Why would you make such a mean comment like this?
I hope he goes nw7 in year and the world shows him what hes worth without hair.
Nobody should be wishing balding on anyone. To me it seems one of the most disastrous things that could happen to your emotional health.
Before I started thinning... I never even thought about balding. it didnt even OCCUR to me how much of a toll it can take on someone's self confidence, feelings of self worth, and their relationships.
And think about Justin Bieber..... He has a long way to fall and a lot to lose if he loses that hair.
I wish hair loss on no one. Not even my worst enemies and I mean that.
I just don't understand why all the balding men of the world don't come together (amongst all of us there must be some pretty bright people) and try to come up with a cure. Imagine if we all donated 10% of our income to research for curing baldness and privately hired some of the best scientists and researchers to solve the problem. I'd imagine within 10 years we'd have made milestones.
Being bald is just unfair. Its a cruel joke of nature. Especially when your hair was your livelihood. I feel like Im dying slowly as each day passes and as each additional strand falls out. Ive learned to live (and come into adulthood) being an pretty decently attractive guy and I've gotten used to my looks. Never did I take advantage of it, never was i rude or condescending to others.....
And now by some cruel fate of nature I have to acclimatize to a future life of much less physical attractiveness. Which, in my opinion is the worst way to have it happen. Imagine you learn to live as an attractive person, you become acclimatized, you've never known any different..... You had that taste of becoming who you thought you were going to be and then its all ripped away.
Its like the allegory of the cave type thing.
Anyways, now I'm even worrying about how successful I'll be.... I always had dreams of owning my own business, being a charismatic leader... I even wanted to go into politics one day maybe... Now I can't think about anything other than my hair. It consumes me and all of my thoughts.
I feel bad for people who have to talk to me because half of my focus is on the worry of my hair and how I feel like im slowly losing my identity.
When someone compliments me now or says they think I'm attractive I almost wish they wouldn't.... because its a horrible reminder of what I'm going to lose in likely less than a year. For me it will happen fast. When I receive a compliment I often times feel worse after.
I feel like i just want to change my name, move away, shave my head and never talk to my old friends anymore.... Because they've come to know me as Branden with hair. And when I lose it and lose all my looks along with it i just wont "fit" anymore into a lot of my friend groups. Sure, its not like anyones going to kick me out, or even consciously exclude me because of something as simple as hair loss. But in time it will happen slowly, without my friends even realising what theyre doing. We'll just slowly drift apart and none of them will associate that with hairloss..... I just wont fit into that mold.... and believe it or not it makes a difference. Not completely but it does
Also, I have more of a baby face.... I have a pretty boy look (almost no facial hair or body hair, young looking) so as I lose my hair it will look extremely strange. People will see me and see two contradicting looks.
I just DONT understand how theres not a cure. I DONT understand how if its as simple as an Androgen DHT continuously binding to hair follices and eventually shrinking them WHY can we not just invent a pill, or a topical cream that BLOCKS that receptor from attaching to DHT molecules. Like it doesn't seem as though it should be this complicated
