Discussion in 'The Impact of Hair Loss' started by Dontwannabeabetabob, Mar 7, 2018.
You're so much better than us.
yeah, because I really feel like I am better than you. I don't think I am better than a sewer dwelling rat with the plague and everyone on here knows that. I just feel like the human conception of NEEDING a partner in life is very very off. This combined with social media has really fucked our perception. I get it man. I used to compusively date hot sluts on dating sites.. like every week. It's bullshit and it's a lie.
Why are we letting superficial people impact us so much? I hear them all day, I see them all day, I live in a place where they thrive... but along side them are also decent, average, hard working people that have learned to live WITHOUT such superficiality. It sucks. I feel it too. But none of us are going to survive by constantly reminding ourselves that there is this population that looks at us as retarded and disfigured. The CONSTANT reminder of that on this site it fucked. fucked.
Incel forums have fucked my head up. Then when I see shit like I just posted, it just confirms in my head what I read. I judge everyone's looks - from their gonial angles, hairlines, zygos, eye hollowing, body composition, etc. I'm constantly looking to see if I'm being mogged. 95% of the time I am. For fucks sake, I was mogged yesterday in line at Chipotle by HIGH SCHOOL KIDS.I got so enraged that I left while standing in line. It was brutal.
People there are so casual..
they are taking this as granted.
I read one girl saying this number is very low.
Feeling something is really wrong ..
you seek sadness. you are not seeking happiness. you are not seeking peace. You're compounding your problems. I am not trying to be a therapist or any of that shit. I do the same thing by being on here and indulging in these threads. But dude, you need to start concentrating, even if just minimally, on your strengths and values. I am sure you have a ton. At the end of life, no one gives a FUCK about these instagram losers and these popular kids at chipotle. When maturity and age kick in, we value much much more. It's not a cope man. Good people value GOOD friends. Let the world sort out the women issue. Listening to instagram sluts is not helpful at all.
There is this girl at my gym that only goes there to take care of a mentally handicap guy. She is probably no older than 25. She sits in a chair and waits while he gets dressed in the locker room for 30 minutes, works out for an hour and gets redressed for 30 minutes. She is adorable. Gorgeous actually. Straight up stunning 10 and all of you would agree if I posted a picture. She just wears a hoodie and sweat pants and doesn't pay much attention to anyone. Sometimes she's reading a book. She always gives me this loving smile as I run around the track that neighbors where she sits quietly. I noticed she doesn't do that to anyone else. I know that she can see and that she values the fact that I work my ass off and that I don't have a huge ego. She doesn't like the Chads, and trust me there are a lot of them.
Some people are genuine. Sure looks matter and they wouldn't date you if you're hideous. I never tried to pretend that was the case. But sometimes, even with gorgeous women, there are variables, priorities and levels of attractiveness. Play to your strengths. When you turn attractiveness into a strict mathematical formula, you are wrong.
Yes..there are girls like this .
and to find such person is our job.
One of my close female friend told this to me..
"It's your fault for not finding that type of girl."
and I believe she is right.
I just don't believe it.
Maybe they did their sample of millennials at a brony convention.
Most people at university got laid about 10 times a year (apart from the weird religious ones).
Its not just what women think of bald men, its full-headed normie society as a whole. And they do look down on us and mock and ridicule us bald guys. But yet they still have the audacity to put up this bullshit pc charade the likes of which youre all familiar. Its exhausting to focus on all the intracacies and layers of social bullshit involved with this dilema of baldness, but its there none the less. The superficiality, the willfull ignorance, the hypocracy oh lurhd the hypocracy, the double fucking standards, the list goes on.
Just tired of all the crap that comes with this disease.
The handicapped guy is probably paying her some major bucks. As for you, she's probably smiling because she's trying to hold back her laughter.
There's always a rational explanation for something so unnatural.
Designated sammich makers.
There are tons of guys who can easily fill the gap in life of this women,ready to spend money.
Also you made an effort to change the facts..same like media.
You gave your rational explanation by quoting only half of data that was helpful for you..
while you ignored this point "she doesn't do it for anyone else."
If a girl wants,she can find a reason to laugh on about 60% of guys..
but to find a single person is really hard to digest.
That's a ridiculous interpretation.
Not everyone has a cynical outlook such as the one you described.
I think this 25 year old woman that @buckthorn mentioned is the type of person that has a warm caring heart.
These women do exist!
I wish you would post more often.
How is your life atm, UC Man?
Yes. I couldn't believe the devotion one nurse had for her patients that I met about 6-7 years ago. Once we went together in her car for home visits and she was dressing and cleaning the old patients who had all kind of "gross" pathologies. It was really genuine, she said that could be us one day or we should see them as our parents/grandparents. She was pretty but all heart. I was in a relationship at the time but I remember thinking she's perfect. She'd just come back in the car and sip on her water calmly. I told her that I can sense her true care and I admire her, this touched her heart as she said no one had told her before like how I did.
Can you change your avatar, man? it's not nice.