Well, my opinion is this:
Physical attraction is key if you want a hot and steamy relationship. A lot of guys will stress get in good shape, make money, so on and so forth... Well, that is all fine and good if you want a gold digger who going to start f*cking the pool boy after a few months or a year or two.
So what does one do if they are average in height with hairloss? Well, besides taking care of your body (which is obvious) you got to also figure out how to make yourself more desirable in other areas. The most notable area is the FACE.
1. Good skin. No substitute! Hair or no hair if you have bad skin you're going to fight an uphill battle. Keep your face washed and cleaned, maintain good skin tone, and take measures to prevent any type of blemishes like acne, moles, or veins.
2. Good teeth. No substitute! Hair or no hair if you have nasty yellow teeth or missing teeth you need to get it fixed! Go to the dentist, get your cavities filled with non-metallic filling and white porcelain caps and invest in having your teeth whitened!
3. Maintain good facial grooming habits. Dont sport a uni-brow, nor unsightly thick eyebrows. wax em, pluck em, do whatever you need to do, just whatever you do dont go overboard! Looking like teen-wolf is just as bad as looking like you just penciled in your eyebrows! Also, if you grow facial hair make sure you have a trimmer and trim daily! Dont let facial hair get unruly!
4. If you wear glasses consider contacts. Some guys pull of the look with glasses some guy dont.
5. If you still have some hair left, (IE NW1 - NW4) get on treatments and consider using Toppik.
Finally, when it comes to your body:
1. Take a shower every goddamn day and make sure you wash EVERYWHERE! This includes both private areas.
2. Use good cologne. Old spice (or anything else that can be bought for $3 a gallon) is not good cologne. Smelling good has got me laid way more then ANY single other thing.
3. Take care of your finger nails, toe nails, and feet. Nails should be trimmed, neat, and filed.
4. Like your eyebrows, teen-wolf isnt in style anymore. If you're a hairy dude takes proper steps to make yourself look like a civilized member of society and not a walking semi-errect caveman.
Lastly, and perhaps controversially, if you have any glaring defects (especially in the face) get them fixed by a plastic surgeon. A huge nose or a big bump on your nose aint pretty on most guys. Ears that stick out and look like Dumbo aint good either. If you got a 6th finger or toe TAKE CARE OF IT.
Bottom line is you got to get a woman's juices flowing if you want to get from her what it is you're really looking for: Good sex!
Money, power, and "personality" only go so far and can attract the wrong kind of women (IE gold diggers and goodie goodie no sex till we are married gals). I'm not saying dont make good money and elevate yourself about working at a local fast food chain... I'm just saying there aint no real substitute for ATTRACTION then PHYSICALLY looking good. Physical attraction can be accomplished even without the best of hair or greatest of height if you are willing to invest the time, energy, and money in accommodating the rest of your body!