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Yesterday my 31 year old friend told me that he had never had sex with someone besides prostitutes. He told me that more than anything he wanted a relationship and to hopefully get married some day.
His problems are a little extensive but I will try to list them below.
Cons: 100lbs overweight, rotten teeth, not a great face, recovering alcoholic. slightly ginger.
Pros: Hugely intelligent, a full head, 6ft 2, well educated.
As he is now he is probably a 3 or maybe a 4, but if he lost some weight and improved his teeth he was easily be a 5.
He came to be for advice because he knows I've slept around in the past and I was honest enough to tell him that everyones experiences will differ. I asked him what his expecations was, did he hope to sleep with stunners, and he told me that he has very low standards but he is afraid of rejection.
My advice, which was not great, was to go on tinder, get some good pictures, and just play the numbers game. But the thing is, this works for me, but i'm not sure it will work for him.
Anyway, what should I have told him?
I really want to give him better advice next time - I just didn't want to depress him with too much red pill stuff because he is in recovery.
(will share an image of him in PM but not on here)
His problems are a little extensive but I will try to list them below.
Cons: 100lbs overweight, rotten teeth, not a great face, recovering alcoholic. slightly ginger.
Pros: Hugely intelligent, a full head, 6ft 2, well educated.
As he is now he is probably a 3 or maybe a 4, but if he lost some weight and improved his teeth he was easily be a 5.
He came to be for advice because he knows I've slept around in the past and I was honest enough to tell him that everyones experiences will differ. I asked him what his expecations was, did he hope to sleep with stunners, and he told me that he has very low standards but he is afraid of rejection.
My advice, which was not great, was to go on tinder, get some good pictures, and just play the numbers game. But the thing is, this works for me, but i'm not sure it will work for him.
Anyway, what should I have told him?
I really want to give him better advice next time - I just didn't want to depress him with too much red pill stuff because he is in recovery.
(will share an image of him in PM but not on here)