I saw so many significantly balding men with attractive partners today

[DyingOfTheLight]

but you are not one, so need to work harder

I can understand where he's coming from, as beauty is obviously the greatest privilege when it comes to maximizing your romantic/sexual options. but it's a fundamental unfairness you have to accept as soon as possible, and if you can't, you need to bow out and banish those desires from your mind. but since that's evidently impossible living in a society of constant temptation, you have to keep struggling and improving yourself, even if it makes you unhappy, since the opposite, being stuck in a limbo of despair, is even worse. you really have no other option unless you completely exclude yourself from society

 

[Oknow]

I can understand where he's coming from, as beauty is obviously the greatest privilege when it comes to maximizing your romantic/sexual options. but it's a fundamental unfairness you have to accept as soon as possible, and if you can't, you need to bow out and banish those desires from your mind. but since that's evidently impossible living in a society of constant temptation, you have to keep struggling and improving yourself, even if it makes you unhappy, since the opposite, being stuck in a limbo of despair, is even worse. you really have no other option unless you completely exclude yourself from society

He's not wrong, but what he doesn't get, the world is not fair.
What next, he is going to complain that people are richer than him or more successful than him. Him and @doubleindemnity love focusing on what they don't have.

The point is you have to do the best with what you have got, and try to shift the odds in your favour through any means possible.
There will always be people better than you.

If I thought like this guy, I wouldn't even try.

I would think to myself, 'I am Indian, there is no hope for me'

Today, I was chatting to a white girl, asked for her number, she didn't want to give it out, then went 'no worries, I get why you, like lots of women, wouldn't want to give it out, but I have better things to do than pester you on Whatsapp - I am busy at the gym working out right now. Have a great weekend'

I was prepared to walk away.
Next message, she gives it out, then asks if I want to meet up.

 

[Feelsbadman]

He's not wrong, but what he doesn't get, the world is not fair.
What next, he is going to complain that people are richer than him or more successful than him. Him and @doubleindemnity love focusing on what they don't have.

The point is you have to do the best with what you have got, and try to shift the odds in your favour through any means possible.
There will always be people better than you.

If I thought like this guy, I wouldn't even try.

I would think to myself, 'I am Indian, there is no hope for me'

Today, I was chatting to a white girl, asked for her number, she didn't want to give it out, then went 'no worries, I get why you, like lots of women, wouldn't want to give it out, but I have better things to do than pester you on Whatsapp - I am busy at the gym working out right now. Have a great weekend'

I was prepared to walk away.
Next message, she gives it out, then asks if I want to meet up.

wow incredible bro

 

[doubleindemnity]

He's not wrong, but what he doesn't get, the world is not fair.
What next, he is going to complain that people are richer than him or more successful than him. Him and @doubleindemnity love focusing on what they don't have.

The point is you have to do the best with what you have got, and try to shift the odds in your favour through any means possible.
There will always be people better than you.

If I thought like this guy, I wouldn't even try.

I would think to myself, 'I am Indian, there is no hope for me'

Today, I was chatting to a white girl, asked for her number, she didn't want to give it out, then went 'no worries, I get why you, like lots of women, wouldn't want to give it out, but I have better things to do than pester you on Whatsapp - I am busy at the gym working out right now. Have a great weekend'

I was prepared to walk away.
Next message, she gives it out, then asks if I want to meet up.

The reason why you think that way is because you have lots of matches and opportunities and really could gladly walk away. It's not because of some magical positive mindset.

Guys like myself and @Feelsbadman are very very lucky to even get one solid phone number out of 6 months so we are definitely not going to have the same behaviours as you. A guy who has been on a diet is less willing to walk away from a buffet than me, who is on an unrestricted eating plan. Even though the guy on the diet has the consistent mindset of being on a diet, I'm at a natural advantage because the buffet just isn't a big deal to me. If game is a set of skills and behaviours used by men to demonstrate that they attractive to multiple romantic prospects, then the guy who is actually attractive to multiple romantic prospects (this is primarily down to hair remember), will always be better at the behaviours than the guy who is not but is trained himself in those behaviours. My explanation is maybe a bit convoluted and messy but it comes down to "your hair is what gave you your winner mindset and the baldness of guys on here is what gave them the loser mindset."

 

[vondoom]

he’s got the money to get a hair system, yet rather spend his money and be someone’s sugar daddy instead

Incredible

well that is his choice... not really understandable, especially since everybody knows how sugar babes view the people who pay...
well, or as everybody else views people who pay...
got an escort friend and you dont want to hear her opinion on that matter (or men in general)...

 

[vondoom]

i wonder why even prostitutes want to meet up with those dudes...

and btw, was friday yesterday, have you been to the darkroom? or was that empty words as usual?^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

Guys i feel happy just accepteed my life dont care about my ex or women just got to be happy and without sex/relationships thats life.
im free

 

[Oknow]

The reason why you think that way is because you have lots of matches and opportunities and really could gladly walk away. It's not because of some magical positive mindset.

Guys like myself and @Feelsbadman are very very lucky to even get one solid phone number out of 6 months so we are definitely not going to have the same behaviours as you. A guy who has been on a diet is less willing to walk away from a buffet than me, who is on an unrestricted eating plan. Even though the guy on the diet has the consistent mindset of being on a diet, I'm at a natural advantage because the buffet just isn't a big deal to me. If game is a set of skills and behaviours used by men to demonstrate that they attractive to multiple romantic prospects, then the guy who is actually attractive to multiple romantic prospects (this is primarily down to hair remember), will always be better at the behaviours than the guy who is not but is trained himself in those behaviours. My explanation is maybe a bit convoluted and messy but it comes down to "your hair is what gave you your winner mindset and the baldness of guys on here is what gave them the loser mindset."

get a hairsystem

 

[doubleindemnity]

well that is his choice... not really understandable, especially since everybody knows how sugar babes view the people who pay...
well, or as everybody else views people who pay...
got an escort friend and you dont want to hear her opinion on that matter (or men in general)...

Alpha male /@Oknow mentality. Don't care what others think. Anyway it was just a trial. It didn't work out for me so I won't continue to try it.

Guys i feel happy just accepteed my life dont care about my ex or women just got to be happy and without sex/relationships thats life.
im free

Awesome. I hope that this feeling lasts.

 

[vondoom]

Alpha male /@Oknow mentality. Don't care what others think. Anyway it was just a trial. It didn't work out for me so I won't continue to try it.


Awesome. I hope that this feeling lasts.

you absolutely do care what people think lol...
otherwise you would have that system on your head and live your life like you should...

 

[Derelict]

Even if i wasn't balding i wouldn't be in a relationship, much less with someone who is attractive. I have never been on a date, still a virgin etc etc I have pretty much come to terms with the fact i will always be a virgin and never be in a relationship, it really doesn't bother me that much tbh. A good thing about it is i don't have to waste my time on all this crap just to attract women, i can do things i enjoy instead.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Even if i wasn't balding i wouldn't be in a relationship, much less with someone who is attractive. I have never been on a date, still a virgin etc etc I have pretty much come to terms with the fact i will always be a virgin and never be in a relationship, it really doesn't bother me that much tbh. A good thing about it is i don't have to waste my time on all this crap just to attract women, i can do things i enjoy instead.

good mind set

 

[Oknow]

Even if i wasn't balding i wouldn't be in a relationship, much less with someone who is attractive. I have never been on a date, still a virgin etc etc I have pretty much come to terms with the fact i will always be a virgin and never be in a relationship, it really doesn't bother me that much tbh. A good thing about it is i don't have to waste my time on all this crap just to attract women, i can do things i enjoy instead.

this is why you are a virgin

you have to make an effort to get pussy, won’t come at your doorstep

 

[Derelict]

this is why you are a virgin

you have to make an effort to get pussy, won’t come at your doorstep

I think i'd rather prefer being a virgin for the rest of my life than having to chase women all the time, as i said i'd rather do something i enjoy instead.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I think i'd rather prefer being a virgin for the rest of my life than having to chase women all the time, as i said i'd rather do something i enjoy instead.

this is what oknow cant seem to undertsand for some of us chasing pussy takes so much effort its simply not worth it..

 

[Derelict]

this is what oknow cant seem to undertsand for some of us chasing pussy takes so much effort its simply not worth it..

I honestly just can't be bothered with them lol. Id rather sit and play a video game or something, plus the depths some men stoop to just because of what a woman has under her skirt is pretty shocking, i would rather keep my dignity.

 

[Oknow]

I honestly just can't be bothered with them lol. Id rather sit and play a video game or something, plus the depths some men stoop to just because of what a woman has under her skirt is pretty shocking, i would rather keep my dignity.

you’ve clearly never tried pussy!

 

[Derelict]

you’ve clearly never tried pussy!

I already said im a virgin, and i see it as interesting and insightful to look from the outside in and see how desperate and crazy men can act all because of a vagina. Bit weird.

 

[Oknow]

I already said im a virgin, and i see it as interesting and insightful to look from the outside in and see how desperate and crazy men can act all because of a vagina. Bit weird.

because it’s amazing

 

[Feelsbadman]

because it’s amazing

its not that good