Socializing Is Too Overrated And Being Alone Is Too Underrated.

[Stanx22]

I don't get why people are too obsessed with socializing. I was delusional when i thought that socializing would better my life. It made it 10x worse. When i used to be alone, i used to think better and mental health was better, everything was better, but i didn't see it because i was a drama queen, weak cuck who wanted to whine about anything and just wanted to be like everyone.

The advantages of socializing :

1-having a cheap laugh about usually unfunny things
2-eating good food
3-gaining life experience

..

The disadvantages of socializing :

1-Lame *** stories told for no reason
2-acting fake to not lose people
3-drama and whoring for attention
3-tons of unfunny things and jokes
4-boredom
5-no one gives 2 shits about anyone else
6-jealousy, competetions, rivalries.
7-normies
8-going to lame *** places
9-doing the same thing everytime
10-boredom again

.

I'm not saying that people are bad because they aren't, but i just can't fit in.

I don't know if i'm too introverted or whatever, but i wish if i could go back to being all alone again.

 

[Saulus]

Its the best if youre good looking and nt

However if you miss one of the mentioned traits dont put your expectations too high bc this could be your reality

 

[CopeForLife]

I don't get why people are too obsessed with socializing. I was delusional when i thought that socializing would better my life. It made it 10x worse. When i used to be alone, i used to think better and mental health was better, everything was better, but i didn't see it because i was a drama queen, weak cuck who wanted to whine about anything and just wanted to be like everyone.

The advantages of socializing :

1-having a cheap laugh about usually unfunny things
2-eating good food
3-gaining life experience

..

The disadvantages of socializing :

1-Lame *** stories told for no reason
2-acting fake to not lose people
3-drama and whoring for attention
3-tons of unfunny things and jokes
4-boredom
5-no one gives 2 shits about anyone else
6-jealousy, competetions, rivalries.
7-normies
8-going to lame *** places
9-doing the same thing everytime
10-boredom again

.

I'm not saying that people are bad because they aren't, but i just can't fit in.

I don't know if i'm too introverted or whatever, but i wish if i could go back to being all alone again.

What does take you away from a good food if you aren't socializing?

 

[Saulus]

This being said i think you should differentiate a little bit more..socialising is a big field..from being a sport club, go fishing with a friend to clubbing and parties

 

[Stanx22]

Its the best if youre good looking and nt

However if you miss one of the mentioned traits dont put your expectations too high bc this could be your reality

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If i were good looking i'd hang out with women who want to f*** me and they'd do everything for me to not leave them. I'd not need guys for anything.

 

[Stanx22]

What does take you away from a good food if you aren't socializing?

My mother's food isn't that good tbh.

 

[CopeForLife]

My mother's food isn't that good tbh.

I eat in a restaurant every day... No fucks given

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

I don't like loud places when I socialize, I'd rather do it in the comfort of my own home, or out fishing with some beers, lots of silence mixed in with deep meaningful conversations. If I do these activities no more than 3ish people involved is ideal. Being alone I can think much more clear, alone is where I find clarity in making the next move in my life.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

0 friends and miserable checking in

 

[Stanx22]

0 friends and miserable checking in

You'd not want to hang out with normies, believe me. But i know how you feel. In my experience the bothersome of socializing with normies outweighs the pain of loneliness. It differs from a person to another tho. What i want to do now is to learn and read. Tbh, i don't like how i think and the way i'm living and i always see myself as a silly kid who doesn't know what's right for him or what he is doing. I want to be wiser and mature and gain a good amount of knowledge. I can't do that when i have people around me who care for instagram likes and tons of other useless things. They would only hold me back and spoil my mind and thoughts.

 

[buckthorn]

I felt the same way for most of 2016 and 2017. I was alone every single day. Every one, except the events I was obligated to attend. I needed this in my life, maybe not that way, but I needed it. It makes you realize that there is nothing greater than Brotherhood. Immediate family and friends that would die for you. As much as we hate to admit it and expose these weaknesses to them, they are our only true allies. THEY are the ones that would never abandon you, even if you were horribly disfigured. That could never be overrated. Because of my shame and insecurity, I know I actually lost a couple of them. But I'd sooner put a bullet in my head before I lose the rest. THAT would be the one thing worst than disfiguring hair loss.

 

[buckthorn]

0 friends and miserable checking in

you have zero friends? I honestly find that hard to believe.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I don't get why people are too obsessed with socializing. I was delusional when i thought that socializing would better my life. It made it 10x worse. When i used to be alone, i used to think better and mental health was better, everything was better, but i didn't see it because i was a drama queen, weak cuck who wanted to whine about anything and just wanted to be like everyone.

The advantages of socializing :

1-having a cheap laugh about usually unfunny things
2-eating good food
3-gaining life experience

..

The disadvantages of socializing :

1-Lame *** stories told for no reason
2-acting fake to not lose people
3-drama and whoring for attention
3-tons of unfunny things and jokes
4-boredom
5-no one gives 2 shits about anyone else
6-jealousy, competetions, rivalries.
7-normies
8-going to lame *** places
9-doing the same thing everytime
10-boredom again

.

I'm not saying that people are bad because they aren't, but i just can't fit in.

I don't know if i'm too introverted or whatever, but i wish if i could go back to being all alone again.

You just need to meet people you really click with.

I've had 'friends' who I have seen on a regular basis that was always undermined by competiveness and ego.

But I've also had some of the best experiences of my life with friends: seeing new countries, seeing them marry, having confessional conversations and helping each other, getting drunk and having a wild time, learning from each other, helping each other in terms of work and money etc.

 

[blackg]

0 friends and miserable checking in

Why don't you make friends? A preference or more of a personality problem?

 

[blackg]

I've had 'friends' who I have seen on a regular basis that was always undermined by competiveness and ego.

It is a pity when one of your "friends" takes it apon himself to become your defacto rival.

 

[blackg]

Its the best if youre good looking and nt

However if you miss one of the mentioned traits dont put your expectations too high bc this could be your reality

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You know the old saying; expectation is the source of all heartbreak.

 

[DoctorHouse]

You'd not want to hang out with normies, believe me. But i know how you feel. In my experience the bothersome of socializing with normies outweighs the pain of loneliness. It differs from a person to another tho. What i want to do now is to learn and read. Tbh, i don't like how i think and the way i'm living and i always see myself as a silly kid who doesn't know what's right for him or what he is doing. I want to be wiser and mature and gain a good amount of knowledge. I can't do that when i have people around me who care for instagram likes and tons of other useless things. They would only hold me back and spoil my mind and thoughts.

You just need to meet people who "speak your language". People who share the same thoughts and wants as yourself. Once you get older, you will learn conflict will make you evolve stronger. I actually understand you. When you don't like yourself, loneliness seems like the only way to cope. Its a great bubble of protection but you can't grow inside your bubble. And another great coping mechanism is sleep. One of my favorites that I still use today.

 

[Exodus2011]

I felt the same way for most of 2016 and 2017. I was alone every single day. Every one, except the events I was obligated to attend. I needed this in my life, maybe not that way, but I needed it. It makes you realize that there is nothing greater than Brotherhood. Immediate family and friends that would die for you. As much as we hate to admit it and expose these weaknesses to them, they are our only true allies. THEY are the ones that would never abandon you, even if you were horribly disfigured. That could never be overrated. Because of my shame and insecurity, I know I actually lost a couple of them. But I'd sooner put a bullet in my head before I lose the rest. THAT would be the one thing worst than disfiguring hair loss.

tfw when family is absolute sh*t and best friend is leaving soon

 

[Exodus2011]

You just need to meet people who "speak your language". People who share the same thoughts and wants as yourself. Once you get older, you will learn conflict will make you evolve stronger. I actually understand you. When you don't like yourself, loneliness seems like the only way to cope. Its a great bubble of protection but you can't grow inside your bubble. And another great coping mechanism is sleep. One of my favorites that I still use today.

legit but a huge downside is when i meet someone i relate to its like "hey its me! . . . . except a superior version/non subhuman version"

idk i really want to make friends but the feeling of inferiority is overwhelming

and no i dont want to hear some bs about your BDD, it aint sh*t compared to a real problem like mine

 

[Exodus2011]

lol this thread is a perfect example of what im talking about

i can relate to people here but you all have way better hair lol. stan is practically a full head.

with captainforehead gone im totally alone now