IBM said:
flimflam said:
Taugenichts said:
No, youth starts at about 12-14 and ends in your early twenties. I am 25. The "good" years of my life are over and the fact that these were the "good" ones actually make my life very sad.
lulz. Just ... lulz.
Hey, if I thought I had peaked already, I'd just kill myself now.
flimflam why you're stroking on the same key? It's true that some of us are trying to maintain or get back youth to fill a gap in our lifes. Some of us admitted. If you have a sugestion of how to improve our lifes write it. Just dont call names.
ok, you're right, that wasn't very helpful of me. I'll say something a bit more useful:
When I first accepted my hairloss, at age 26, I thought: this is it - the end of my youth. Game over.
Gradually, over time, I realised that no one else cared as much as I did and I slowly came round to thinking this is MY life and I only have ONE try at it and why should I hide in the shadow of embarrassment and shame? I WILL NOT get to age 40 and be full of regret - look back and think: "my hair wasn't so bad - why did I turn down all those invitations? Why didn't I have more fun?"
It coincided with a house move to a place that was quite different to what I was used to and to be honest - quite scary. So it was either cave-in and live like a hermit and go out and have fun. I used to be a shy person who was quietly confident so I decided I would be tough and take any failures on the chin as I thought it would help me become a stronger person. I thought; yeah, I can handle it.
Guess what happened?
There were no failures.
I had the attitude "I have nothing to lose" so I went to parties. I talked to new people. I talked to girls. I didn't "try". I was relaxed. It was a gamble, which is something I don't do. I'm quite calculating. But oh it was worth it.
And, at 27 (next week!), I feel like my youth is actually just beginning - I'm having so much fun!! Much more fun that I did when I was aged 18-25 (with a thick NW1

). So what I'm saying is, age-wise, there is hope! Just when you think it's over - you can still discover; it's not! It's all up to you. Just realise you can do it. You're human, and humans can do some really amazing sh*t can't they?
Maybe you need to surround yourself with new people? Get a new job, or move house? Something new, something scary. Take risks, it's so rewarding if you win or lose.
I wish you and Taug all the best, and anything I say has your best interests at heart. I feel for you guys just as I feel for myself and I want you to be happy like me.
Peace.
Alan