I'm positive but not deluded, I have also been overlooked by girls a few times in the past, for friends who have perfect looking hair etc, there's absolutely no point dwelling on it and getting bitter though... I just think honestly and critically of myself, what did
I do wrong and what could
I have done better? Then strive to improve my game for the next one and on and on. Everything else is completely out of my control and I'm not going to worry about it.
It's a journey and the whole point of game is being able to use attributes
other than your physical appearance to attract women, so a smash n' grab on the dancefloor is definitely not where it's at!