I have been there, I.D. We go into these relationships with eyes wide open, though, so if both parties are honest, we only have ourselves to blame for continuing on and getting hurt.
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I have been there, I.D. We go into these relationships with eyes wide open, though, so if both parties are honest, we only have ourselves to blame for continuing on and getting hurt.
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Precisely Joan,
The blame is ours to accept, even though it's easier at first anyway to blame other party,
particularly when we're talking about strangers.
The blame is ours to accept, even though it's easier at first anyway to blame other party,
particularly when we're talking about strangers.
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So, what are you saying? That because women enjoy casual sex they are evil wh*res who should be humiliated, shunned by society and sl*t shamed?? HUH??? HUH?!?!
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I never used the word sl*t in a negative connotation. These people put words in my mouth, because that's the easiest way to win an argument. In my opinion, it's just the one night stand thing. It happens sometimes, I get it. But when it's a repetitive behavior by woman OR man, it's just becomes nasty IMO.
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It looks like "The Impact of Hair Loss" section has turned into more of a place to talk about sex. :laugh:
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well lets face it, the whole reason for hair loss' impact is sex, or rather lack of it lol
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The looks of it seem to be that way! :x
How can a woman who has ****ed, let's say 30 different 10/10 men, be romantically or sexually satisfied with her little Bill Gates good earner husband she marries when she's 30?
Why wouldn't she get bored after a while, check her tinder profile and start having affairs?
If she got caught why wouldn't she divorce the guy and take half his money?
Wouldn't her capacity to feel romantic love be used up by the first few 10/10's how broke her heart?
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Well, her Bill Gates boyfriend just has to be better in bed.
How can a woman give up constant sex with new 10/10 men? Imagine if we could open up tinder on our phone and just pick a different 10/10 woman for sex any time we wanted? Asking women to give that up is like asking someone to give up heroin.
You can't close Pandora's box.
There comes a point in a woman's life where looks don't trump other qualities. There also comes a point where she sees beauty and desirability where she once didn't. This isn't true for all women, just the ones who grow up.
Well men don't want to be put in the "divorced" box, the "paying 50% of their salary to their ex" box or the "not allowed to visit their own children" box.
Can't you see the concern?
It's just being a mercenary though isn't it? If we're being honest I mean? "I'm getting older and uglier and I need someone to pay for a house".
edit: What I really mean is, having sex with lots and lots of different people will harden your heart and make it harder to love.
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Dude, I don't think it's as drastic as you think. You're imagining pornstar type dudes with flawless bodies and huge d*cks. 1) If she is attracted to you period, and you spend time with sensual foreplay and give her amazing oral sex... you're already ten steps ahead of the game 2) Get a horse. You can ride the horse with her into the sunset. Women love horses.
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disclosure - I've lost it. Please don't listen to a word I say.
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Like.. hey, is this guy bald -
- I didn't even notice, because he's on a F*CKING HORSE!!! problem solved. you're welcome.I met my husband when I was 30. Yeah, I wanted a house and kids, but that's not why I married him. And he's not a 10/10 either. We're just an average-looking couple. We were compatible, we genuinely enjoyed each other's company, and we are still best friends with an even stronger bond. I actually had more money than he did coming into the marriage; plus, he had child support and other payments to his ex.
I've had sex with only around 15 guys, since I had three long-term relationships starting at age 18, so if you consider that a lot, then I am qualified to answer your question and say that it didn't harden my heart. On the contrary, it made my heart more open to and appreciative of someone who truly loves me.
Of course I agree with that. I'm actually not judging at all even though it may sound like that. I wasn't stereotyping at all either. People wouldn't be human if they didn't give in to temptation, it's a bit like food though, where capitalism and modern excess is causing a huge problem.
Just like Domino's only ever being a phone call away is causing a health crisis, a new 10/10 man only being a text away from a horny woman away is causing a romantic crisis.
Welcome to America! Jk Theres a high divorce rate in the US and I see this happen alot. I am not sure if its so cut and dry. Kinda like what Paris was saying with boxing people into categories. Too many different factors. Love/relationships are crazy and complicated.
I agree, except for the horse.
I wouldn't have had any of these concerns if I was born in your era Joan.
Have you ever considered dating someone, say, five years older? Or do you think the majority of women in all age groups are superficial?
I think everyone is superficial.
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I think this is too blunt of a statement. Yes, everyone is superficial to an extent. To which extent, is very different for different people. I have dated women that you would consider 100% superficial, while others, I promise with all my heart, would have stayed with me, loved me and NEVER cheat on me, even if I burnt my face off. It's true that some women put genuine love above all. So much to the point where Brad Pitt with a 10" d*ck could walk in their room when they're horny as hell and they STILL wouldn't do anything. My Dad always used to say, " a good woman that truly loves you could be in an army of men and not do a thing. Not even want to do a thing". Love can trump all. I believe this. Without this belief there is no point man.