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Really? Thank you for that enlightening information. Then blame human nature, I think that isn't fictional.
You'd be surprised at how many people still believe in that nonsense.
Really? Thank you for that enlightening information. Then blame human nature, I think that isn't fictional.
Then you don't know women enough.
Or you've simply not been on the dating scene sporting a NW5 in your early 20's.
I don't care about having pleasant opinions.
I care about seeing reality as it is.
If not women (and society in general), who do you blame then?
Why are we on this forum? It's almost always about women.
Would they be a little more tolerant, a little more understanding, a little more... human, this forum would have no reason to be.
Then you don't know women enough.
Or you've simply not been on the dating scene sporting a NW5 in your early 20's.
1. Who is complaining about women being sl*ts?Like all the men here want to be ladies men and land a new girl every night, YET they complain about women being w****s and sl*ts? Thats a double standard. They want women to find them attractive yet think its okay to not find a certain woman unattractive.
Modern media did not create this. Its a natural selection. Dont blame women, dont blame a god, blame your parents for being so selfish and afraid of being alone they procreated. I think half the time certain parents themselves were so mad at being born they decided to have spite children. My ma let us know many times she never actually intended on having kids in reality. Its like the abused who in turn abuse I think.
It kills me that my "little" brother is now better off than me after I worked my entire life and he frolicked. To me its like the story of the grasshopper and the ants but all the ants die of AIDS in the end and the grasshopper gets to just walk in and take their food anyway.
But in the end its just my parents fault and thats the only person you can blame.
But what I say is then how human are men? Seriously this goes both ways. You seem to have a negative outlook on all women. So how human are you?
Like all the men here want to be ladies men and land a new girl every night, YET they complain about women being w****s and sl*ts? Thats a double standard. They want women to find them attractive yet think its okay to not find a certain woman unattractive. You cant blame women for not liking bald men. You cant blame society. Society just makes our inner feeling okay to now be outer feelings. Society does not create people, people create society, the media only portrays what we are all thinking. Men were sexualizing women LONG before the media and LONG before the media women thought men were dogs. Its because when a women wants something she knows she can use sex to obtain it and men will be dogs and take advantage of that option. Its US not them who creates the stigmas.
The only reason I say this fred is because honestly Im about 10 years older than you and I had the same thought process as you for a while then. I started to become a bit more logical though and really look at things.
I mean look at old midevil paintings of knights with the damsel, its never a bald man saving her. Shes never clinging to a bald guys leg, he always has long flowing hair. Ancient gods always had long thick hair. Hair has ALWAYS been a sign of power and vigor. Look at Sampson, Hercules, JESUS! How many BALD Jesus's have you seen?
Modern media did not create this. Its a natural selection. Dont blame women, dont blame a god, blame your parents for being so selfish and afraid of being alone they procreated. I think half the time certain parents themselves were so mad at being born they decided to have spite children. My ma let us know many times she never actually intended on having kids in reality. Its like the abused who in turn abuse I think.
To end on a different note:
I was talking with my sis last night and we got onto the subject of "my" pop's (shes my half sister) depression and how I not only received his hair but also that, though I actually stay on my meds most of the time. Yet my brother has a perfect head of hair and his looks because of it.
She said "at least you have a much better personality and some charm"
I told her my life was MUCH easier and I got much further in it when I had my looks. Even my GF who does HR said recently, the good looking person gets the job (it was after I commented on that commercial I posted earlier).
This bothers me like anyone else. It consumes me that I cant walk out and just pick up any girl anymore or smile and wink through a job interview. It kills me that my "little" brother is now better off than me after I worked my entire life and he frolicked. To me its like the story of the grasshopper and the ants but all the ants die of AIDS in the end and the grasshopper gets to just walk in and take their food anyway.
But in the end its just my parents fault and thats the only person you can blame.
Also people STOP using actors as examples of "good looking bald men" Almost 99% of the guys became successful while they had HAIR! Why not post some pics of all those NORMAL bald guys surrounded by hot girls? Oh wait they dont exist.
Yeah, me too!I wish that I could give you some rep for it but apparently I have to spread some more to others first before I can do it...
I don't care about having pleasant opinions.
I care about seeing reality as it is.
If not women (and society in general), who do you blame then?
Why are we on this forum? It's almost always about women.
Would they be a little more tolerant, a little more understanding, a little more... human, this forum would have no reason to be.
I never said it doesn't suckThen you don't know women enough.
Or you've simply not been on the dating scene sporting a NW5 in your early 20's.
Swingline747 is right! My parents were, are selfish! If they would of used birth control, I wouldn't have inherited baldness, mental illness,insomnia, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, panic attacks and the list goes on from there. I wasn't even expected to be born! I just hate my family for many reasons. One day I hope to ignore them!
When I think of a good looking bald man, I think of someone like Mark Strong.
You need bushy, dark eyebrows. Well defined chin & jaw. A forehead with average or smaller than average proportions.
Ability to grow thick-dense facial stubble helps.
Again, hate of bald men is not instinctive, it is socially taught.
And I blame women for not being able to think for themselves and see past the hate they have for bald men.
They will just say: "No bald guys sorry", because Grey's Anatomy and One Tree Hill have taught them that a bald man is out of the question.
I'm still not convinced, I don't think baldness signals genetic inferiority on a biological level.
You could argue that it signals old age, but again, it's not a deal breaker on a biological level.
Old age signals maturity, which indicates a potential good mate for the girl.
Bald men are even perceived as more dominant and powerful. The problem, in my opinion, is still societal.
Women are not taught to seek those two qualities in men today, they are taught to hook up with pretty boys.
How can you not see that? It's all around, the majority of women don't care about a guy's status or money.
They care about having the trophy boyfriend who is ripped, tall and NW1.
And they care about that because the media, Sex and the City, and 50 Shades of Grey told them to.