Female Relatives Only Are Dating/marrying Nw1 Or Better. Anyone Else?

[Scottie957]

tbh,

confidence > hair
personality > hair
money > hair

I don't have much of those things, so of course I would like to hold onto my hair lol.

But, I've seen plenty of good looking women with bald men. I had a bald friend who was an absolute dork in high school. Later in life he was more fun and entertaining. He started dating all these gorgeous women.

Basically, I'm just saying if you let balding bring you down, it will.

 

[baba_yaga]

It's pointless man, i'm in great shape but slightly balding and also short. i also have a large dick and even i couldn't keep a 6/10 girl from leaving me. It's pointless. somem model DM'd her and boom she was gon for a ebtter deal. it's pointless

A friend of mine was getting along with a dude on campus. She liked him alot. We never had a face-to-face conversation without she mentioning him.
So they started talking and all went well. After a week or so, I noticed she would not talk about him all the time. I asked her why and her response was "I found someone better" (I insisted that she'd be honest). Poor dude got ghosted when everything seemed perfect.

 

[db135]

Ive learned that if a man basis his life around women he will definitely be going bald sooner rather than later.

My advice to men fwiw, is to focus on yourself, your career or your business. Workout and stay fit, for yourself not for girls. If you want to keep your hair do it for yourself. Do everything for yourself or to help those in need.

Women should be kept separate from your life not the reason for it.

Iv have seen the very best looking and successful men cheated on and dumped by their wife or girlfriend.

Enjoy their company while they are around and ditch them at the first whiff of trouble. It normally means there is someone else.

Dont giver her reasons just walk and delete. And continue focusing on yourself.

Of the long term relationships ive been in that started going wrong this is what i wish i had done. These days if i am dating someone i operate by these principles and it keeps me in the drivers seat at all times. It just takes a lot of inner strength

 

[WaccWaccWacc]

Ive learned that if a man basis his life around women he will definitely be going bald sooner rather than later.

My advice to men fwiw, is to focus on yourself, your career or your business. Workout and stay fit, for yourself not for girls. If you want to keep your hair do it for yourself. Do everything for yourself or to help those in need.

Women should be kept separate from your life not the reason for it.

Iv have seen the very best looking and successful men cheated on and dumped by their wife or girlfriend.

Enjoy their company while they are around and ditch them at the first whiff of trouble. It normally means there is someone else.

Dont giver her reasons just walk and delete. And continue focusing on yourself.

Of the long term relationships ive been in that started going wrong this is what i wish i had done. These days if i am dating someone i operate by these principles and it keeps me in the drivers seat at all times. It just takes a lot of inner strength

i agree with everyone u said besides your first sentence. Being bald has nothing to do with basing your life around women. Plenty of full thick hair fucks being beggars and pleasers.

 

[db135]

i agree with everyone u said besides your first sentence. Being bald has nothing to do with basing your life around women. Plenty of full thick hair fucks being beggars and pleasers.

I was just meaning that if his life revolves around women he will drive himself nuts. Rather than actually anything to do with balding.

 

[karatekid]

Well, I have a female cousin that married a balding guy, and she is pretty fat. Her sister married a nw1 good looking guy, and she is kinda skinny and good looking.
I have another female cousin in relationship with a bald dude, but I havent seen her in like 16 years so I have no idea how she looks like.

I have a good looking male cousin who banging hot chicks all the time.

A male second cousin who is balding at 25, and going to marry his gf who is fat and really unattractive.

Anyway.... Im just stating facts, lol, not a vent or something, but yes, there is correlation between looks of partners, what else is new?

 

[WaccWaccWacc]

Well, I have a female cousin that married a balding guy, and she is pretty fat. Her sister married a nw1 good looking guy, and she is kinda skinny and good looking.
I have another female cousin in relationship with a bald dude, but I havent seen her in like 16 years so I have no idea how she looks like.

I have a good looking male cousin who banging hot chicks all the time.

A male second cousin who is balding at 25, and going to marry his gf who is fat and really unattractive.

Anyway.... Im just stating facts, lol, not a vent or something, but yes, there is correlation between looks of partners, what else is new?

I have 1 cousin thats a 29yr old NW4.5, has had 3 9month relationships in the last 4 years with 8/10 & 9/10’s.

I have another cousin thats a 27yr old NW3.5 and bagged a hot *** girl for the last 5yrs.

Second cousin is bald since 26 now he is 42 but is married to a milf and she was bad, 10/10, ever since their wedding.

my aunt married a bald dude at 34, both of them decent looking.

Johannes Bartl dates a straight 10/10 and hes an avg youtuber with muscles from Austria.

I will admit I have a 26yr old cousin who is fully bald and has no dates but he is fat and has had a really troubled personality .

what I am saying is, “facts are facts”, and if you make something out of yourself beyond the whole balding thing women are not a problem. I suspect your “correlation” to be statistically insignificant if you factor in personality.

 

[karatekid]

I have 1 cousin thats a 29yr old NW4.5, has had 3 9month relationships in the last 4 years with 8/10 & 9/10’s.

I have another cousin thats a 27yr old NW3.5 and bagged a hot *** girl for the last 5yrs.

Second cousin is bald since 26 now he is 42 but is married to a milf and she was bad, 10/10, ever since their wedding.

my aunt married a bald dude at 34, both of them decent looking.

Johannes Bartl dates a straight 10/10 and hes an avg youtuber with muscles from Austria.

I will admit I have a 26yr old cousin who is fully bald and has no dates but he is fat and has had a really troubled personality .

what I am saying is, “facts are facts”, and if you make something out of yourself beyond the whole balding thing women are not a problem. I suspect your “correlation” to be statistically insignificant if you factor in personality.

First of all, great, your family members show the other side of the equation.
Anyway, Im not saying that few examples can prove anything, but Im sure there is correlation., you really going to argue on it?? Nothing wrong with it of course, this is how the world works. Im sure there is also correlation between intelligence level of the partners, and so on

 

[karatekid]

Anyway all this not the point of the thread, the OP asked so I shared. I also didnt picked those cases, those all the relatives that came to my mind

 

[tomJ]

I disagree. I truly do. This is just stereotypical, women obsess over so many things that are not hair related. If you genuinely got your life together financially and have goals and ambitions, women value this more than anything. There is no bald celebrity that doesnt have a 10/10 girl. You could say “well thats because theyre famous blah blah blah”. You just proved my point... they're financially set and have goals and ambitions. If you complain/speak about how much at a disadvantage you are because of the lack if follicles then you truly are at a disadvantage, because no man that pulls a 10/10 girl would say the same to you, simple facts. Perception is everything.

I get confidence and prestige come into play. But let me ask you this, if baldness doesnt matter so much, why am I, and many others on here struggling with online dating? When I had hair I got way more responses. Now it 99% of the time older overweight women and the occasionally girl my age that does not have good facial features. Your probably going to respond that I need to get out and find ways to connect to girls so they see what else I have to offer buuuut, unless you have significant cash or have very nice facial features, its gonna be tough to land a cite girl unless she fell in love with you back when you were in your prime. I'm personally working on the financial piece to increase my chances so I can wine and dine them, but damn that is not easy for someone my age. It's a slow process but I'm doing my best.

 

[Niki99]

I get confidence and prestige come into play. But let me ask you this, if baldness doesnt matter so much, why am I, and many others on here struggling with online dating? When I had hair I got way more responses. Now it 99% of the time older overweight women and the occasionally girl my age that does not have good facial features. Your probably going to respond that I need to get out and find ways to connect to girls so they see what else I have to offer buuuut, unless you have significant cash or have very nice facial features, its gonna be tough to land a cite girl unless she fell in love with you back when you were in your prime. I'm personally working on the financial piece to increase my chances so I can wine and dine them, but damn that is not easy for someone my age. It's a slow process but I'm doing my best.

The question is about what level of balding we are talking about? No hair at all before 30? Well yeah I agree especially in online dating it's gonna be hard. I just said that it's nonsense that you can only get laid as a NW0 or 1. There are NW3s/2,5s/2s with great success. I'm a NW2,5 and for me Tinder is going really good for example so it's definitely possible. But when I see people that say "under 6 feet tall it's over" or "if you are a NW1,5+ it's over" I have to laugh. In real life you can get women without that and you don't even have to look that good facially and on Tinder if you are ugly then you are ugly. No amount of hair or height will change that. That's just a cope, a scapegoat. If you are good looking and not above a NW4 as a twenty something you will always pull. But the majority isn't good looking or doesn't has confidence, charisma, money etc. So it's easy to whine and blame hair to have a excuse instead of actually doing something or being at least realistic about it.

 

[WaccWaccWacc]

I get confidence and prestige come into play. But let me ask you this, if baldness doesnt matter so much, why am I, and many others on here struggling with online dating? When I had hair I got way more responses. Now it 99% of the time older overweight women and the occasionally girl my age that does not have good facial features. Your probably going to respond that I need to get out and find ways to connect to girls so they see what else I have to offer buuuut, unless you have significant cash or have very nice facial features, its gonna be tough to land a cite girl unless she fell in love with you back when you were in your prime. I'm personally working on the financial piece to increase my chances so I can wine and dine them, but damn that is not easy for someone my age. It's a slow process but I'm doing my best.

because it is online dating. Clearly being bald in 2020 still has negative connotations, same with being overweight. Do you swipe right on overweight girls on dating apps? Probably not. Similarly they would probably not swipe right on a bald guy when theres a NW1 on the next swipe. Using apps for dates is very dumb, using apps for dates when you do not have a good appearance is even more dumb. You cannot showcase what you do have.

What Im saying is if all women have to judge you by is a picture of your head, theyre not picking you over the guy with luscious locks. If they could judge with you off the way you interact, treat her, make her laugh etc. she wont give af that you don’t have follicles on your head.

 

[dudealpha]

So I noticed that all my female cousins only date/marry guys with nice hair despite their father's being bald. They have never commented on it but I definitely took notice. Anyone else?

Even if they only date non-bald guys, does it matter? They are your cousins, you won't bang them (insert Alabama joke here).
This doesn't mean that a large majority of females care about you having hair. If you are a decent person with a good personality they will care more about you than if you are a full head of hair guy that doesn't care about anything else.

 

[dudealpha]

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Is everybody on this site here because of women? I'm here because I want to be happy with the way I look.

Yeah lol same. I'm here because I want to improve my hair, I don't think girls have anything to do with that. (I'm 17 so... this says something)

 

[Oknow]

I do a lot of online dating , I have decent hair that is slightly thinning but is not noticeable.

I have heard many women make negative remarks towards guys who have hairloss.

‘Half of the guys my age are bald’
‘It’s good that you have a good set of hair’

always makes me feel uncomfortable

 

[tomJ]

I do a lot of online dating , I have decent hair that is slightly thinning but is not noticeable.

I have heard many women make negative remarks towards guys who have hairloss.

‘Half of the guys my age are bald’
‘It’s good that you have a good set of hair’

always makes me feel uncomfortable

I disliked those comments too back when I had a good amount of hair. I thought about how my genetics were soon coming into play and genuinely felt bad about the bald guys out there. ....and I live when fat chicks make those type of comments. I just laugh.

 

[CrownBalding]

Na man hair is real bad. Nw5 pattern but have some patches of diffuse hair up top. Responded very well to both finasteride and minoxidil at one time but sides were too much. Please dont bother recommending low doses etc as I explored that road. I have bad genetics when it comes to medication. minoxidil messed with my heart and would actually give me mouth mucoceals (block saliva ducts) and heart issues. And I got every side in the book with finasteride. I'm upset that I cant use either med.

You should look towards average looking successful bald guys as inspiration. I personally admire Bill Burr A LOT. He’s not an attractive bald guy but his dominance still captures the attention of everyone. A lot of girls are very attracted to him based off his not give a f***/alpha attitude.

People on here will say that’s all bullshit, but if you step out the box, you’ll see a lot of relatively unattractive men crush it with women. The vibe you give off is extremely important.

There was this 3/10 bald 28 year old I worked with. He had an elongated pale head like a f*****g alien man. It was bad, and I actually really felt for him. Later, I found out he was f*****g the hottest girl at work at one point. Now he’s dating another coworker that’s a cute 7.5/10.

 

[whatintheworld]

I would say importance, in terms of what women care about, ranks something like this:

1. Social Status (like if you are a celebrity/famous).
2. Money (goes hand in hand with #1 but slightly different).
3. Face
4. Hair
<--- big gap ---- >

5. Being Fit
<---- big gap ---- >

6. Height
7. Personality
< ---- big gap ----- >

8. Intelligence (like what your university degree is, your profession. Key distinction is not how much money you make in your profession, that is #2).

 

[Haironnu]

I would say importance, in terms of what women care about, ranks something like this:

1. Social Status (like if you are a celebrity/famous).
2. Money (goes hand in hand with #1 but slightly different).
3. Face
4. Hair
<--- big gap ---- >

5. Being Fit
<---- big gap ---- >

6. Height
7. Personality
< ---- big gap ----- >

8. Intelligence (like what your university degree is, your profession. Key distinction is not how much money you make in your profession, that is #2).

while it's true social status and money are more important to women than how you look (unless you're really one ugly mf) that doesn't mean they are really into you or attracted to you, so end of day those 2 are not even part of the list because they don't cause real physical attraction to you, only to your money/social status.

and face and hair usually go together, I see hair as part of the face, it kinda comes as 1 unit of measurement.

 

[WaccWaccWacc]

I would say importance, in terms of what women care about, ranks something like this:

1. Social Status (like if you are a celebrity/famous).
2. Money (goes hand in hand with #1 but slightly different).
3. Face
4. Hair
<--- big gap ---- >

5. Being Fit
<---- big gap ---- >

6. Height
7. Personality
< ---- big gap ----- >

8. Intelligence (like what your university degree is, your profession. Key distinction is not how much money you make in your profession, that is #2).

This aint right one bit lol.

I mean it is all subjective but imo height, personality and fitness is above hair, maybe not to a guy but to a women def. Most women dont date guys shorter than them. Most women get turned off by complete sh*t personality. Also, being bald and fit is attractive. Having thick hair but fat asf is so gross, ew.