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Yeah, I can safely say I am.
Interestingly, I put my lack of success with women I desire much less down to my baldness than most here seem to, but rather my looks in general. Maybe I ought to join lookism...
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Interestingly, I put my lack of success with women I desire much less down to my baldness than most here seem to, but rather my looks in general. Maybe I ought to join lookism...
Personality counts for nothing in this vapid social media age, i want my god damn hair, all of it i say!
Im personally more interested in personality, i would take a decent looking girl with nice personality over a smoking hottie with none. Then again i would never attract a smoking hottie so my point is actually moot.
Im personally more interested in personality, i would take a decent looking girl with nice personality over a smoking hottie with none. Then again i would never attract a smoking hottie so my point is actually moot.
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It‘s a good start though. Most say they wouldn‘t want the handsome but idiotic guy. The classy ones won‘t even f*** him, but: not being idioti won‘t help either. Many just want it all and end up being on Tinder for years and years...I‘m no better, but „at least“ I acknowledge my problem: my standards in relation to my looks.
Im actually lying, i honestly find most woman attractive, there is the odd occasion i don't but all in all im not a fussy person at all. Bear in mind im 28 and still never had a girlfriend, that might have something to do with how im not picky in the slightest.
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same bro. im 5'6 and scrawny so i was already pretty incel but there was at least a small niche for me beforeYeah, I can safely say I am.
Interestingly, I put my lack of success with women I desire much less down to my baldness rather than my looks in general. Maybe I ought to join lookism...
now that im bald its over AF lol
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gonna turn 25 in a month or so and ive never had sex, had a gf or kissed a girl
had a few kisses, never went further than that, i feel ya bro. Im just hoping my perfect soulmate arrives soon, yes i believe in those! lol
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Over is almost always relative to your demands. It‘s sometimes hardest - and I’m speculating here, as I can only personally relate to this starting point - if you are average or a bit above: attractive enough to create fantasies, but not attractive enough to live them. Having said that...nah, it‘s just my mindset, enough average guys acknowledging 9s but perfectly ok with landing girls I deem in their league.
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why would you need to be attractive to create fantasies?
i think im past that point because i feel so low about myself i dont even have romantic fantasies anymore x.x. feels weird and wrong, the idea of someone like me with a girlfriend
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I see all sorts of people with partners. From friends - average in terms of looks - I know they are happy, wouldn‘t ask for more, although they do recognize stand-out-beauty. Don‘t see why nobody would consider being your partner per se.
A lot of the guys here that claim to not get girls because of their balding simply do not want to live up to their own shortcomings that go beyond losing hair. Weak people (no offense) always hava a tendency to be the victim of their circumstances because it give them an excuse not to take proper action to get what they want. Self-pity, victim mentality, and self-disqualification is costing you more pussy than your hair loss will ever do.
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ugly bald guys can try to act as "confident" and "alpha male" as they want, they will just get laughed at. i have seen it for myself.
a 5'5" bald guy who first off, decided to "man up" and "hit the gym". well he got buff, but it just made him look even squatter and girls just laughed harder at him. So he then thought "game" is what he needed, so he acted all jokey, alpha etc. made a lot of friends but no girl wanted to f*** him.
same thing with a 5'6", bald but heavily overweight guy i knew. he was the jolly fat man everybody liked but nobody wanted to f***. ended up with landwhales.
when i had hair i had a look that some girls liked; now without it it is close to 0. same personality i had as before...
a 5'5" bald guy who first off, decided to "man up" and "hit the gym". well he got buff, but it just made him look even squatter and girls just laughed harder at him. So he then thought "game" is what he needed, so he acted all jokey, alpha etc. made a lot of friends but no girl wanted to f*** him.
same thing with a 5'6", bald but heavily overweight guy i knew. he was the jolly fat man everybody liked but nobody wanted to f***. ended up with landwhales.
when i had hair i had a look that some girls liked; now without it it is close to 0. same personality i had as before...
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yeah sadly whenever i fap now, i don't picture myself in it; i picture girls doing my handsome friend (no homo)
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Xherdan Shaqiri in a few years...
doubleindemnity
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Not true at all. Read this board closely before posting this stuff on here. The people on here are intelligent, socially conscientious, have varying interests, are in great shape and are not at all afraid to go on dates or talk to women. They dress well and know how to have fun. The reason that they don't have romantic success is singularly down to their hair loss. The argument that you're posting comes from NW1, NW2 or NW3 men who don't want to acknowledge how easy they have it.
LastSamurai
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His hair style and recession is similar to mine, although I'd say his 6 months to a year more advanced. He's only 26 as well, he'll definitely be bald by 30.
I can see him going for an hair transplant though. Either way, he is a premier league football star, he just needs to secure his wealth whilst he plays and his life is set up.