Both sides of the conflict are not distinguished by intelligence and present loud value judgments as arguments.
... unlike the transphobes in this thread, I will have an argument: hair on the head has a greater impact on attractiveness than body changes that are not noticeable under clothing or are only slightly noticeable. You claim that sacrificing your body is too much, yet your head is visible to other people every time you leave the house, and your body is hidden under clothes. Head > body. Besides, everyone has different preferences when it comes to appearance, how the hell do you decide what's right and what's wrong?
Transphobic claims are equally baseless. 0 arguments, but a lot of stereotypes and ignorance.
I laugh at how much some people try to demonize testosterone because of how much suffering it has caused them specifically, but I forget that everyone else is saying even dumber sh*t lol.
I'll try to actually reason with you on this and hope the pointless insults can stop. I don't care if you are gay, trans, straight on hormones or just want to have breasts or anything, so I'll try to keep this universal:
1) If it is "Head > Body" for you, then you also need to keep in mind that head consists of many other things: facial fat distribution, skin, facial hair, bone structure. Some of these are affected by estrogen and some are permanent. You may be an exception to this, but "manly facial structure + smooth soft skin" is uncanny. People who switch s*x hormones later in life can easily have a very weird look. Again, you may look great and cute and all, but I bet the majority of the men cannot pull it off.
2) Looks are not everything. Hair is important and all, but I very much hope that the people you are in contact with in your life is not entirely because of their hair follicles on their head. Of course, initially when getting to know someone it may be important, but everyone is judged much more by their actions. As a man, this even influences your attractiveness more. You wouldn't like to be surrounded with superficial people whose only topic is plastic surgery, right?
3) It is not just "switching hormones". You have a default hormone. You can mess up really bad your hormone production and you will be on your own. Most doctors don't have a clue how to help you out. Are you ready to explain your hormone regimen for each cardiologist / surgeon / endocrinologist ... you will have to visit? (You have to live in a very liberal area for that.) Saying that you know how to handle your hormones is very risky, not to mention potential supply chain issues.
4) Even if your head will look absolutely cute, you may gain fat you don't want. And yes, your figure is visible through the clothes. If you have muscles, they will show through. You even walk entirely differently if you are muscular compared to having gained fat on your a**. Your "male body" can only possibly be maintained if you are eating at a women's calorie deficit (as others said), which is just not sustainable.
So obviously I think that advertising hormones and arguing which is better is pointless. I personally think that the only time you may consider suppressing testosterone / taking estrogen is:
- When you actually crave a feminine body and you are not built too manly with broad shoulders and wide ribcage
- You cannot deal with your urges and want to calm down
- You live in a very liberal area