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How Can You Be Confident As A Young, Balding, Short Guy?

Discussion in 'The Impact of Hair Loss' started by recedingornot87, Mar 3, 2018.

  1. recedingornot87

    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    gasdga
     
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    CopeForLife Senior Member My Regimen

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    doubleindemnity Established Member

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    A better question is this. Why do you want to be confident? It doesn't make a difference. Just go through your life being diffident and don't feel bad about it. There's nothing wrong with you if you're not confident and you're not losing out on anything through your lack of confidence. Trust me because I've been on both sides.
     
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    shookwun Senior Member

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    you dont.

    or as the chicks I was with yesterday would say when creepy dudes approach them

    'where do these guys get this confidence from' :D
     
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    CopeForLife Senior Member My Regimen

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    LOL

    btfoed
     
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    shookwun Senior Member

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    lol i thought of this forum yesterday when these chicks mentioned this., They all agreed, and looked at each other and said 'right'

    lol after a few cups of wine of course they poured the truth out how they hate it when ugly guys approach them.


    Oh and heres the bomb

    'Do they seriously think we are on the same level' one of them replied.


    100% women hate it when ugly guys approach them.
     
  7. recedingornot87

    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    lol trust me I do, at the time I posted that picture I was just starting to notice changes. Its much worse now and Im diffuse thinning on top and hairline is thinning out fast too but im more worried about the diffuse thinning ontop. It is now at the point that someone actually asked me if I was thinning. And I have a dad who is NW7 at age 21-22 so I knew this was in the cards. Trust me, its not BDD I was hoping it was but even my derm told me I was in the early stages and she can see thinning. Nobody loses a bunch of density over night it happens over a period of time and for me the process of hairloss started.
     
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    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    bruh i might as well go for guys at this point lmao
     
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    doubleindemnity Established Member

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    You're joking there but you're actually correct. If you're a short NW6 or beyond then you have no chance. No chance at all. Get in shape, have great skin care, dress well, improve your teeth etc. and then...you'll still have no chance. Also, confidence won't make a difference either. I recommend that you enjoy the new-found liberation of not ever having to get married, have children etc.
     
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    You gain confidence by validation aka getting laid

    Go out and get laid and then the confidence will come .

    Source : a 5”6 balding man
     
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    Calchas Experienced Member My Regimen

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    You either hang out with superficial and bratty chicks or you have zero feedback from reality and your ''stories'' are completely made up.
    Many unattractive girls have approached in my life,especially in every school i went, half of the girls were asking me for a relationship,but i never mocked anyone because they weren't in my level...In contrary,i was always flattered by every single one of them and i was finding it extremely heartaching to reject them.
     
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    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    holy shit at all that above ^^^^^

    I might as well ldar. No chance. No game. No confidence.
     
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    you don't have visible balding
     
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    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    ur 19 right? Did you get any sexual sides from finasteride?
     
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    nice cope.

    I suppose alcohol and women in clubs are a also lie to eh!

    It was a subtle discussion about the gym and guys approaching. Then suddenly one of them went on about 'where does these guys get this confidence from'

    the other then went ahead and talked about how she hates it when ugly guys try to pick her up. 'do they seriously think we are on the same level'

    A women wont tell you this because she rather keep it internal. However, it was a random discussion and there was no pressure between the parties I was with. they were being honest, and there was nothing bratty about it.

    I lold
     
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    Nope none. The first 3 days I had placebo sides but other than that I feel like I get horny all the time and I’ve been on it for over a year .
     
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    recedingornot87 Experienced Member My Regimen

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    Thats good to hear I hope im the same. Getting on finasteride next month.
     
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    just lol at chicks that say, "yeah, like right?" or just "Right?" as a confirmation to something someone has already said. For example - question: "Like, why is Shookwum hanging out with complete dumb ass sloots?"... response: "like, right?".
     

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