I see a lot of people here write stuff like:
"But you're over 30, noone gives a sh*t about balding then"
"I'll quit the meds when I'm 30"
"Women aren't as picky then, only young girls obsess over looks"
"Half of all men experience balding, the older you get, the less you'll care"
etc.
I'm 31, and of all my friends and acquaintances around my age, I'd say that maybe 20% look like they're balding. The advanced Norwood guys have been balding since they were young, while the majority look like gradual cases.
BUT with that said, women are still picky. At this point in life, most are fully employed, on the career track. They own their own house / apartment, are done with the partying lifestyle. If anything, they're even more picky about their parters, as they have less time to settle. Simply put: They must take less chances, because if they pick a dud, then 5-10 years down the line maybe they will be too old to start a family. My experience is that at my age, things move quite fast...I've seen many friends go from casual dating, to being engaged, pregnant fiancé, house and mortgage, in just 6-12 months.
And believe me, the dating pool is ridiculously skewed at this stage of life. There are so many losers out there. Bald, fat, missing teeth, unemployed, living on welfare, etc. One unfortunate trait, like baldness, can easily make you look like one of them.
So while women do get more desperate to find a mate, they do not lower their standards much, if anything. They are certainly more picky on some things (income, house, job, personality match), and can pick and choose if they're somewhat successful themselves.
Being a very handsome man in your 30's is the absolute peak of manhood, as far as dating goes. You can easily f*** around +/- 10 years your own age, and women will throw themselves at you. When you're 20, you're too young for certain women...when you're 40, you're too old for certain women...30? Perfect. And with Tinder etc. you don't even need to go out of your house to find these.
But for the rest of us? Things only get more difficult. One bad trait can easily cluster you with the other losers. Keep maxing your self, and be the best man that you can be. If the only thing that keeps you back is your hair, get that sh*t fixed.
"But you're over 30, noone gives a sh*t about balding then"
"I'll quit the meds when I'm 30"
"Women aren't as picky then, only young girls obsess over looks"
"Half of all men experience balding, the older you get, the less you'll care"
etc.
I'm 31, and of all my friends and acquaintances around my age, I'd say that maybe 20% look like they're balding. The advanced Norwood guys have been balding since they were young, while the majority look like gradual cases.
BUT with that said, women are still picky. At this point in life, most are fully employed, on the career track. They own their own house / apartment, are done with the partying lifestyle. If anything, they're even more picky about their parters, as they have less time to settle. Simply put: They must take less chances, because if they pick a dud, then 5-10 years down the line maybe they will be too old to start a family. My experience is that at my age, things move quite fast...I've seen many friends go from casual dating, to being engaged, pregnant fiancé, house and mortgage, in just 6-12 months.
And believe me, the dating pool is ridiculously skewed at this stage of life. There are so many losers out there. Bald, fat, missing teeth, unemployed, living on welfare, etc. One unfortunate trait, like baldness, can easily make you look like one of them.
So while women do get more desperate to find a mate, they do not lower their standards much, if anything. They are certainly more picky on some things (income, house, job, personality match), and can pick and choose if they're somewhat successful themselves.
Being a very handsome man in your 30's is the absolute peak of manhood, as far as dating goes. You can easily f*** around +/- 10 years your own age, and women will throw themselves at you. When you're 20, you're too young for certain women...when you're 40, you're too old for certain women...30? Perfect. And with Tinder etc. you don't even need to go out of your house to find these.
But for the rest of us? Things only get more difficult. One bad trait can easily cluster you with the other losers. Keep maxing your self, and be the best man that you can be. If the only thing that keeps you back is your hair, get that sh*t fixed.