What is a bald man supposed to do on a Saturday night?

[Caillou]

Just lol at these defeatist threads.

@Norwoody Why not get a hair system, same for @Feelsbadman

Tbh most don't even need a hair system. If you get a couple of hair transplants and use a combination of Zix and derma-rolling, then you can have a good head of hair for a good amount of years before something new hits the market


What i'm wondering about is whether derma-rolling would increases Zix's chances to induce side effects or not, as not much is known about what Zix really does to the body

 

[Feelsbadman]

Okay but atleast your hair is fixed with a hair system. About your length and other features, you'll have to accept those.

Enough ugly, short guys with GF's. But I won't bullshit you, yes it's going to be harder with those stats but not impossible.

Best tip: expand your social circles, by far the easiest way to get a girl is from friends, social circle. Have seen girls get with guys they wouldn't even look 2 seconds at on tinder for example, looks are less important in a social setting imo.

My social skills are bad (genetics/social anxiety) so i'm screwed
the only ugly/short guys i know with gfs are either - very social, very rich or their gfs are uglier and fatter than them.

Society has no place for a short ugly male with poor social skills

i had a gf once oh welll at least i can die a happy man

 

[Feelsbadman]

You can fix your social skills. Also stop putting yourself down.

Nah i can't I've always had social anxiety and been a poor speaker it's just who iam, my father is like that and his father is like that. I could barely talk to people till i was 21. I'm never going to be a life of the party I'll always be that quietguy i can make friends and talk to people but i'll never have thos brilliant social skills that i see ugly short guys have that have gfs.

 

[Caillou]

Yeah zix is enough for people who don't bald aggressively but I do think minoxidil+needling is necessary for others.

Minoxidil is sh*t in various ways; makes you look older, is a pain in the *** to apply, is dangerous for pets if you have any, etc

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Minoxidil is sh*t in various ways; makes you look older, is a pain in the *** to apply, is dangerous for pets if you have any, etc

Yeah I gave up on Minoxidil after 2 months. It wasn't working for me anyway. Didn't have any of the "massive shed" people talk about and I never noticed any regrowth.

 

[Caillou]

Yeah but for many zix or microneedling won't be enough

if they're not enough to at least maintain transplanted hair then you never stood a chance anyway and might as well go bald with those aggressive genes

 

[Feelsbadman]

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I was an introvert too in the past, but you can change. Anyway it's clear you don't believe you can change, nobody can help you but yourself.

And if you're introverted and have massive social anxiety there is still online dating for you. I'm not a fan of it but it's better than nothing.

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Sorry but your'e a bit silly , yes we can al change and work on ourselves, to an extent, for example no matter how hard you train you'll never be an olympic runner. I'm not bad at talking to people but the ill never have the outstanding social skills to make up for being ugly and short. It's just not in my brain to be like that and trust me i've tried. Unless i take drugs/medication.

 

[Pls_NW-1]

or play games

Heya, why not playing video games? We can play together

 

[Caillou]

(Western) society became too liberal, lost its religious/spiritual connection and as a result became extremely individualistic and nihilistic.

Sad evolution, doubt it will be enough for the contemporary west to survive if it doesn't change.

Are you religious yourself or agonistic? You never really struck me as an atheist since you don't seem the type who blindly worships science

 

[Feelsbadman]

Okay man then go full online dating, take it slow. And pimp your online account, you will find someone.

+ I assume you're from the west? You'll get massive appeal if you try dating as western man in other countries. (but this won't be necessary imo)

Do you live under a rock? Online dating is all about looks.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Genuine interest: Could the Feelsbadman type folks over here explain why they don't want to get a hair system? Is it just the cost?

I think a middle class person should be able to afford a good hair system, and if hair loss affects a person this much, why not just get one?

I'm ugly as well
also with a hair system isn't it awkward? what willl happen when u have a gf and take it off?
Imagine if you had a girlfriend who had a a beautiful face then she told u the entire time she was wearing a mask and takes it off and shes a gremlin underneath?

 

[INT]

Agnostic but I see the incredible value religion brings to society. (but of course not all religions are good)

I do see the value of religion as well but I simply cannot get myself to worship some guy in the sky who supposedly created the universe. I do like to read about philosophy, it can be inspiring and can create this sense of ‘direction’ in life, which I guess is what most people get out of religion as well.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Hence you should pimp your account, take professional pictures, etc. And I'm not talking about tinder, enough alternatives.

Hell, you could use fake pictures too if it bothers you. But yes I won't deny looks are an important factor. Also why I said social game was best but since you believe you can't change we can scrap that option.

It looks like you're just happy to be in your miserable state and are searching for confirmation that there's no hope so you don't have to take any action. But I assure you, there is hope. A girl won't fall in front of your shoes though, you need to put in some work.

I tried incredibly hard, and self improved for years to get a girlfriend who had was mentally ill and was absolute trash but it was one of the best feelings i ever had . i've convinced myself it never happened so now i feel fine and over the heart break and nostalgia.
so don't say i'm comfortable being miserable. I work very hard.
The problem is for someone like me it no longer is worth all that effort. the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Most men who use hair systems I think are very satisfied, and I think the awkwardness is generally at most a small problem. Also: You have to look at realistic options, in the real world nothing is perfect.

"I'm ugly as well"

Dude, you've been telling us for weeks that you used to look much better before your hair loss, and you used to be much happier. If that is the case, the problem can be solved with a hair system. Snap out of it.

Nah it was more than that i've explained my story. I'm a very ugly male and the only way for me to be attractive is if i do all these things to push myself in a some what attractive level and its just not worth it

 

[Feelsbadman]

But not all hard work turns into results.

What did you do to improve, get girls?

yea exactly? so why work so incredibly hard for no result? why not direct that energy elsehwere?

 

[INT]

yea exactly? so why work so incredibly hard for no result? why not direct that energy elsehwere?

Where is elsewhere for you?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Where is elsewhere for you?

- career
- hobbies
- socialising
- starting a business
- learning new things
- video games

 

[Feelsbadman]

What I mean is what exactly did you do? Try a different approach, strategy maybe that will help.


But if you really don't believe you can be better and get a girl then no words or help will change that. Fix your victim mentality first.

I ran a trial and error strategy for years.
I wore different clothes, hair styles, everything. Each day i'd talk to women and see their response. After a super long time I came up with almost a "formula" that seems to work. When I did certain things in this 'formula' my response from women was always positive. At my peak, women at my workplace wanted to get lunch and talk to me. Even though i had 0 hobbies, i was anti social and weird. It really makes you think does social skills even matter?
Anyway the problem is i can not maintain this "formula" nor is it healthy. I finally managed to get a girlfriend only to be completlely destroyed and i realised that going throuhg all those hoops for women was a huge waste of time nad somrthing i regret deeply.

 

[INT]

- career
- hobbies
- socialising
- starting a business
- learning new things
- video games

These are the things you should focus on in life anyway (besides video games). Doing this for a while will wash away some of the stench of desperation (which you are 100% exuding to anyone around you right now) and thus, indirectly increase your chances.

 

[Feelsbadman]

These are the things you should focus on in life anyway (besides video games). Doing this for a while will wash away some of the stench of desperation (which you are 100% exuding to anyone around you right now) and thus, indirectly increase your chances.

Im not desperate at all in real life. I don't care anymore. I miss sex but i've become strong (mentally) and just forgotten about it all and dont think about it.