The way a woman's mind works- Gunner was right maybe

[Stingray]

This reminds me of something.

Oh yeah. High school.

I was hoping the superficiality stopped there.

Nope.

 

[HairyPotter]

im a solid norword 2.5, i have never bought ANYTHING for a girl in my life and i get more girls then any of my friends

what does that tell you?

That your friends are all ugly and have no game?

 

[bgred90]

Way to keep the guys hopes up.

 

[WithTheLidOff]

great thread. AS far as Paul McCartny goes....if I was the worlds most famous living ROck and Roll icon i'd have no problem getting women. He's got a perfect head of hair by the way =p. Personality DOES go a long way..i work at a place with 40 women and 5 guys. Of course ALL the other guys have great bodies and great heads of hair, except for the 50 year old. I thikn i'm balding enough for the rest of us. I thought it would be a bit rough ..i mean at least one of them could have been not a Norwood 0 but NOOOOOOOOOO. Anyways...i haven't notice myself getting treated any differently. 1 ugly girl has called me baldy and one of the guys has made a few references....I 100% believe that they dont know how hurtful theyre being. I dont think its a bald thing, i mean if there were great looking girls at your work...wouldnt you kinda "be around them " more often?? Men do it too. It human nature. I'm possitive that if I had someone that was interested in me and i was equally as interested in her (married and happy I guess) I woldnt really be concerned about hairloss at all. This site is awesome and in the past year i feel that my hairloss worries have gone down 500%. That alone has helped me with my social life. I hope you all find someone good if yo havent already...hell I hope I do!!

 

[Gilgamesh]

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i suspected you were angry at gunner because deep down inside you related with him and his opinions most of all

this is how it usually works out

btw, I agree with 100% of what you said: and with the money you make from law school you can afford HM if it ever works or a megasession with Cole+BHT

so you'll be fine: until then: hit the books

 

[Snipes]

I've concluded that you work with a bunch of skanky hoes

 

[Lizzad]

I understand that I had a choice.
I fucked up big time on that and I have to live with the loss.
But there was money stolen from me that I never reported, and it is a longer story than I just posted.

So, NO, I was not owned by anyone.
And im not trying to steal this thread.

The fool is he who makes the same mistakes with women again and AGAIN. So nobody's a fool here. We've all learned our lessons from when we were young, inexperienced and wet behind the ears.

Hell, virtually every form of media out there gives men a completely warped idea of how to interact with women we find attractive.

 

[Salgado]

Hey hair fallens,

Women have manys diffearent way to treat bald man. Sometimes she like it bald, something she like it long and someone else she like it diffuse. Best way to treat women is piss. Piss on a women if you tink she no like bald head. The pissing take two foams.

1) Don't admit you piss on her
2) Let her came back for more piss.

sorry. I mean pass no piss.

 

[willywonka]

In my observations of the opposite sex at work, I have come to the conclusion that most girl's lives revolve around their own physicality and the physicality of those around them. I work with some of the hottest girls you will ever meet, and I work with some average looking girls. It doesn't matter. Both examples of girls act in the same manner.

Some examples of their behavior:

-The supervisor I work with is a Norwood 6, probably about 35 years old. None of these girls like him for some reason even though the guy gives them extra work and is often very reasonable concerning pay, flexible time, etc. They treat him with little respect and act like he is the worst boss to ever work for. This is hardly the case. In many ways these girls are just getting by on their looks and their ability to attract people to the booths (booth babes). Well, the guy takes a vacation this weekend and his temporary replacement is a guy about 25 years old with a full head of hair. He's the tall, dark, handsome type as they say. The girls just absolutely swoon over the guy, even though he has no real personality. When he talked to them, they would all arch their backs and do the eye-fluttering sh*t. Anyway, the guy actually made us stay later than our manager ever would have, but none of these girls bitched like they normally do. For some reason, because THIS dude did it, it was all perfectly OK.

-All of these girls, whether attractive or not, consistently look for less attractive girls to talk to while they are working. The average looking ones bad-mouth the really hot ones. The average looking girls look for less-attractive girls to surround themselves with so that they can feel like the hottest in the bunch. Often the average looking ones don't want to work with the hot ones, either. The super hot ones don't care, because they know they are hotter than anyone else anyway. They talk to the less than average ones in a condescending way, like they were slow-witted or something. They always say, "She's a nice girl" with a fake smile or something to that extent. It's all a superficial game.

-They constantly look at girls passing by. If she's hotter than her, she's automatically a "sl*t," "trying too hard," or "wearing too much makeup." If a really hot girl approaches one of our booths, the girls give her dirty looks. God forbid if a girl has large breasts and is showing off her cleavage. The daggers come immediately out. "Oh, she's just drawing attention from her ugly face," they'll say. Of course the girl isn't ugly at all. It seems they can't stand to bear it when an attractive girl is anywhere near them in the same vicinity.

-If a girl approaches our booth with a really good looking guy on her shoulder, then she gets even more icy cold stares. "What is HE doing with HER?" they ask.

-Finally, most of these girls constantly talk about the physical features of each other and their male counterparts ALL THE TIME. This one girl I know talks about a fellow co worker's Jesus hair all the time. She says it's "so beautiful" and all that sh*t, and it's always when I'm standing around her. It's so annoying. She'll say I have nice eyes, but nothing else. She'll stop talking to me during a conversation because this guy walks by or someone else that she thinks is "cute." Often the people she likes are ***-backward morons. I just don't get it.

I think this shows that Gunner was partially right. Girls (average or hot) are all consumed by the superficial, and if this is true we are all consequently fucked. It's sad, really. If you're a tall, dark, handsome guy with hair, you've got it made with the females. They don't even seem to care if you have a nice body or not. The guy I mentioned earlier is a skinny b**ch, yet they all look at him like they want him to f*** them right then and there.

I'm going to law school, and I'm going to make some coin. THAT is the only thing these girls understand or want possibly more than a good-looking guy. When talking about marriage, first and foremost, they want a good looking guy with money. Secondly, an average looking guy with money. Then, an ugly or even balding (gasp!) guy with piles of cash (I'm talking like you better have a house in the Hamptons kind of cash). Lastly, if they just want a nice f*** without marriage considerations, they'll go for any guy they consider "gorgeous." They usually are in this phase from the age of 18-25, so it looks like I won't be getting any action for a few more years until I get out of law school. Then, bam, just when they are ready to stop f*****g around, I'll be money.

That's life, fellas. Don't kid yourselves with romance, thoughts of higher understanding, and a girl who loves you for you. It's all bullshit fed to us by the creators of false hope- the religions and losers. Love is defined by "how much do you earn per year and will you be able to finance my shopping addiction?" If you want a hot girl to settle down with and you've lost some or all of your hair, get money. That's that. If you don't, you have no chance of happiness with a woman. Sure, you can be happy on your own, but what fun is that in the long run?

Holy sh*t! this is soooo f*****g true man! This one is getting printed off and shown at work.

 

[mon]

You seem to have too much time on your hands. If you go observing how women behave all the time with this amount of scrutiny, one would suggest you have a perverted mind. Your behaivour is all too girlish for most. That is all.

 

[Thinning]

In my observations of the opposite sex at work, I have come to the conclusion that most girl's lives revolve around their own physicality and the physicality of those around them.

This is true of the most very attractive people in general, but yeah super hot girls are the absolute most superficial pieces of sh*t you will ever come across. Stay far far away.

Ive tried dating one and they will make your life hell. Somehow you will convince yourself you are in love with them despite them using you and treating you like sh*t. And when they dump you, you wont look at another girl for 6 months because you are hoping she will come back. Then right when you are done with her and ready to move on, they will call you up and pull you back in, just to use you again.

The good news is there are some great girls out there tha are not perfect looking but still really cute and fun and probably better in bed anyhow.

 

[srwpnh]

When you live in a male driven society that values women only based on thier looks, what right do you have to be upset when women judge you by yours?

Yes there are women out there just as you witnessed, but have you considered that men are what make them like that? Those women have been taught that being the "hottest" girl is the only way to have any real value as a woman. Wouldn't you act catty if society told you that in order to have success you had to look better than everyone else?

 

[Thinning]

Wouldn't you act catty if society told you that in order to have success you had to look better than everyone else?

No, and to give you an example - I participate in a local sport where everything is judged on speed, which is how success is measured. As it turns out, I happen to be very good at it and I get a lot of respect/cred for being at my skill level. Some people who arent half as fast as me act just like these catty b****s are described - anyone faster than them is crazy, anyone slower is to be ridiculed.

But many people dont - including me - its not important, my goals are for myself not for others, I encourage people because of their interest in the sport and I treat everybody with respect because thats the way I would want to be treated.

If these women were respectible people they would thank god for their beauty and treat people with respect - but they dont. So I want nothing to do with people like that.

 

[Cornholio]

IMHO the difference between men and women is narrowing in some respects... Younger women are not focused on marriage, as they (some anyway) are getting an education and building their own careers... They are of course free to choose what is most attractive to them (fun, good body, hairy, whatever) just as men are. This may have been different at one time, as even young women may have seen marriage as their goal and meal-ticket for the rest of their lives, and may have dated accordingly, based on social and financial potential. Despite this progressive trend, in reality women DO want to marry "up," and despite professional degrees many, if given the chance, will give weight to "wealth" and "success" over superficial appearance when settling down... This is especially true for women in their thirties. Men, on the other hand, often continue to persue looks over achievement in choosing a mate (as not many men have hopes of improving their financial situation by marrying and few hope for the freedom to stay at home for parts of their working years to raise children).

So, for casual dating appearance is very important. For long term relationships there is more hope regardless of appearance... I have mixed emotions about this, however. As a 37 year old professional I do not want to be anybody's retirement plan... It makes me suspicious of other's intentions (unless they have a degree of wealth/education/success on their own.

An interesting link... http://nomarriage.com/

 

[iamnaked]

Beautiful women are not all superficial and awful, its just the ones who are obsessed with their own beauty who are bad news. How important your physical image is to you says alot about how you treat other people based on their appearances. I always run a mile from the fit-but-don't-she-just-know-it types with makeup caked all over her face. Then again they aren't too hot on me either. So I guess we're both happy. Seriously though, I went out with one of these... It was a complete waste of time. She just refused to contemplate moving out of her comfort zone for anyone.

 

[Petchsky]

An interesting link... http://nomarriage.com/

Indeed an interesting link, and good post..

Just think, if humans were not scared of rejection and the pain that comes with it, finding a partner would be alot easier.

 

[Shinyscalp23]

i think thats a tainted observation im only 23 almost 24 and the chicks (and okay I admit, the guys) still think im hot and im a norwood 3.5 at the very least...girls who are with guys that treat them like sh*t are merely insecure with themselves...and some of us guys here value our hair too much and therefore our looks too much making us as bad as some of those blond bimbette chicks out there. Over the past year, i have finally realized that some people dont care as much about hair as i do...some chicks and gdudes are more interested in your face, your chest, your dick size, your *** and so on lol and could care less about the hair on your head...im only 23 and i have a shiny scalp but i dont have any trouble gettin putang or booty...amuch of your appearance is in your style and your attitude and self confidence..if you exhibit that, you will definitely get more of the opposite or same(whatever rocks your boat) sex attracted to you-unless youre really butt ugly, and even really butt ugly guys get laid---soime chicks are assholes...but you have to play the game and play it right...play hard to get yourself, dress nicely, put on a pair of sexy sunglasses and move on and some of the bimbettes will of all of sudden get turned on by you, simply because youre no longer the balding fat guy in the corner wearing dorky glasses, but a lean mean man machine lol

 

[dead]

An interesting link... http://nomarriage.com/

Indeed an interesting link, and good post..

Just think, if humans were not scared of rejection and the pain that comes with it, finding a partner would be alot easier.

Chamone mo' fo'

 

[Def]

Lads, lads, lads… this is all old news – a debate spanning mankind’s existence.

Best thing to do is have a laugh, crack a smile and read this link:

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

It’s largely true, and of course there’s exceptions – but it’s funny as f*ck.

Good luck to y’all.

Def.