Feeling Down about Hairloss

[shookwun]

The only problem is often getting to that stage. A lot of the time most women wont give you that time of day, to the point where you actualy meet. Your physical attraction will determine how receptive towards how quick she is to dismiss you. Social media and dating is like high speed p**rn for women. They quickly click, match, text and talk to many men daily. Only the most physically dominant man will get her attention to the point where they meet. Even then variables exist, and you might just of gotten Lucy that day. Dating applications for women is the modern day equivellant of pornography for men. Novelty dies out quick, and you need to stand out or she will forget about your message, as it goes down below the others on her feed


Saturday when I met up with that chick I discussed earlier. I simply messaged 'hey let's h g out' she was quick to.reply 'when and where'. It was that easy! Granted most women will not go to your house/hotel as a first date. However this happened, we met outside and then had drinks at my hotel. She actualy told me I was to slow to mame a move. I told her I wanted to establish some connection. She responded by telling me that we have talked enough. In my mind I didn't feel insulted but couldn't help but think that or genetics are the blue prints that form are fate from the day we are born
She disn't care what I had to say, it was 100% physical between us, all though we did have great conversation.

I have always been well spoken, and contrivuted this to my success but came to realize on these days off it didn't mean anything when I comparr my previous encounters. If anything it can deter her attention else where. A volunteer women that I talked with my entire stay confirmed this. We had great chemistry, spoke everyday, but her actions on us fornicating said other wise. It never happened all though she had me coined that we would. The attraction was lost. The more yu talk, the less like yu will get laid. Make t happen quick the worry about creating chemistry.





I have to much to type, and this phon texting is to much. I will post my field report & theories she I get ahold of a computer.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Dating applications for women is the modern day equivellant of pornography for men. Novelty dies out quick, and you need to stand out or she will forget about your message, as it goes down below the others on her feed

That's really deep man.

Thanks for sharing your insights with the forum.

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Your results are often decided within minutes of encountering a women. When it starts is when it ends. Her decision is almost final. No such thing as creating attraction.

I have some instinctive opposition to this because I did create attraction with a woman once, starting from a position of no attraction. However:

1) It took great effort.
2) It took a very long time;
3) I actually changed in that time span, and so did she;

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Well, I'm assuming that people have the brains to add 2 and 2 together when a dude with a ****ing Ludwig Wittgenstein avatar starts posting like a BB.com regular.

There are a lot of intelligent people on BB.com.

 

[blackg]

Even then variables exist, and you might just of gotten Lucy that day.

Who's Lucy?

 

[FWIW]

I think this is sad and its especially thing of big western cities. I dont know what sustainable pleasure that can bring. I think itjust spins circle of neverending frustration.If those people think they can **** themselves to happiness with random people.

 

[Rudiger]

Well, I'm assuming that people have the brains to add 2 and 2 together when a dude with a ****ing Ludwig Wittgenstein avatar starts posting like a BB.com regular.

Your new thread is a 99% serious post except one single phrase about "low tier slayer", I mean c'mon! How are people supposed to get the parody from someone who doesn't make these sort of jokes? You can call other people brainless but perhaps you don't quite realise how comedic delivery works (yes even writing on a forum).

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H.I' analysis of me never seizes to amaze me. I should reach out to him.

I don't think I even did analyse you in this thread but anyway, you keep proving my points.

 

[Dench57]

I will post my field report & theories she I get ahold of a computer.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Don't know where to ask this, but does anybody know the fraction of tinder profiles that are fake?

 

[Marky]

The only problem is often getting to that stage. A lot of the time most women wont give you that time of day, to the point where you actualy meet. Your physical attraction will determine how receptive towards how quick she is to dismiss you. Social media and dating is like high speed p**rn for women. They quickly click, match, text and talk to many men daily. Only the most physically dominant man will get her attention to the point where they meet. Even then variables exist, and you might just of gotten Lucy that day. Dating applications for women is the modern day equivellant of pornography for men. Novelty dies out quick, and you need to stand out or she will forget about your message, as it goes down below the others on her feed


Saturday when I met up with that chick I discussed earlier. I simply messaged 'hey let's h g out' she was quick to.reply 'when and where'. It was that easy! Granted most women will not go to your house/hotel as a first date. However this happened, we met outside and then had drinks at my hotel. She actualy told me I was to slow to mame a move. I told her I wanted to establish some connection. She responded by telling me that we have talked enough. In my mind I didn't feel insulted but couldn't help but think that or genetics are the blue prints that form are fate from the day we are born
She disn't care what I had to say, it was 100% physical between us, all though we did have great conversation.

I have always been well spoken, and contrivuted this to my success but came to realize on these days off it didn't mean anything when I comparr my previous encounters. If anything it can deter her attention else where. A volunteer women that I talked with my entire stay confirmed this. We had great chemistry, spoke everyday, but her actions on us fornicating said other wise. It never happened all though she had me coined that we would. The attraction was lost. The more yu talk, the less like yu will get laid. Make t happen quick the worry about creating chemistry.





I have to much to type, and this phon texting is to much. I will post my field report & theories she I get ahold of a computer.

That's interesting, but what was she on the 10 scale? Be honest. Normally attractive woman wouldn't resort to this type of stuff.

 

[shookwun]

I was surprised myself. I've mentioned numerous times that I almost never bed a women on the first date unless copious amounts of alchohol was involved & we we meet up some where like a club.


The last girl this happened to was back in mid-late April. Suprisingly both were extremely hot.


If say she was a solid 7.5 while the other I sagged in April was a 8.

It is possible, but unlikely. From my experience meeting at night preferably a bar will maximize your chance fr a first night lay. Even then, it's not guaranteed. She's gotta have a lot of fun around you, dancing & mentaly stimulating conversations.


The volunteer girl was like a 6. Average face, great body.

I don't know what it is about east coast girls but they are the dirtiest girls I have met. Love to party and have rough sex. Lots of dirty talk, biting and overall fun sex.

 

[parisienne]

That's interesting, but what was she on the 10 scale? Be honest. Normally attractive woman wouldn't resort to this type of stuff.

I'm pretty sure it's forbidden in the Holy Bible to rate people on dat scale

 

[blackg]

I'm pretty sure it's forbidden in the Holy Bible to rate people on dat scale

That's exactly what I was thinking.
Maybe this Marky boy has been hanging around the forums too long.

 

[shookwun]

I use an imperial rating scale designed by the user H.I for objectively rating women.

 

[Roberto_72]

I was surprised myself. I've mentioned numerous times that I almost never bed a women on the first date unless copious amounts of alchohol was involved & we we meet up some where like a club.


The last girl this happened to was back in mid-late April. Suprisingly both were extremely hot.


If say she was a solid 7.5 while the other I sagged in April was a 8.

It is possible, but unlikely. From my experience meeting at night preferably a bar will maximize your chance fr a first night lay. Even then, it's not guaranteed. She's gotta have a lot of fun around you, dancing & mentaly stimulating conversations.


The volunteer girl was like a 6. Average face, great body.

I don't know what it is about east coast girls but they are the dirtiest girls I have met. Love to party and have rough sex. Lots of dirty talk, biting and overall fun sex.

In Southern Europe sex on a first "online" date happens only in exceptional circumstances. As in: one of the two is a foreigner, or on vacation. Or the girl has super high libido. Or the guy is Thor-level-hot.
Otherwise it does never happen.

 

[Exodus2011]

Alright. I'll say though that he'll have to grow thick skin quickly if he wants to get out there with his balding pate. If he's so sensitive that comments like that are enough to rock his self-esteem, he's headed for bad places. I don't want to get into a huge argument with people defending the op by saying this, but I feel it's the truth.

And I just want to say that my short-lived experience as a "slayer" confirms most of what shookwun is saying here. If a girl is horny for you, you can say and do a lot and she'll still come back to spread her legs at the end of the day.

so instead of apologizing you make a super weak attempt at justification. *sigh* nevermind. i guess you arent capable of admitting wrong

 

[Onyx3266]

I really don't care, it's not like my feelings were hurt... I don't know why this thread has turned into something completely else, it's pretty sad. And Zircon, I agree with Exodus, just admit that you did the wrong thing and stop trying to justify it. I have thick skin, I don't care about what others say. I don't know how almost every person seems to be ridiculed because of baldness, but I've never been made fun of for being bald. However, it's easy to insult a stranger over a keyboard, for no reason at all, like you did. A new member at that LOL...

 

[Marky]

I'm pretty sure it's forbidden in the Holy Bible to rate people on dat scale

True. No 10 scale in the great book, either hot or cold, no luke warm. Devil or angel, goat or lamb, in the lambs book of life or not.

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I really don't care, it's not like my feelings were hurt... I don't know why this thread has turned into something completely else, it's pretty sad. And Zircon, I agree with Exodus, just admit that you did the wrong thing and stop trying to justify it. I have thick skin, I don't care about what others say. I don't know how almost every person seems to be ridiculed because of baldness, but I've never been made fun of for being bald. However, it's easy to insult a stranger over a keyboard, for no reason at all, like you did. A new member at that LOL...

My first response was similar in theory to zircons. Onyx be honest, what scale of woman do you hit on, you can't come here say you're feeling down cause you made a move on a 10/10 supermodel and she wasn't receptive. Hey we all have to be realistic.

 

[Exodus2011]

I wasn't attempting to insult him. It was intended as a joke and a play on a specific posting style. Your incessant need to make me apologize for something I threw out on a whim is getting pretty annoying, to be honest. I've handled much worse including direct insults from Exo calling me ugly and that all the women I have had were ugly. What I said didn't even come close to that.

Off topic, but I hope this forum doesn't degenerate into a PC ****hole like every other place out there. Part of what makes the Impact section great is its brutal honesty.

and i admitted i was wrong/apologized, unlike you. again, more weak rationalization. and really it was pretty close, considering how vulnerable OP made himself.

 

[Exodus2011]

You only apologized months after the fact, and no, what I said wasn't anything close to what you said. Don't even for a second pretend that it was.

not pretending lol. and i still apologized lol. it was weeks iirc, not months. after everything you have posted it was kinda justified anyways

 

[Exodus2011]

It was months. I left the board after our spat where you literally called Indonesian women "dark, cheap pussy that makes me want to throw up". I came back three months later. You then sent me a pm apologizing in reply to something else I sent you, I never even brought it up.

Your current reaction is more a function of your defense mechanisms and sensitivity over your inceldom than any slight of mine. Another useless distraction from the interesting discussions that make this board worth coming back to.

ok like i said i at least admitted to wrongdoing, unlike you

jesus like 8 posts later and you still can't apologize. even MORE rationalization lol. now its even worse and you are trying to both trash me while distracting from yourself just lol. even OP said you are justifying.

 

[Onyx3266]

Man, you guys are kids. How did something as simple as what I posted start this petty squabbling? I'm out of these forums.