Online dating as a bald man. Tips? Tinder tips?

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I 99% only get cute and very young boys and attractive men liking me on tinder. I look pretty gay with my hair and I got a baby face and im poor. Women only like a man with a Good job and macho looking preferably with facial hair. But I prefer men these days anyway so im happy
 

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Why are you guys still even using Tinder? Give up. GIVE UP. There's a whole world out there of movies, video games, books, art and other hobbies. Life has many games and instead of playing this game to lose, find another game to play and win. A few weeks ago I think that I couldn't even get a response from an escort. Now I know to heed my own advice.
 

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Why are you guys still even using Tinder? Give up. GIVE UP. There's a whole world out there of movies, video games, books, art and other hobbies. Life has many games and instead of playing this game to lose, find another game to play and win. A few weeks ago I think that I couldn't even get a response from an escort. Now I know to heed my own advice.
You went and saw an escort?
 

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I have not started online dating yet but I am worried about the results. I shave my head.

1. To wear hat or not?
2. What kind of pictures are most effective?
3. Beardify or not?


Any other tips?


just watched the video , bald guy got some matches
 

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Why are you guys still even using Tinder? Give up. GIVE UP. There's a whole world out there of movies, video games, books, art and other hobbies. Life has many games and instead of playing this game to lose, find another game to play and win. A few weeks ago I think that I couldn't even get a response from an escort. Now I know to heed my own advice.
I have banged a few women and kissed over a dozen , online dating works, you need to be persistent and patient
 

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You went and saw an escort?
No. I didn't get a response and that's when I decided to forget it all. It's my lowest point since the time I was offering money to go on dates and still couldn't a date (sugar dating). Forget it now. I've got a long list of video games to play. I see couples out and about all the time and no longer feel resentful. Partly I would still like to have a family but soon I will be able to let go of that too and live the way that I was meant to.

I have banged a few women and kissed over a dozen , online dating works, you need to be persistent and patient
You are special. We don't know why, and you probably do not know either but you are. I am on numerous websites where airline pilots, doctors in great shape with well produced photographs get no results. You are getting results with self taken photos. So I conclude that you have something special about you. So if you are special, then your experiences are not good examples for us. Persistence and patience will lead to you running out of people in your city to swipe on.
 

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No. I didn't get a response and that's when I decided to forget it all. It's my lowest point since the time I was offering money to go on dates and still couldn't a date (sugar dating). Forget it now. I've got a long list of video games to play. I see couples out and about all the time and no longer feel resentful. Partly I would still like to have a family but soon I will be able to let go of that too and live the way that I was meant to.


You are special. We don't know why, and you probably do not know either but you are. I am on numerous websites where airline pilots, doctors in great shape with well produced photographs get no results. You are getting results with self taken photos. So I conclude that you have something special about you. So if you are special, then your experiences are not good examples for us. Persistence and patience will lead to you running out of people in your city to swipe on.

maybe because I’m cool and not trying too hard, hence the selfies - ever thought about that?
 

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No. I didn't get a response and that's when I decided to forget it all. It's my lowest point since the time I was offering money to go on dates and still couldn't a date (sugar dating). Forget it now. I've got a long list of video games to play. I see couples out and about all the time and no longer feel resentful. Partly I would still like to have a family but soon I will be able to let go of that too and live the way that I was meant to.


You are special. We don't know why, and you probably do not know either but you are. I am on numerous websites where airline pilots, doctors in great shape with well produced photographs get no results. You are getting results with self taken photos. So I conclude that you have something special about you. So if you are special, then your experiences are not good examples for us. Persistence and patience will lead to you running out of people in your city to swipe on.

With such a defeatist attitude, it’s no surprise you aren’t successful with women. They have like a sixth sense for noticing loser attitude or if you’re not happy

The key to women is good vibes, that’s pretty much it. Make her feel good about being around you

I know it sucks when most women are just so boring as people with bland personalities especially the hot ones but that’s the thing especially in earlier part of dating. Appear a happy positive full of energy person

Why are you so down about it though, I enjoy the chase even if I don’t get the desired outcome, there is something about feminine energy that’s fun to be around. If you’re only thinking about the outcome and find no fun in the journey then I can understand why you have just given up completely.
 

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With such a defeatist attitude, it’s no surprise you aren’t successful with women. They have like a sixth sense for noticing loser attitude or if you’re not happy

The key to women is good vibes, that’s pretty much it. Make her feel good about being around you

I know it sucks when most women are just so boring as people with bland personalities especially the hot ones but that’s the thing especially in earlier part of dating. Appear a happy positive full of energy person

Why are you so down about it though, I enjoy the chase even if I don’t get the desired outcome, there is something about feminine energy that’s fun to be around. If you’re only thinking about the outcome and find no fun in the journey then I can understand why you have just given up completely.

yeah I agree , 100% with this , definitely seem to have so much more success when I’m in a good place mentally

You can’t even fake it either, they seem to have a 6th sense
 

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With such a defeatist attitude, it’s no surprise you aren’t successful with women. They have like a sixth sense for noticing loser attitude or if you’re not happy

The key to women is good vibes, that’s pretty much it. Make her feel good about being around you

I know it sucks when most women are just so boring as people with bland personalities especially the hot ones but that’s the thing especially in earlier part of dating. Appear a happy positive full of energy person

Why are you so down about it though, I enjoy the chase even if I don’t get the desired outcome, there is something about feminine energy that’s fun to be around. If you’re only thinking about the outcome and find no fun in the journey then I can understand why you have just given up completely.

by the way he’s had opportunities, he kissed a girl recently from a dating app , he over dramatises
 

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by the way he’s had opportunities, he kissed a girl recently from a dating app , he over dramatises

bruhhh, the way he posts I thought he was completely hopeless can’t even talk to a girl for a minute become a hermit play games all day type
 

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bruhhh, the way he posts I thought he was completely hopeless can’t even talk to a girl for a minute become a hermit play games all day type

he has it tough no doubt , I think that what he doesn’t realise is that his dating experience is normal for most people

most people will get rejected but also have successes along the way
 

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maybe because I’m cool and not trying too hard, hence the selfies - ever thought about that?
These pilot guys on the dating discussion websites already tried that stuff. They go to the polished photos after that fails. I think that you are special.

With such a defeatist attitude, it’s no surprise you aren’t successful with women. They have like a sixth sense for noticing loser attitude or if you’re not happy

The key to women is good vibes, that’s pretty much it. Make her feel good about being around you

I know it sucks when most women are just so boring as people with bland personalities especially the hot ones but that’s the thing especially in earlier part of dating. Appear a happy positive full of energy person

Why are you so down about it though, I enjoy the chase even if I don’t get the desired outcome, there is something about feminine energy that’s fun to be around. If you’re only thinking about the outcome and find no fun in the journey then I can understand why you have just given up completely.
I'm done being positive and pretending that things are good. What I've learned is that no matter how bad things are, one year later they can be worse. This sixth sense stuff is an occult, twilight zone argument. Many depressed guys get dates. The chase and feminine energy and all that are all fine. But most guys here don't have a chance to experience that. They don't get dates through dating systems and if they go out to do their approaches, it is over within 30-60 seconds. Trying and failing is OK but like this it's like you never got to even run the race. That's why I advocate giving up and spending time alone.
 

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For a start you need to be on multiple apps. I mainly use badoo, I've hooked up with a few girls on there 5-7s. Tinder is crap. Bumble pretty average, hinge & hilly also average. But I've still hooked up with girls on each app

I'd recommend a hair system if you're slick bald though unless you're a rare Jason Statham / The Rock specimen
 
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