All by myself, banned from most major dating apps, and I have no inclination to go out or do anything. No, I don't want to watch p*rn, movies, or play games. I am sitting alone in silence and reading these forums. What is the biological role of a balding man anyways? I have no purpose.
What is a bald man supposed to do on a Saturday night?
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- Start date
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yea its tough
especially as a small ugly bald male.
going to bars and clubs are pointless.
if i was tall and good looking id go by myself abd talk to girls.
ive been by myself a few times. so i have tried but its not great.
theres not much to do. all my friends have partners. probably having sex with their gf right now.
just try and waste time watching a movie or tv series.
i just avoid social media so i dont see people posting goiing out etc.
i dont know what else can you do?
its sad but just got to cope.
especially as a small ugly bald male.
going to bars and clubs are pointless.
if i was tall and good looking id go by myself abd talk to girls.
ive been by myself a few times. so i have tried but its not great.
theres not much to do. all my friends have partners. probably having sex with their gf right now.
just try and waste time watching a movie or tv series.
i just avoid social media so i dont see people posting goiing out etc.
i dont know what else can you do?
its sad but just got to cope.
going out as an ugly bald orc leaves you no chance especially by yourself. It becomes obvious to everyone you are a useless genetic defect and that no one wants to even associate themselves with you. Imagine what it tells women when not even a fat hog or gay wingman will go out with you. And the same goes for social media. Thing is I have no way to cope except these forums.
can't even get an ugly fat hog to message me back. Because they know they are of the human race and I'm just an orc that is only good for liking their instagram pics.
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You have 3 options
1) lay down and rot - accept your defeat in life and lie on your bed in a dark room doomscrolling doomer \blackpill forums on your phone.
2) Escort-cel - legal and fairly safe to get lays with 7-8s in the UK. On an average wage you can probably do this once or twice a month. Won't give you validation though.
3) Cope - distract yourself with activities such as gymcelling, work related courses, netflix squidgame.
1) lay down and rot - accept your defeat in life and lie on your bed in a dark room doomscrolling doomer \blackpill forums on your phone.
2) Escort-cel - legal and fairly safe to get lays with 7-8s in the UK. On an average wage you can probably do this once or twice a month. Won't give you validation though.
3) Cope - distract yourself with activities such as gymcelling, work related courses, netflix squidgame.
doubleindemnity
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That is usually movie night for me. Find a classic on Netflix or somethng or go to a movie theater (alone). Even if I had hair I think that the Saturday night social scene, which seems to consist of drinking enough to ruin your Sunday morning, would not be for me. Make sure that you put down your cell phone and usage of this forum and enjoy quality time with yourself.
Life doesn't revolve around women. Once you start being brainwashed by society into thinking you should be, that's when you get fucked. Focus on yourself and being the best version of yourself you can be. You will attract who is meant to be in your life, and if it's not a chick then so be it.
Once you start making women feel like you need them more than they need you, or that their something incredibly valuable, you lose your power most of the time. Also, girls don't usually go for the guy who over-compliments them.
Use the time to invest in your self. Upgrade you. Get into peak fitness and health. Fix your diet, learn new skills, learn high income skills, use the time to make lots of money by not wasting it on other people or going out but by building up your capital, so that when a great hairloss treatment and possible cure comes, you can be first in line, and once you got those hair gains, like the last infinity stone because you would already have everything else in your life, you will be a high value male which women would want.
Good Health, Good physique, rich, high income skills, good at fun activities ( so fun to be around), good dress sense and wardrobe and well groomed with great hygiene (good colognes, etc) + good head of hair = unstoppable.
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This advice always annoys me
yes life doesn't revolve around women but its a bit different to having options vs having no options and women at all.
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sick of this red pill advice
just get super rich have great hair be super fit and tall and good looking and rich and super skilled and fun to be around and social and
the women will come people!
just do those things so easy!
just get super rich have great hair be super fit and tall and good looking and rich and super skilled and fun to be around and social and
the women will come people!
just do those things so easy!
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Idk on friday night I was drinking with my friends and had fun overall, I think your problem is not that you have no hair but you have no friends
Why do you think you can't date again? Is your hair loss that bad? Because if it isn't then you have a chance since you managed to get an attractive girlfriend before even if she was a total b**ch
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im ugly and short
But you were short and looked the same - which i assume isn't actually ugly - when you got women before. So what's the difference?
I think your problem might be psychological or Finasteride is f*****g you up badly and you can't connect with women as a resuly
You need to become a high value man first if you want to to:
1) Be an alpha in the relationship - good way to not be treated like crap.
2) Attract and go after the women that YOU want and not the ones you have to settle for by being a beta in the relationship.
Also, you don't have to like it but what I stated is the cold hard truth. It's not meant to be liked. The world treats people who aren't high value like crap, it's a cold world, no use sugar coating it.
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ive explained this story 100x cbf explaining again
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i know this but it takes years to become high value if ur not good looking in the first place
also even alphs get cheated on and can be treated badly if the women is fucked up
this red pill stuff is cringe
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just be a high alpha male and you wont have any triiuble with women
be super fit
fun good looking tall
have heaps of money
multiple businnesses
hair
and height
so easy guys !!
yes we already know that stuff.
be super fit
fun good looking tall
have heaps of money
multiple businnesses
hair
and height
so easy guys !!
yes we already know that stuff.
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lol why have you been banned
Yes, it takes years, which is exactly my point, but no one said it would be easy, it's hard af to change.
In life if you only go for what is the easy option you'll end up living sh*t, eating sh*t, and being sh*t.
While people think they have nothing to do but sit and sulk about how the world works , they could actually be working on becoming a high value man, and then they realize it takes long and suddenly from thinking they have too much free time, they suddenly swap to feeling as if they don't have enough time in the day to do all they need to do to become a high value man.
Which is exactly my point, if you were focused on the right things you wouldn't be thinking you have so much free time and wonder what you should be doing to pass time, like Netflix, over sleeping, etc, you would be focused on only doing things that will improve yourself which is quite time consuming.
Also, sure alpha males occasionally get treated badly by women, but that's only in the rare cases when the women is also high value. If she isn't high value she is in no position to be treating a high value make like sh*t because he can just go get with other women.
Furthermore, the amount of high value males that get treated like crap in a relationship is greatly less and almost rare in comparison to beta males in a relationship.
Atleast as a high value male you get to go after the girl YOU want and you get to decide what to put up with and what not to.
Also, to guys who are fat or out of shape, focus on gyming and reducing body fat a lot. It will be beneficial for your health, hair and confidence. Even your hair needs that blood flow pump from exercise.
I also never understood guys who look for a partner when they aren't the best versions of themselves, and that includes learning how not to be a simp, the art of dating and communicating/texting as a high value man, etc. It's just setting yourself up for failure.
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