyway ).

If I am to say and go along with you, accumulated wealth, by mid 30s,you sir should have the world by the balls. Women late teens to mid 20s are yours.

Listen to rsdtyler. He's a sociopath no doubt but he's correct.

You give the woman a ring and swear away everything when she brings you squander. Cucks you, runs away with your kids, and house. 18+ on the hook for. It's not pretty. Not to mention, married equates to, not in the mood.

A buddy of mine is super alpha. Middle age. Gf, no gf, kids, it don't matter. Not in the mood means free pass. He let's women know day one. Mad, moody, PM's, don't matter.

NOT A ARGUMENT!

I am far from his level of game or alpha but it works. Not in the mood means, #nextset!

There's no the one. It's fantasy. You. Must build it.

I want that. Wifey, children, white picket fence, a dog. But I am not ready yet. Anybody with ears listening, the best route is youth. If she isn't dedicated at her best, keep moving. Fertility for men and women are not the same. Equality is a nice sentiment until you are divorced fighting for your children.


I saw a badly dude with dad bod with a hot young woman. There's no excuse for us. Next set. Hot/cold? Next set. Ghosting? Next set.

Hypergamy is a double edged sword. It will burn women. Men need to evolve. I am set on youth, 24 tops. My genes are weeded out if existence otherwise. I will not marry a wh*** or raise a child from Chad's. It ain't happening.

Good luck bro. Please keep me posted on your plans for the future.

 

[meetjoeblack]

Reading your posts I am almost certain you are autistic, or have aspects of asbergers that makes it difficult for you to relate to women.

You are way above me on looks and also financial situation, the idea that you aren't doing unfathomably better with women (and suggest you can't regularly pull 7s) can only be down to your personality. I can easily get 7s including those at 18-21 when I'm a 6 myself, the idea that you can't is absolutely laughable.

" My problem is I just don't get any easy opportunities with the hot women I deserve to be dating."

This just shows a lack of understanding of how this social interaction works. You MAKE opportunities, even the men more attractive than you that I know don't automatically have women asking them out, initiating explicit flirting etc. Also your attitude of entitlement is unattractive and removed from the reality of what dating actually is. It's a give and take, not about you and unless you're a perfect 9 or 10 women aren't going to make explicit moves without you initiating to some degree.

Just use apps like Okcupid or bumble that are more orientated to finding someone of a similar high standard and with a similar outlook. Not completely hookup minded either.

+1

It just doesn't add up or make sense.

150k but fatties, ugly women, single moms come?

How ETP 2.0 with a douchebag bag profile. No extra pounds, beefy women or single moms. Be blunt.

Be shocked to see how much responses you have versus being captain cuck.

I am not in his category of wealthy. I think management by middle age and I can be that but, if I am still single, it will be me going full douchebag debauchery Archer like. I am not leaving women my resources or being dad to Chad's kids. I am not interested in eggs going bad.

I am not trying to be terrible but a woman pissing away her fertility with idiots has nothing to do with me. I don't care. My resources are not being used to help her.

This isn't charity. The same for sex. Women aren't pity f*****g. Women date up. Men are dating way down due to female entitlement.

If a guy is that bad off, there are a few alternatives like Thailand and the red light district lol

It's a incel haven.

Any way, cold approach is simply spamming to the ns of women. Nonstop. No excuses. Day or night and everywhere. Even if you strike out, say 10 digits after every hundred approaches, you constantly sift through numbers, dates, flaking ghosting etc. Wash/rinse /repeat.

With online, tinder, etc its the same only more access. I prefer cold approach because you must put yourself in the fire.

Be forged in the flame but most won't ever do it or have the dyones

 

[meetjoeblack]

I have been obsessing alot tbh , i keep feeling like i am going to go bald in like a month or two , lol, my hair is still relatively thick but i keep looking at my hairline every day . The obsession is not healthy but what can i do lol. I am waiting to finish my thesis by the end of this month so i can start propecia (dont want to risk having brain fog). Hopefully that will help me retain my hair for long enough to have a family. Yeah my gf has no idea about my obsession with hairloss and i like to keep it that way. No girl likes an insecure guy.

The princes have nothing to worry about, lucky guys , they are both with beautiful women and william has kids already. He definitely should consider growing a beard though lool.

Busy yourself. Take up a sport. Gym. Meditation. Do something about it. It's a pattern interrupt. Rewire your mind.

You need something to do with your brain or it will wind you up. I did it before with acne and then the second I acknowledged my hair. Once I finally accepted it was not a haircut but a reality. I just have no gf. No wifey and I am in that fire whereby women ghost, flake could careless.

I have found solitude in yoga, meditation and exercise. By the grace of God, I dedicate my time to something beyond self. Ever read the bhagavad Gita? Speaks about being 'unattached to the fruits of our labor.' take action, freedom from outcome coupled with intent.

I've buried a lot of friends and family over the years. I have been been sporting battle wounds. Many of which are physical, mental or spiritual.

It led me to believe that there must be more. I am craving self knowledge, exploring consciousness (I want to do the tea ceremony one day in Peru), I've tripped hard before opening the gates, bad trip, and faced what Carl Jung deems the shadow.

Elliott Rogers, the psycho that went GTA, others etc. It's jungian psychology. It's what Columbine is. INCEL existence etc. That darkness, that place these people went is what religion refers to hell or Carl Jung refers to the shadow.

The anxiety you feel, the pain from hair loss, similar to the feel I had with acne or hair loss acknowledgement. It's ego. It's our self concept. It's attachment to form. Clinging to this life.

We got to embrace it. Enjoy our life, hair, being, turn into the skid. Let it go. Do what we can but, time will get us all.

Read. Busy yourself. The sec you get set off, go for a run or walk, grab tea or coffee with the gf. Go I a hike or be around nature. It's calming.

I came across dmt last year. I just sat in awe. It was like I watched the creation story. Like I was showered in love. I backslide too. I cling to this life and seek sex and relationships. I have my vices. But in that moment if tunnel vision everything loses meaning. In the grand scheme of things, very little matters.

Call all in on this life allocating your time to that which truly matters.

I felt like I died and was born again. Like, I have a second chance. Hair loss, acne, fears, height, rejection, etc nothing will stop me from going for my dreams in this life.

Keep me in the loop brother. Your girl loves you. Sees the value of your soul beyond skin deep. You did it well. Don't let your shadow take you into a dark place and chase her away. You git friends here. Only a MSG away.

 

[brahmabull117]

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"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

"4)I'm not good looking enough for online dating. I'm prolly like a 7.5. You need to be a 10/10 to get dates online with ok looking women online"

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how is that autism? autism is inability to connect with people socially. I make friends everywhere I go without even trying. People love me very intensely and very quickly.

What I said about online dating is the truth. A mere 7.5-8/10 like me is completely worthless when any decent looking girl is getting messaged by 10/10s left and right

 

[brahmabull117]

Busy yourself. Take up a sport. Gym. Meditation. Do something about it. It's a pattern interrupt. Rewire your mind.

You need something to do with your brain or it will wind you up. I did it before with acne and then the second I acknowledged my hair. Once I finally accepted it was not a haircut but a reality. I just have no gf. No wifey and I am in that fire whereby women ghost, flake could careless.

I have found solitude in yoga, meditation and exercise. By the grace of God, I dedicate my time to something beyond self. Ever read the bhagavad Gita? Speaks about being 'unattached to the fruits of our labor.' take action, freedom from outcome coupled with intent.

I've buried a lot of friends and family over the years. I have been been sporting battle wounds. Many of which are physical, mental or spiritual.

It led me to believe that there must be more. I am craving self knowledge, exploring consciousness (I want to do the tea ceremony one day in Peru), I've tripped hard before opening the gates, bad trip, and faced what Carl Jung deems the shadow.

Elliott Rogers, the psycho that went GTA, others etc. It's jungian psychology. It's what Columbine is. INCEL existence etc. That darkness, that place these people went is what religion refers to hell or Carl Jung refers to the shadow.

The anxiety you feel, the pain from hair loss, similar to the feel I had with acne or hair loss acknowledgement. It's ego. It's our self concept. It's attachment to form. Clinging to this life.

We got to embrace it. Enjoy our life, hair, being, turn into the skid. Let it go. Do what we can but, time will get us all.

Read. Busy yourself. The sec you get set off, go for a run or walk, grab tea or coffee with the gf. Go I a hike or be around nature. It's calming.

I came across dmt last year. I just sat in awe. It was like I watched the creation story. Like I was showered in love. I backslide too. I cling to this life and seek sex and relationships. I have my vices. But in that moment if tunnel vision everything loses meaning. In the grand scheme of things, very little matters.

Call all in on this life allocating your time to that which truly matters.

I felt like I died and was born again. Like, I have a second chance. Hair loss, acne, fears, height, rejection, etc nothing will stop me from going for my dreams in this life.

Keep me in the loop brother. Your girl loves you. Sees the value of your soul beyond skin deep. You did it well. Don't let your shadow take you into a dark place and chase her away. You git friends here. Only a MSG away.

I don't think the staying busy and being successful outside of dating means anything

I stay very busy and have a perfect life and am massively successful at everything I do and decent looking women want nothing to do with me.

I think decent looking women in 2018 have the highest standards in human history. They're all looking for 10/10 true chad types. I'm about a 7.5 to 8/10 and excellent at everything across the board and genuinely a great person and I'm probably gonna die alone.

 

[meetjoeblack]

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I have a great smile very similar to Mario Lopez but I obviously look much more masculine. Yes I make about 180K a year in a cheap area (I would say comparable to 400K a year if you live in NYC or London or California, my quality of life is just unbelievable). I go to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/vacations 8+ times a year/etc...


and no I don't get any dating attention from any women anywhere near my league. All the ladies who make it obvious they like me are 10 levels below my league

Good looking guy (full homosexual )!

Next set.

Cold approach is better. Yes, it takes more time but, women cannot use filters or Photoshop, you can vet fire gf material, sift through crazy.

I got asked for my Ig at a grocery store recently lol

I say cold approach but, I am breaking rapport and talking to people everywhere (gym, bar, club, coffee shop, work, grocery store, etc)!

You see the same faces, any ice breaker will suffice. You see again, you build from last interaction, and eventually, you can ask her out.

I am not nearly as studly as you so, I go more casual, indirect then being forward. You could go either way.

The importance being even if you are indirect or casual, the context should still be alpha. As in, you aren't looking to be her gayest shopping buddy.

You will bang her or friends lol

You will crash and burn but what is the alternative?

Renting a van and going GTA?

How get baes!

 

[brahmabull117]

Good looking guy (full homosexual )!

Next set.

Cold approach is better. Yes, it takes more time but, women cannot use filters or Photoshop, you can vet fire gf material, sift through crazy.

I got asked for my Ig at a grocery store recently lol

I say cold approach but, I am breaking rapport and talking to people everywhere (gym, bar, club, coffee shop, work, grocery store, etc)!

You see the same faces, any ice breaker will suffice. You see again, you build from last interaction, and eventually, you can ask her out.

I am not nearly as studly as you so, I go more casual, indirect then being forward. You could go either way.

The importance being even if you are indirect or casual, the context should still be alpha. As in, you aren't looking to be her gayest shopping buddy.

You will bang her or friends lol

You will crash and burn but what is the alternative?

Renting a van and going GTA?

How get baes!

yea I think I'm a decent looking guy, I get complimented on a constant basis everywhere I go. I'm much much better looking in real life than that pic BTW. I look ugly in that pic compared to how I look in real life

the problem is I'm not quite that 9-10/10 you need to be able to get any messages online. I haven't tried online dating in a while but I'm sure I would get zero replies from anybody decent looking.

I'm stuck in a very difficult situation. I want somebody who is a good catch in terms of the all around package but I'm not good enough to get that. I'm not willing to settle for a fat woman or someone in their 40s so I continue to be permanently single