It's the sour grapes phenomenon in full effect. "Oh, she's shallow, well I wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway." Yes you would and you did. And if you weren't bald, that "shallowness" of hers would've maybe never been an issue, and you could have made a good couple. She's not the devil incarnate for not wanting to date a balding guy. How many of you here would've truly been willing to date a balding woman, BEFORE you experienced hair loss yourself? Not many, I bet.
Shallowness is always an issue. I would choose to date a 6/10 who I can enjoy life with over 8/10 who only provides good sex. If it was a one night stand I would choose the 8/10 but dating no.
I am not bitter because of the loss of attraction(probably a little bit), but I am annoyed by the way she handled the situation. Do you think that the way she acted is justified?