bandm said:
I am scared of propecia side effects and massive sheds as well
So you had thinning in the crown area, just like me, at the age of 19? And now you are 23 and it never got worse ?
I don't blame you for worrying about Propecia. When I was desperate - thinking that my hair loss was going to be really bad - I actually went so far as to order the pills, but I could never bring myself to take them.
Like I said I started noticing huge shedding right before my 19th birthday. For some reason I was always focused on my crown and never really gave a second thought to my temples, so maybe that's why I thought my crown was getting so bad. Like yourself, I haven't really developed a real bald spot on top, but my hair is a little thinner up there. Noticeable to me, but it doesn't seem to be that noticeable to others. Anyway my thinning at the crown seemed to hit its peak my second year of college, when I was 20, and hasn't really progressed noticeably since then.
I hate to give advice on hair loss forums simply because everyone's hair loss takes such different forms. When I entered college, I thought everyone would notice that I was thinning, but in four years I never got one comment about it. On the other hand, certain guys I knew from freshman year who had great heads of hair now have noticeable thinning, so there's really no way of knowing what yours is going to do. I would talk to balding guys in your family and ask how their's progressed.
If I had to give you advice, I would say take excellent care of your scalp (maybe start shampooing with Nizoral every few days) and keep it from becoming inflamed. I think scalp inflammation is pretty much the worst thing that can happen to hair loss sufferers. My worst phases of hair loss were my freshman year in college when I went through a big time bout of Seborrheic Dermatitis. I would hold off on the Propecia if I were you, and here's why: for starters, your main area of thinning is at the crown obviously, which is where Propecia works best. So if you continue to thin, you could always start using Propecia down the road and probably be successful. The other reason is that you have such a nice head of hair right now that I would not want to risk having big time sheds if you started taking it. I think it would probably be better for you down the road if it really becomes clear that you are losing your hair (aggressively). Obviously this advice is influenced through my own personal experience, so I recommend that you a. look into your family's history of hairloss, and b. do as much research as possible before you decide what you want to do.