On the pursuit of beauty for Cis-males:
As I say often, the level of discussion on this thread is very, very high. It's not often that one hears references to Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche on a baldness thread. I gave up on trying to help people on Tressless as it is all but useless since everyone believes in minoxidil and finasteride-dependent hair and every other question is the same exact question about "I tried finasteride and now I can't get wood" or a question about minoxidil and finasteride sheds that end up terrifying other people off these meds. Will I lose my minoxidil hair if I switch to finasteride or vice versa?
What? Hair is hair. I never considered parts of my hair to belong to polysorbates and parts to belong to minoxidil and finasteride and now estrogen. What about oral minoxidil? Virtually everything on Tressless is mindless by people who apparently don't know how to scroll since they can get the answers to these questions literally 25 times daily. Granted, most of the answers are wrong, but still.
Then there are the questions where people expect others to confirm that their hair loss is just Telogen Effluvium from "stress"; when you tell them that is highly unlikely then they argue with you about their parents divorce and how hard they work in college. Been there, done that back when I was 20. I do think we need to find a better description for diffuse thinning but how do you know if something is just a shed? Well, since I posted earlier my pics of the ultimate shed from last summer through October, I think that you know if the hair not only grows back but it should grow back better if using some treatment and at least as well if not using one. My feeling is that virtually all of these guys are in denial. Maturing hairlines anyone?
For MtFs, it is always about switching meds to try to increase breast size; cis-females can't increase breast size; why would MtFs think that they are different? Many/most MtFs simply have unrealistic expectations about what HRT can achieve, besides hair, the one area where HRT can entirely mimic the female experience but some of this is due to wigs not being perceived as a stigma in this setting where for many, emulation of divas and female impersonators is seen as the ideal. This has a strong class element to it that cuts across the kumbaya notions of all MtFs "being in this together". To each their own but....
Lol, I can tell I am getting older since I only learned the term incel this summer on a show on Youtube called Cringeworthy by Natalie Wynn, the one MtF that I know of who is both as tall as Brooke Shields and actually better looking, at least now. It basically dealt with what our obligations are when other people are embarrassing themselves in public and thereby embarrassing the "good MtFs" who put in ultimate effort versus those who tell everyone that they don't need beard or hair removal or even to shave since they are "hippie types" or non-binary. Family members tend to fear that we are going to embarrass them and I have done my level best to lend no cause to disparagement of transgender females but should that being any concern of mine, either way? I believe in always dressing to the 9's for my fellow citizens and any of us who grow hair are simply more pleasant to look at and to be around. If a person wears a dress, they ought to look good in it unless they are just trying to break down gender clothing barriers but eh....
If I don't harp on it enough, MtF hormonal therapy is transformative from head to toe and it virtually always, along with beard removal takes 15 to 25 years off one's face and just as much off tired, worn-out bodies as essentially all skin and non-bone tissue is rematrixed and feels female/pre-pubertal in terms of softness and smoothness. My bad back went away; my overly-muscled neck began to actually turn 270 degrees without pain, my dermatitis, my baldness, the lines on my face and forehead all improved and I lost much of my desire for alcohol. My skin became much paler and facially, this creamy aspect is becoming and experienced by virtually all, regardless of race.
The downsides? I am slightly weaker; I run more slowly; I bruise and cut more easily and in female garb, I now know why females avoid strange men and look down when crossing paths with unknown males because we are at risk since virtually all cis-males exceed 170 cm while only about 15% of females do. Honestly, when controlling for body mass, females are not in fact substantially weaker than males, especially in terms of lower body strength, but females are invariable smaller on average, usually about four inches or so. In some countries, male average close to six feet but for females, the average maxes out around 170 cm. Wikipedia has average height listings for all nations but the Slavic and Scandinavian and Northern Germanic (Dutch, German) folks tend to be the tallest. Americans are losing height probably due to immigration from Central American and other nations where nutrition may be scarce. Once I dumped spironolactone, my strength came back all but instantly. To me, that is nasty stuff with serious life style side effects plus it raises T unlike MPA.
To have this chance in middle age is mind-blowing to me. I am fine with using my "male" name and ditching the skirts and dresses but I would never go off HRT. That's how awesome it is and that's how awesome it feels psychologically not to need to "conquer" women or chase five orgasms in a day or to be stuck in a rut about the same stupid fantasies like the cuckold crowd who seem to have taken over a big chunk of p**rn and which is entirely humiliation-based. Humiliation as being erotic is completely absent when a person hits adult female E2 and T targets and much more so when an AA is added to the mix. Hours and hours of weekly time are available to spend on things not related to sex. Some might notice that I write a lot, lol. Oh yeah, I also sleep much less now under HRT.
Sexual preference appears to often not be involved for older MtFs when compared with younger ones, who tend to grow up more openly effeminate. I use all of these terms without disparagement as one has to "reclaim" such terms to become comfortable and to move past the deeply embedded notions of shame related to males wanting to be more like females. Calling it androgyny works far better for me and once you can wear a dress in public during transition and not just after, you have pretty much conquered all of the shame.
It's liberating and together with restoration of hair and looks simply exceeds anything that I could have ever dreamed of. I am now at the age where it's expected and "okay" to be bald but that's simply not for me. I do have several children and a beautiful ex-wife so I would never counsel anyone to go down this road without living out those goals or permission from their partner because nothing is worth losing loved ones. But estrogen has the potential to make essentially all better, male, female and other. I don't mind being called a tranny or the guys who come on trying to shame us for doing this and that's what the anti-finasteride and anti-HRT folks who come on here are attempting to do lest they fall even further behind.
We get the last laugh when we look at their regimens knowing that none of it is likely to work. Tressless folks are always talking about treatments in the future. The future is here. Virtually all of MtF HRT is reversible and even more so when using high level techniques like serms, although that can become overly complicated. Baldness for non-breeders is a choice and for most, not using finasteride is simply fatuous; these folks generally have no knowledge of statistics or false positives or placebo/nocebo effects; this makes them unable to proper diagnose their pseudo-disorders; ultimately they lack the ability to engage in proper risk analysis.
Just to add this about cis-females who have their own motivations but most of them do put extra effort in to look better for family, friends and neighbors while the male stereotype is a guy wearing a 12 year old t-shirt, gross underwear and one sock as he vapidly turns cable channels. Makeup can do wonders for everyone, male and female alike. Females know intuitively the power and expressiveness of makeup. Cis-males over time, except for perhaps gay bottoms (generalization) don't trade on their looks and have instead used their utility in terms of brute force work and accumulated wealth to attract partners. That doesn't work in a post-industrial society so of course in many ways, baldness is much worse now than in the olden days.
The sexes are balanced in that I see females as superior in virtually all ways but notice none of them want to be lumberjacks or steel works or miners. Males in the past did things that I would never even consider. At the same time, virtually all geniuses, especially in math, physics and music are male, as are most of the idiots and deviants. Females are more attractive than males all but univerally after puberty. The Ancient Greeks knew this; when did the rest of us forget that most of us lose our looks starting as young as 13.
For cis-males who want not only to restore hair but to be more attractive, I would suggest soft androgyny or to follow the styles of Brad Pitt, Jeff Bridges, Richard Gere and the Beatles, folks who always had great hair that could be worn long. Don't be afraid to consider botox on the masseter muscles or other areas of the face; if you have the funds, try micro-needling the face in a salon. Even lip injections can promote attractiveness for whites since our lips often wither as we age. Since you will be smiling a lot with your new hair, consider fixing up teeth for the folks past 40. My father was a Captain in the Marine Corps but the Beatles raised me. They made caring about male looks and hair both cool and acceptable compared to the crew cut days where going bald barely mattered.
Goddess bless.