my mom said that i'm too young to have sex!

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well would you care to explain your side or point then? because you are pretty vague on everything it seems, when people try to help you out, they get nothing substantial back
 

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bubka said:
well would you care to explain your side or point then? because you are pretty vague on everything it seems, when people try to help you out, they get nothing substantial back

well what do you want to know in concrete? Ask and i'll answer.
 

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how is a women supposed to, "love you for who you are" if she never meets you because you never put forth any effort into dating?
 

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bubka said:
how is a women supposed to, "love you for who you are" if she never meets you because you never put forth any effort into dating?

Well many women know me. From my job, community, etc... Well i'm not interested in chasing girls that i dont like and they dont like me.
 

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IBM said:
bubka said:
how is a women supposed to, "love you for who you are" if she never meets you because you never put forth any effort into dating?

Well many women know me. From my job, community, etc... Well i'm not interested in chasing girls that i dont like and they dont like me.
see, right there, you are being a big pain is the arsh about it, i don't know if you know this, but women do like being chases a bit, the whole courtship calling thing, it really is true... but heh, just feel free to sit around feeling sorry for yourself that the "true love" has not magically manifested itself
 

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IBM said:
Well many women know me. From my job, community, etc... Well i'm not interested in chasing girls that i dont like and they dont like me.
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Yea dude, this is the problem. How is the women suppose to love you unconditionallly and like you if you don't even get to know them. And of course you don't like thenm because you don't know them very well. Maybe you will like some of them when you get to know them better.

HTGT, I believe IBM's native language is portugese. Correct me if I'm wrong IBM.
 

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badasshairday III said:
IBM said:
Well many women know me. From my job, community, etc... Well i'm not interested in chasing girls that i dont like and they dont like me.

Yea dude, this is the problem. How is the women suppose to love you unconditionallly and like you if you don't even get to know them. And of course you don't like thenm because you don't know them very well. Maybe you will like some of them when you get to know them better.

HTGT, I believe IBM's native language is portugese. Correct me if I'm wrong IBM.[/quote]

Is it Portuguese IBM?
 

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hair today gone tomorrow said:
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[quote="hair today gone tomorrow":07e99]IBM what is ur native language?

why you ask?

i ask out of curiosity...did i offend you with my question?
I would like to know....is it English or not?[/quote:07e99]

No. I'm portuguese. I'm just wondering if i write english bad.
 

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What is to know about them? I think it is obvious if a girl like you or not.
 

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Wether they like you or not you still have to take a few chances and make the effort. Also this 'magical' love of your life does'nt exist except in girls romance books.
 

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IBM said:
What is to know about them? I think it is obvious if a girl like you or not.
WOMEN WANT YOU TO GO AFTER THEM FIRST, its partially a big game, thats life, thats how dating works, you don't always know at first... freakin A
 

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who's freaking out is me. I'm with fear that i might see her again so i'm with lots of paranoia. I really love her :( .

Today i couldnt be at the mall to make some shoppings.
 

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IBM said:
who's freaking out is me. I'm with fear that i might see her again so i'm with lots of paranoia. I really love her :( .

Today i couldnt be at the mall to make some shoppings.
you DO NOT "love" her, you can't love somebody who you honestly do not evem interpersonally know, you are OBSESSED with her, you have the two things confused

sure after being obsessed with her you could love her, that is if you really know her for who she really is, not what she looks like, and what you think she is inside
 

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Wether they like you or not you still have to take a few chances and make the effort. Also this 'magical' love of your life does'nt exist except in girls romance books.

uh, there are many millions of people who would disagree with you on this based on experience. This attitude seems to be more and more prevalent, esp in the U.S. where divorce rates are 50%+, but given the truly enormous variations of people and relationships, your statement seems to generalize a bit. There's nothing wrong with being a romantic, right?
 

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bubka said:
IBM said:
who's freaking out is me. I'm with fear that i might see her again so i'm with lots of paranoia. I really love her :( .

Today i couldnt be at the mall to make some shoppings.
you DO NOT "love" her, you can't love somebody who you honestly do not evem interpersonally know, you are OBSESSED with her, you have the two things confused

sure after being obsessed with her you could love her, that is if you really know her for who she really is, not what she looks like, and what you think she is inside

I agree with bubka here.....for once.
 

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astral week said:
[quote="s.a.f":8cbd5]Wether they like you or not you still have to take a few chances and make the effort. Also this 'magical' love of your life does'nt exist except in girls romance books.

uh, there are many millions of people who would disagree with you on this based on experience. This attitude seems to be more and more prevalent, esp in the U.S. where divorce rates are 50%+, but given the truly enormous variations of people and relationships, your statement seems to generalize a bit. There's nothing wrong with being a romantic, right?[/quote:8cbd5]

Do you understand what IBM is thinking of? He's imagining finding a beautiful girl who is sweet and innocent and she will fall in love with him at first sight and they will live happily ever after. Yes some guys are lucky enough to marry their childhood sweetheart but in the world today these situations are very unlikely.
 

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today i went to the beach and i was with paranoia of seeing her. She's consuming my head. A lot more than my hairloss. I'm becoming mad!
 
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