I agree with your point Admin but I wonder if you could have said it a little more gently.
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I agree with your point Admin but I wonder if you could have said it a little more gently.
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You should edit or remove this. Childish and aggressive attacks on active and contributing members is not a good way to grow the community. You also lose your credibility as an admin.
Who cares about the community. I'm here to get my hair back.
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Pot calling the kettle black, huh That Guy?
Do you remember typing this?
"Stop being melodramatic b****s"
You added that ending to one of your post for no real reason, nobody was attacking you. I think you posts are usually pretty good, but you can be one of the more agressive members here when someone doesnt agree with you.
Yes, I sure do. Probably because people were being melodramatic b****s.
Please tell me how this is comparable to:
Stalking and repeatedly badgering users you dislike for no apparent reason
Automatically disliking posts from particular users in an effort to make that user appear to have an unfavourable reputation
Posting nihilist, fatalism fueled comments that derail threads regarding developing treatments.
Posting condescending, holier than thou drivel in the same threads
Making sexually aggressive comments towards women who call you out for being an a**h**
Making multiple accounts to circumvent bans for being an a**h**
Except for all but one of the members I've currently got bad blood with, I've had no prior interaction with until I apparently said something they didn't like and have stalked and picked at nearly every comment I make because they are absolute nutcases and with the possible exception of Roberto, no one does anything about them. I give these people exactly what they give me and other people.
Plenty of people disagree with me. David, Nameless, Hairblues, etc, yet I've been able to reconcile with these people and continue posting. I've tried with most of the others and they have no interest in not being an a**h**.
It's actually really simple for me to not be an a**h** to you. Don't be a condescending shitbag to me or everyone else first.
What does this mean? Please clarify.
If as you say, That_Guy shouldn't be aggressive and rude then shouldn't Admin also refrain from being aggressive and rude? Either aggressive and rude is OK or it's not.
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I've read thousands and thousands of posts here. Out of all those posts I've been unable to understand maybe 2 or 3 posts. The post I've asked you to clarify is one of them. I'm not ragging on you - I'm just asking you to explain your post better because I can't make sense of it.
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You didn't answer my question.
Really, you yourself claim That_Guy is aggressive and rude and you want that to cease but in the next breath you say it's OK for someone else to do the exact same thing. Either it's OK to be aggressive and rude or it isn't.
Occulus, come on admit it, you're OK with someone being aggressive against That_Guy because you dislike That_Guy.
That-Guy and I used to have some arguments but we got past it. Communication doesn't have to be uncivil. Keep in mind that everyone here is stressed about hair loss. Some people are more sensitive than other people. Ask yourself if you can make peace with That_Guy without giving up too much of your space.
A lot of That_Guy's posts are very insightful and intelligent. But like I said, like all of us, he's stressed about hair loss so maybe keep that in mind.
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Admin did NOT tell That_Guy to tone it down. Admin told That_Guy to put 7 words in the titles of his threads.
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I really don't understand that post. I'm responding to almost ALL of your other posts very politely. That one post is the only post by you I've read that I don't understand. That's not to say I agree with everything you say but at least I understand your other posts that I've read.
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* Then don't clarify it. We'll leave that issue as it is. I can't make sense of your post.
* It's my understanding that Admin's issue with That_Guy is that That_Guy has used to few words in his thread titles. I'll re-read Admin's post later tonight to see if I'm wrong.
* That_Guy has given people advice and he's shared his observations about hair loss related stuff. I disagree with some things That_Guy says but most of what he says is smart and insightful.
* I'm not That_Guy.
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